Question Posted Saturday November 25 2006, 3:01 am
okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he is getting kind of upset because i cannot open up to him. opening up as in telling him how i feel about everything, our whole relationship. i am completely in love with him so i know thats not it. i want to be able to i just can`t find the words to say he wants to know what i think about it, how i feel about him, etc etc... i have tried but, i can`t and this is a really big deal to him and i want to be able to do this for him. so can someone please help me or send me ur sn. i`ll rate high!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? justaskVy answered Saturday November 25 2006, 1:09 pm: maybe you can't tell him how you feel is because you don't trust him? Or its hard for you open up to your bf. You should take it slow, tell him the importance things. Show him that you love him too before you lose him. The rest will come naturally and later on when you're more comfortable and ready to be open with him. Being openly with someone that means that person must have all your trust. That's when you're allowing to tell that person how you feel. You might be scared, what if you open up and he doesn't respond or etc.
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SoDown007 answered Saturday November 25 2006, 12:07 pm: being in a relationship with someone you like/love means being able to tell that person anything without feeling unconfortable. try going slow first try to tell him how you really feel about him without feeling so weird about it. then tell him about some of the other stuff you think you should let him knoe . my screename is
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SecretBoy89 answered Saturday November 25 2006, 8:38 am: If he wants you to open up then open up. I mean he just wants to know how you feel about things... He wants to know whats on your mind. If you really love him then just tell him that. He loves you too, thats why he's asking you to open up to him. He wants you to be closer to him and you should be happy about that. Not many guys are like that. Just tell him exactly how you feel about him, it'll make him happy and it'll make you happy too since you will have let it all out and you will open up to him. ; )
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