My ex puts a status EVERY day, which are lyrics to love songs. (One in particular that I said reminded me of him) We only broke up 3 days ago. And when I asked him whether he wanted to give it another try he said "I just don't know" He says he still loves me, and he didn't want to break up, but he was fed up of arguing.
Are these lyrics aimed at me, or someone else do you think?
i think that they are for you he still loves you and feels that the only way that he can get his point across to you is by him posting them on facebook. i think that you guys could have still been together if you guys didnt argue alot bt i think he still loves you alot bt oviously your nt seeing that through =/ i think that you guys should really talk about the situation
anywaysss hope i helped (:
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ok i know this is long but please read i need help.
ok so me and my ex bf hang out like everyday. i dont go to school with him i am outside of his school life. i know the real him more than anyone. He acts like he likes me always flirts with me its almost like were together but were not. He said to me guess what and i said what. He said nevermind you wouldnt care. Then knowing how relentless i am i had to know so i asked him to tell me. He said this girl from my school likes me and her friend is going to ask her to go out with me. and i know who this girl is and i heard from people that she dont know him and they dont hang out. After he told me i had an attitude and was mad and 5 min later he said i told you that you wouldnt want to know. then he said sorry but i didnt care. Then he said that he just had to tell me and then i said why me of all people. I am thinking he just wants to be cool because he told me before that he did certain things at school just because he wanted to be cool. so for almost the rest of the day i was mad and i kept asking if i was still mad and i didnt say anything and he kept saying sorry then he started to get sas because i wouldnt accept his apology and then tried to keep on hugging me and then i kept saying get away. then he said its not like im even going out with her i dont even know if its true. on the bright side of this we never usually talk about how we used to be together without him saying he doesnt want to talk about it and get all mad. and i said to him i dont want to know who my ex bf goes out with. and he said he wouldnt get mad over that like me but i said girls are different from boys. then later he sat next to me and i said eww get away and then i said sorry for saying that. he ignored me and i noticed he was trying to act just like me. and he was he because he said how does it feel to not have your apology accepted. i am thinking is he trying to prove a piont. oviosly he must really care how i feel and that i am mad at him. the next day we didnt really talk about it he was just messing with me and trying to jump on my back to and putting his arm around me trying to hug me. if anything i would think i act like his gf already because i am always at his house around him going places with him.
maybe he still has feelings for you bt nt the way they were before bt now that you guys have gotten closer to each other since the break up maybe he is gettting to know you better then before. maybe the girl he's dating isnt really for him maybe your for him bt he doesnt realize that yet. and he cares about you feelings because he oviously still cares for you laugh out loud. maybe he cant see him ex girlfriend mad at him over something so stupid i think that you guys will end up getting back together cause you guys sound cute together. bt he was still trying to prove appoint when he ignored you i think you guys still have love for each other but dnt want to admitt it to one another. hope i could help =] ! need more advice keep asking!!
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
lol its okay i have all the time in the world to take time and help someone out =] ! okk soo i guess what your trying to say is that your boyfriend made a facebook and yu guys had the relationship status thing and he hid it from yu?
i think that you should b with him maybe he isnt hiding anything and your jus conrtidicting yourself you have yu have to have trust with one another in order to make a relationship work and you cant jus assum things dont jump to conclusions jus keep asking him questions and i think that you should tell him how you feel about the situtation because if you break up with him what u r going to say im breaking up with you because i dont trust you? that doesnt sound right i think that you need to go deeper into the situatiuon first before you break up i dont think that he's doing anything wrong bt then again he could be ok so there are a couple ways to no if your boyfriends hiding something from you
1. lack of communictaion
2. avoideseye contact
3. is being really generious
4. change in behavior...
i hope i helped and i really hope everything i goes good for yu
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18, Female.
This is SO weird, but I'm not complaining :) Just curious.
I've only been fingered twice, nothing else has been in my vagina. Well I get wet really easily, and it's a lot. The first time I had sex, I was SO scared it was going to hurt and it didn't hurt ONE BIT, NOTHING. I was shocked, is this normal? I'm scared if I do it again or something it's going to hurt, but I don't know if it will since it didn't the first time??
And, the guy I had sex with didn't believe I was a virgin. Long story, no I don't regret having sex with him we're friends. But what I'm asking is ..is this a good or bad thing? He knew I was before, told him to be careful with me and he said he would but I know he still didn't believe me. After we had sex and were laying in bed, I said you took my virginity you know that? I was a virgin. He smiled and looked at me and said "No you weren't ;)"
I don't know if I was loose or something, or if I was just good at it? Haha I was wondering, why he still didn't think I was a virgin before I had sex with him. What do you guys think?
haha !
GREAT QUESTION!
okk well i am a virgin and my ex.. thought that i wasnt a virgin bt i am.. so one day i asked him i said why you dont think im a virign and he said because the way i look because i have curves and things like that... i was like right. bt idk why guys think that girls arent virgin when they really are. and maybe the first time when you had sex didnt hurt because your active. (NOT SEXAULLY ACTIVE) laugh out loud bt i mean like play play a sport or something because when you play a sport it is most likely that you wont feel any pain. and i mad that he didnt beleiev you when you told him that he took your viriginty shaking my head...guys are dumb. he probably thought you werent a virgin because for most girls it would usaually hurt and for you it didnt.
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I started talking too a guy, A, about 8 months ago. He lives in another state then I do, but we've been making it work. He's a little bit closed off, just like I am, but there's something about him I just can't give up. He's in the same career I am, and that's music. He's very sweet and not normally my type. Though he tours all the time, I still get to see him when I can. We have a connection I've never felt before. I'm crazy about this guy.
But then about 4 months ago, I met this guy, B, through friends and he's been amazing. We spend so much time together. He's the same age as A, has the same career as I do, but doesn't really tour. He lives near by me. He's going to school and doing music. He's got a good head on his shoulders and has a back up plan in life.
Both of these guys are the same age. Have the same career, although A is more successful then B is. And I'm crazy about both of them. I know that I can make it work, long distance with A, but I don't know if I should just stay with B. I feel like B is the safe bet, and A is a risk. But it's a game between my heart and my head and I don't want to feel like I settled for anyone. I need serious help with this. I want to choose because I feel terrible seeing both of them.
Please give me your input.
-Anndie
i think that you should go for boy b.. just because he will always be there for you and the other one wont. i mean you got to sit there and think who makes yu happier and who will always by your side when you need them. that good that you have alot of qulities together. money isnt anything by the way. if you really like or "love" someone then you wouldnt care who's more successful or not bt i think that b would treat you better and b more faithful because he lives near you the whole long ditance thing might not work out as you may have it planned.. i hope i didnt get you more confused laugh out loud bt i hope i helped =]]
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i got my wisdom teeth out on monday the 23 and i got my stiches out yesterday the 30th. is it okay if i can smoke weed now? does anyone know because i heard you cant after you get your wisdom teeth out because of blood clots?
i honestly do not think that you should smoke weed at all bt thats just in my opion i mean there is so much more in life then jus getting high i mean sure its what people do now and days bt i dnt think thats a health thing to do.. i mean i bet you have high expectations for yourself and smoking isnt going to get yu no where in life. it can make you lose out on job oppertunties many things. and why would you want to smoke weed right after you got your widom teeth out thats dumb and no your not suppose to smoke right after because of the blood clots in your teeth you have to wait four days after. hope i helped =]]
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Well me and my boyfriend yes the Jeff guy we started dating and well he is wanting to get "serious" and im cool with that as long as we dont have sex. I promised everyone, me and God also i would wait until i was married. But what do i do if he wants to have sex? FYI im 13 1/2 and hes 14. I dont think im old enough but all my friends do it but idk... I mean its okay to fool around and have some fun but i dont want him to take it farther than that. Its just too much for me to take in right now. I mean i "want" to have sex sooo badly but i dont want to break my promise, or my cherry....yet...... im in eight grade and all but i just reallyyyyy donntttt knooowwwww.............
listen i understand where you coming from bt you are TOO YOUNG to be thinking about sex.. yes now and days it may seem like every one is doing it but in realty there not. you have your whole life to have sex and remember it only takes one chance to get pregant you and your boyfriend dont no what sex is about yet. you can think about sex wehn your older and im glad that you have goals for yourself by promising to God that you wont have sex thats good ! i think you should keep your proimse to God. and i know that sometimes you might b tempted to have sex bt i dnt think yu should give in and jus end it right then and there. your in eighth grade you shouldnt b having sex and for all the friends you hang out that have sex im jus shaking my head because that is so sad. God has made us for marriage not to jus give all are things away dont you want to have sex with someone who you will b with for ever? i mean realisticly do you really think that you and this jeff guy will b together for ever? idk i jus hope i helped if you need anything else hit me up =]] !
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What exactly happens if you have sex during your period? Is there a chance you can get pregnant? Also, dont guys thing its gross for having sex while your bleeding? I would like girl and guy replies please(: its urgent.
having your period while having sex is pretty gross (by the way im a girl ) lol and you can still get pregnant because even tho your on your period you can still be ovulating and would you actually have sex when your on your period? laugh out loud i think thats nasty his penis will b covered in blood and stuff i dont think you should do that your better of having sex with a condom.. shaking my head laugh out loud well i hope i helped you =]]
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im in high school and i had a crush on this guy ever since freshman year and i am a junior now. so his sister is a freshman this year and i have a study hall with her. so she asked me who i would ask to sadie hawkins and i said no one and she suggested i take her brother. she was pretty enthusiastic about it actually. the weird part is, is that she and i never talked before and i find it odd she told me to ask her brother. i wasn't planning on it but now i think i might ask him. should i ask him since i technically got the sister approval
i think you should =] i mean if you liked him before then go head and do it girl lol bt really i think that you getting his sisters approval is even a better pluse because now you know that you guys will all get along. hope i helped =]]
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How can I tell my boyfriend i want to wait for his next birthday to have sex with him. He wants to lose his virginity now, but i want to wait 'till im a little older. How do i tell him without him getting mad or like being o.k. with me wanting to wait?
okk i can relate to you in this one.. i went out with a guy who all he wanted was sex sex sex and thats all he ever talked about.. i think that you and your boyfriend should have a serious conversation about this and just tell him how you feel tell him everything. and be honest dont hold things back and if he doesnt respect your decision then he's not worth it bt im pretty sure he will wait for you if he really cares for you a relationship isnt always about sex its about showing each other how much you care for each other and having a good time if he cant see that in you then he is missing out on a lot... i think it will wokr out for you tho i hope i helped youu =]] !
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If there wuz no way i could get birth control. Besides using a condom, how else could i become safe for sex?
there are other contrspetive there is no 100% way to prevent pregancy or an std beside not having sex at all bt you could get a shot thats called the depo shot and that lets you have sex with out having a condom every month bt you wouldnt be the sane cause you dont get your period and things like that bt idk and there are things like the before and after pill and other contrictives i hope i helped you =]]
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I know this girl at school. She sleeps around a lot and I know she's had at least two abortions since we've been in high school together. I was talking to one of my best friends and she said she heard the girl had 4 abortions total since she was 13 and that her parents paid for them so she wouldn't have a baby so young. I don't know about that. 4 sounds like a lot. I know she told people (including me and a teacher) before about having at least 2 but I think there is probably like a limit to how many abortions a person can have. Is there?
GREAT QUESTION
im nt sure of the answer tho but if you keep on having abortions i do no that it can put the baby that you do want to have at a high risk of having bad medical problems and there is this girl at my skool who has had 6 abortions since she was 13 also she is now 18 (shaking my head) thats so said oviously if you dont want to have a baby then dont you think you should get on birth control or use a condom there are so many ways to prevent pregancy and abortions and its so sad.. idk well i hope i helped you even tho i dnt really no how many you can have i dont think that there is really a limit i just think the doctor can refuse to abort the baby if you had so many.
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when you have sex for the first time but he didnt pop your cherry does it mean yor still a virgin ?
no you are not a virgin anymore... once you have sex (intercourse) you are no longer a virgin... when the penis enter the viginia it expands it and pops the "cherry"n and bamm you are no longer a virgin. hope this helpedd =]]
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OK so i recently had oral with my boyfriend. I had him tell me when he wuz going to sperm so i could stop doing oral and jack him off to let him sperm. I wuznt wearing underwear at the time. but my vagina wasnt really near his penis. Then he kinda felt his sperm when it wuz on his stomach. It wuz also on my hand. He picked up my underwear with the hand he felt the sperm with, but the sperm wuz hardening. Then I was going to put the underwear back on but I thought about it and didnt put it back on. After all that, we washed our hands and he washed his penis and etc. Later that night he fingered me. And to be truthful he wanted me to finger myself with him so i did. Do you know if you can get pregnant from getting fingered after my boyfriend ejaculated, but then washed his hands and stuff? I am always so very worried if i will get pregnant or not. Do you think im pregnant?
yess you can get pregeant that way bt what you did was good you washed your hands before you put your underwear on thats a good thing ! i think that next time when your giving oral you should keep your clothes on.. take them off later.. because you want to b precocious you dont want to have a baby at a very young age.. hope this helpedd =]]
NOO YOUR NOT PREGANT
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What would happen if my boyfriend wore 2 condoms instead of one? would that make it more safe? what exactly would happen?
noooo there is no 100% way to prevent a precancy or std.. wearing two condoms can actually be worst then just wearing one... the friction from the two condoms will rub against each other and cause them to rip/tare. i dont think that you should use to condoms if you want to b more safer maybe you should think about birth control bt still use a condom thats more safe hope i helped =]]]
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I've been dating My boyfriend for awhile. We always use condoms when We have sex. Always. I started on birth control pills about like maybe 6 or 7 months ago now. I always take them on time no matter what. I'm not stupid. My boyfriend and I had sex last month like usual. We used a condom every time and everything. Neither of Us thought any of the condoms We had used broke or busted or tore or whatever you call it. We had no cause to think I could get pregnant.
My period was late. I took a pregnancy test and it said + positive for pregnancy. I didn't have sex with anybody else. I read these things don't lie. Is this for real though? I mean, is it really possible to get pregnant when using birth control pills AND condoms? I mean WTF. Should I take another test or see a doctor?
There is no 100 % way to prevent pregenacy besides abstinence bt anyways condoms can break even if you dont feel them and if you miss one day of your birth control pill it can mess up everything... bt i dont think your pregant i jus think that your period will jus come late you should def. go see a doctor and do a blood test because that will tell you the truth pregenacy tests arent always accurate either. before you see the doctor i think you should take one more pregancy test and see if you get the same result if you do i really think you should see a doctor... hope this helped =]]]] !
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How could i tell my boyfriend that i loved him without really saying the words "i love you." Also, if my boyfriend is mad at me for any reason, how could i fix it quickly?
okk you can show someone you love them by being by there side no matter what and always understanding the sistuation that their in. you can also tell him how much you care for him for exam if you guys are hanging out and cuddling look him in the eyes and be like baby you know i care for yu alot right? he'll know you mean love.... does your boyfriend get mad at you often? because if he does then i dont think that you guys will have a health relationship if he's always getting mad at you. Bt if he is mad and you want him nt to bg mad at you just give him time to think dont jus argue with him bak because then that will make the situation worst. i think you guys should talk about things i hope that this helpss you =]]
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I have been fingered roughly many times before. 2-5 fingers to be exact. I wuz wondering if the vagina stretches the more times you get fingered roughly. Also, if you get fingered a lot, does that ease the pain when you have sex for the first time? like, people say it hurts a lot for the first time and yu bleed. I wuz wondering if there wuz anyway to prepare for sex to not make it hurt as bad to make it pleasurable when the penis goes in and comes out.
GREATT QUESTIOON!!
okk well when you have sex your very first time of course its ganna hurt maybe a lot or maybe even just a little bt either way its going to hurt because your vagina isnt stretched out yet. and a boy can tell if a girl is a virgin or not. and the whole bleeeding thing yes you will bleed bt not ALOT like when your on your period this jus means that he popped your "cherry" bt anyways the best thing that you can do is just make sure he gets you "wet" no homo and jus stay calm and relaxed just stay loose and dnt tighten up i think that what makes it hurts if a girl i scared they tend to tighten up and its unconfortable and acward ! hope this helpss =] !
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I am a seventeen year old female and i have wanted to get my tongue pierced for a while. problem is, my mother might kill me if she finds out. i am determined to get it done, i just need help with how to hide it. she threatened to kick m 21 yr old sister when she got hers done, tried to rip it out herself and refused to speak to my sister until she took it out. i am seventeen, God only knows what she would do to me. can someone please help me by telling me how to hide a fresh tngue piercing? (i HAVE to speak around her, she's uber religious and makes me pray the rosary everynight. so absolute silence is not an option)
i dont think that you should get it pireced i mean just sit down with her and have a conversation with her and tell her why you want to get it pierced and tell her that jus because your getting your tongue pireced that it does not mean that she should change her views of you. you are who you are and she raised you GREAT she has to let you have your freedom some day maybe she thinks its unpure for God bt she has to let you do the things you want to do sometimes i dnt think you should hide the tongue pirecing from her because she is eventaully going to find out and there are many risks for tongue pirecings too...
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