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long distance relationship.
i have been in love with this amazing guy for 2 years. he has been my everything. but he moved shortly after we fell in love. and its just been downhill from there. he recently came down to visit me. and showed up at christmas last year. when hes away, it seems like he doesnt care. he dates on and off with girls up where he lives. but he tells me he loves me. but when hes down here, im the only girl he sees. and he is totally mine. he knows the situations in my life. (they arent really all that great... parents and school and friends problems) but it just seems like he only cares about me when hes here. i told him that i needed him to express his love more to me because hearing it would help me get through all this shit. and he tried calling. but noone answered cause we were in a family arguement. (go figure. we always are). and everytime i try to leave him, he says something that keeps me right here waiting for him. hes my first love. (if that matters) i want to let go, but i need someone to help me through this. i know that if i try to let go, hes gonna try and keep me here waiting for him. we talk about our "future" constantly. so what do i do?
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I've been in your situation before. If a guy does that to you, he's not worth waiting for. Apparently he's not waiting for you. He's out there experiencing and having a time of his life while you're here waiting for him. If he really loves you then he wouldn't date any other girls. Guys likes to have a girl on a side that's always going to be there. If he doesn't have a chick, he goes to you. You can get a courage to stand up for yourself and end it with him. Be strong, let him know you're not always going to be around. If he say one of those sweet things that make your heart melt, try not to fall for it. Its hard I know, but if he knows he doesn't have you then maybe he'll try harder to get you. When he waits for you and he would do anything for you til he goes broke, then that's when he really loves you. Distance shouldn't be a problem, if he loves you that shouldn't be the issue to your relationship.
he seems like my ex. He's there for you and all. Sweet talk, show that he cares, its like you're the only girl in his life. But really, you don't know how many other girls he mighs be saying the same thing to. He makes you laugh when you're down. He talks you through your problems. You know that he's the one but does he think the same way? You guys might talk about the future but is he really going to put it in action? think it through. Look at all the possibilities and use your head less. Listen to how you feel toward the situation and put it into action. if he loves you, he won't go anywhere. Its hard to forget your first love. He'll always be in your heart. All I can say is do what you think is right because in the end it is you that's making a choice, it is that might get hurt or be loved. Whatever the consequence is, it is up to you.
I hope I helped out. good luck. and hope you make the right choice. (don't rate if you don't like the advice or it doesn't help nor make any sense)
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