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Does it hurt?
I have been fingered roughly many times before. 2-5 fingers to be exact. I wuz wondering if the vagina stretches the more times you get fingered roughly. Also, if you get fingered a lot, does that ease the pain when you have sex for the first time? like, people say it hurts a lot for the first time and yu bleed. I wuz wondering if there wuz anyway to prepare for sex to not make it hurt as bad to make it pleasurable when the penis goes in and comes out.
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okk well when you have sex your very first time of course its ganna hurt maybe a lot or maybe even just a little bt either way its going to hurt because your vagina isnt stretched out yet. and a boy can tell if a girl is a virgin or not. and the whole bleeeding thing yes you will bleed bt not ALOT like when your on your period this jus means that he popped your "cherry" bt anyways the best thing that you can do is just make sure he gets you "wet" no homo and jus stay calm and relaxed just stay loose and dnt tighten up i think that what makes it hurts if a girl i scared they tend to tighten up and its unconfortable and acward ! hope this helpss =] !
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The only part that makes sex painful is when the hymen is broken.
The hymen's that thin little membrane over the opening of the vagina.
It can be stretched out during sex, and torn when anything enters the vagina, like fingers or a tampon.
Some girls tear their hymen when riding a bike or putting in a tampon.
If you want to see your hymen and how it looks, you can do so with a hand mirror.
If you've been fingered before, that's no different than having a penis instead of a couple of fingers. Being nervous causes girls pain during sex, too. Since the vagina is a strong muscle and can contract, if you're tense or nervous and try to have sex, it's going to hurt.
Relax and have sex with someone you trust, not some random guy off the street.
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Don't worry about it. If you can fit in 5 fingers you'll be fine. The average penis is only about 3 fingers width. Trust me, you're fine. If anything, fitting in 5 fingers is a bit too much and will make it so you don't recieve as much pleasure from penetration. That's just a thought, I've no research to back that up ;)
EDIT: Thinking about it, I have to add, if by 5 fingers you just mean scrunching up your fingers to get them in, then that really only counts as 2 - 3. If however you mean a flat palm or "fisting" motion, then that is truly 5.
If it is the former, you should still be fine. Don't worry about a thing, I just thought I'd clear up a miscommunication we may be having.
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