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today is tuesday and we have a school dance on friday its a sweethearts dance and the guy i was supose to go with i have been going with him since october and from what i heard he moved...
to houston...
without telling me....
should i call him ...?
i mean ...
help please i have to go he's all i think about and now he gone im acting as if he's dead and all he did is move what should i do?.?.?.
:-( :-( ;-( (link)
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edit i did read and i misinterpreted it as you had plans of going to the dance with him since october but if your his girlfriend then thats even worse and i still have the same view...if your boyfriends not telling you that he moved then obviously there is something wrong and he doesnt care because usually boyfriends tell their girlfriend about something like that....as for me giving advice no one else seems to feel that way...and it also seems alittle strange that you wouldnt call him when you heard about it....i guess thats another reason i misinterpreted that you werent going out and i believe i did write call him but if a guy treats you so insignificant then its not worth it...when you ask for advice sometimes its not what you want to hear.....
i would confirm that he moved first but if he did and didnt inform you then he must not think that much about you and would indicate that hes alittle bit of a jerk...I wouldnt get to hurt if thats the way it turned out or to attached if he hasnt asked you to be his girlfriend but there will be other dances and other guys so dont waste to much time worring about it. It might help if you had his number or someone else had his number so you could call and mAke sure he moved and find out whats going on.
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okae. so i am a 13 year old female. and since i was 12 sometimes i would masturbate. but since i turned 13 i stopped. but idk if its normal for kids my age to do that. i use my fingers if that helps. but im so disgusted by myself sometimes. that i just break down crying. and i dont have a lock on my door my dad took it off for reasons [ family reasons ] so im afriad someone will walk in. ehrwsk - any ideas if its normal , and if it is where i could do it without anyone walking in cuz i have wanted to. (link)
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yes its normal although im not to sure about the bathroom because that could rise suspicion if they dont hear water or some other femal family member has to use the bathroom and you could eend up doing it for longer then a half hour and not realize it why dont you do it in bed when everyone goes asleep or say your taking a napjust get under the covers if some one walks in you can hear them and just stop immediately if you have the covers over you and its dark they wont see what your doing. you could also do it when noones home.
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So me & tthis boy have been best friends for 3 years ` we tell each other EVERTHiNG about our personal life , problems , about his girlfriends , my boyfriends ; but everyone thinks we like each other & no matter HOW MANY TiMES WE SAY WERE LiKE brother adn sister . they still wont listen . its so damn aggervating` i swear . helpp ? (link)
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ive had this problem many times..theyre being immature ignore them..
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well my bff asked me 2 make-out w/her man so i did the next time at skool me and my bff"s man were in a library and he made out w/me he cam on 2 me and now my Bff is PISSED at me and now we r in a BIG fight wat do i do?o i forgot the night b4 she presured me into fucking her man but i didn't. (link)
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it sounds like she was insecure and her plan to test his loyalty back fired so shes taking it out on you..its her own doing but then a gain why would you you have free will and shes your best friend.Even if she asked you to why would you follow through with making out.Any ways your not innocent but neither is she..learn from this mistake and find a new friend.Dont get me wrong best friends share alot of things but usually a boyfriend isnt one of them. I also think she has some personal issues.
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its so annoying when people come on here not for advice but to answer questions and math homework and crap. how about using YAHOO ANSWERS PEOPLE.
yahoo.answers.com they will answer anything! just a thought :) (link)
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I dont mind when people ask stuff like that..im here to help...but if you think about it alot of these questions could be answered by looking information up or google or yahoo..maybe that person didnt have any luck with it. Anyways no ones forcing you to answer them so its probably best to not write anything at all to them and leave it at that if you feel that strongly. I go through some of these questions and some people just put look it up or use google or do your own internet research or purposely write wrong answers or insult them but they were probably desperate or having trouble with it so they ask us.No question is to stupid and each persons question should be treated with respect.If someone doesnt want to answer it then they dont have to.
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hi
i want a new backpack and i wanted a yellow L.L. bean one but they don't make any yellow backpacks. yellow is my favorite color by the way. so does anyone know of any cute yellow backpacks that are nice for a 15 year old female in high school??
thanxx (link)
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they have yellow backpacks on their website
http://www.llbean.com/webapp/wcs/stores/search?langId=-1&searchTerms=backpacks&startRec=1&numWanted=5000&loggedIn=0&page_type=null&hotBG=0&filter1=A29&filter2=Vpaging
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i am about 105 lbs, 5'1, and 14 yrs old. i wanna lose about 5 lbs before march 15th, but there is one problem: i cant excercise to save my life. i just cant do it. my knees have issues, and i dont have strength..
i basically want to tone myself, so what can i do? (link)
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i dont think weights the issue its just tone you want...if you dont like exercises like weight lifting try belly dancieng,or some other for of dance...or gymnastics or some sort of martial arts. Getting fit can be fun if you do stuff like tha.
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Well, I'm 15/f and my older brother is 23/m. My mom has always sided with him and she is completely rude to me. She always compares me to him, and I'm sick of it. She complains that I don't do anything to help her out around the house when I always clean my room on "cleaning weekends", I vacuum when she asks me, and I do the dishes when she asks. Yet, I still hear all the time how my brother, when he was 15 had a job and all this other stuff. Well, I would truly love to get a job, but nothing around here hires 15 year olds, so I'm kind of stuck. I really am fed up with her always comparing me to him, saying I'm a bad daughter and all I care about is myself and my boyfriend (which is not true at all). Yet, she has no idea what my brother does behind her back, he throws parties at my house when she goes to Atlantic City for the weekend, and she doesn't even care; he makes a mess of the house, and I end up having to clean it because he's too hungover and inconsiderate to see that it was him and his friends that made the mess not me. I really am just so done with listening to her complain about me, and think of how "wonderful" her son is. Plus, she complains that I'm not responsible enough to get my license/permit, but my brother was able to when he was 16. Yet, I do ALL of my homework, and I try so hard in school, but I don't have the best grades, I'm a B/C student, and she doesn't accept that from me; and yet, he slept all through high school, and passed, but he never had to hear it from her. I really don't know what to do, and how to confront her, every time I put any effort to it, I get yelled at.
Sorry this was long; any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you kindly. (link)
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Maybe she wants you to do things with out being asked...or keeping your room neat at all times....some parents put to much pressure on their kids..school might not be your thing but im sure something else is you just need to find it and play it up.Maybe you should take pictures of the parties and people being passed out and the messes or video tape it if you could secretly do it then show your mom...Maybe you can ask your mom what is it that you find so inadequate about me...if that doesnt work then just let it go because you know who you are. Every ones diffrent.and how your brother is...in a few years youll be 18.Although i do not agree with your mom but ive had friends whove went through simillar things and just had to bare with it until they turned 18 and could move out.
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ok so im gonna get my cartilage pierced at Claires tomorro for my birthday..They pierces it with a gun and i heard that bad..but how bad is it what will happen if its done with a gun?? (link)
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Its being done by people who know what they are doing so i dont think you have much to worry about..ive never heard of professionals not using a gun..the only way i could see it not being safe is if someone who didnt know what they were doing did it but that wont be the case in your situation so dont worry about it..it might just hurt but nothing to diffrent from having lobes pierced and the pain will go away.
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13/f
I know there's nothing wrong with dating anyone of a different race, and I think I may have a crush on this amazing guy, who is of a different race.
Well me and about 2 friends are the ONLY people in the school who think biracial dating is OK.
The rest of the school thinks its disgusting.
And I know that shouldn't matter, and I mean it doesn't REALLY. But I don't want to lose all my friends, just because of a crush. I know they're not good friends or whatever if they don't accept it, but still, it hurts to lose all your friends.
I know some would be accepting of it, but I know most won't.
A subject similar to this came up in school today, where me and the two friends I mentioned, were talking about the cute guy at Burger King, lol.
I kind of bit my tongue about the guy I think I might like in the school, because people were eavesdropping.
And its not just friends, my grandma would know if I had a boyfriend (she has legal custody and I live with her) and she said she'd kill me (in a non literal sense) if I ever dated anyone who was of a different race. No exaggeration, she would make me live with my aunt down the road. My aunts nephew, is currently dating this girl named Janine, who is of a different race, and she's AMAZING. Me and my aunt are more open minded than most of the family. So me and her, and Jesse (the nephew) and Janine, went to the mall one day.
But I don't want to lose my friends / be disowned by my family, what do I do? (link)
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maybe its better that you live with your aunt whos open minded like you...its not your grandmas or your friends choice and you cant live a lie..its better to do what you feel despite what others say..if their going to hate you or disown you then so be it because believe when it comes down to your opinion on what they want to do they wont care..so go for it youd probably be better off with your aunt..honestly as for friends you can always make new and better ones who suit you..dont let anyone decide who you are..do what feels right...not everyone gets along but that doesnt mean you should compromise your beliefs and be unhappy. Those people who disaprove can get over it..if they dont like what they see then they can turn their heads in the other direction because its not wrong or hurting or effecting them..do you want other thought to dictate yours the rest of your life, take a stand.Their disrespecting you..as for schools you can switch if it gets to be bad.
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hey guys....im 15/f and my background is Indian....my parents are from India but i am a Canadian...well my problem is my mom...she's all anti-boys...i am not allowed to talk to them anywhere outside class...but that's not fair! I honestly don't listen to her..i have guy friends and i am not ashamed of that...how can i talk to my mom about boys in general? (link)
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I usually got along with boys better then girls as friends.Its not an odd thing....You can talk to your mom about it,im just not sure how far youll get, because it is a little rediculous you should be able to atleast be friends with them..when you get out of school and interacting with the world your going to be surrounded by them..their everywhere..You shouldnt be ashamed of having guy friends just because you have guy friends doesnt mean your a ho or doing something sexual with them...As far as dating you are 15 and its not unusual to have a boyfriend that age also depends on maturity and usually at that age its nothing serious but its good preparation for when you become an adult and are going to be exposed to all of this so you have hands on experience and know what to look out for.If talking to her doesnt work out then look on the brightside in a few years youll be 18 and able to do what you want.
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13/f
lately my breasts have been so sore.
whether im in the shower or wearing a bra,they hurt really bad.
and its almost like i can feel them stretching when im not wearing a bra.
i need help?
is this normal.
btw i wear a 34c-d.
thanks a ton. (link)
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This is normal either your boobs are growing even more which is possible because i knew a girl with size f breast and it was natural...or you could be getting ready to start your period for the first time if youve already started then it could be getting close the time to have another period. It seems normal but if it continues for more then a few weeks see a doctor.
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k well i'm 14/f
i've been around alcohol my whole life, well just at like family parties and stuff. but since about last summer i've been drinking, a lot. at first i started with beers, but i don't really like that. so i turn to like vodka,brandy,scotch,whiskey. idk hard liqours. so like i don't drink a lot, because half the time i'm home and i haven't been able to sleep at a friends for a while because i got in trouble. but like i crave it all the time. if i go to my grandma's i always have a sip of scotch while i'm there. maybe more if i can. but like i just want more but i don't let myself incase my parents can tell or smell it on my breath. and if i'm at a friends house i'll drink till i feel sick. and i don't know i crave it all the time and if it was attainable i'd have it all the time probably..so like am i considered an alcoholic and if i am how can i like fix it so i'm not without going into rehab and stuff
also my oldest brother is pretty much one and my less older brother is becoming one (link)
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I would say you are on the verge of being one and very young not that being an alcholic is acceptable at any age. You can either quit cold turkey meaning no alcohol at all which might be best or as much as you dont like the idea go to a school counselor talk to them about your problem or attend some kind of seminar and let your parents in on it even though you might get in trouble at first but its probably best for you.Anything that your doing that you have to hide or cant hold your head up high and announce to the world including your parents that your doing it is usually a good sign that you dont need to be doing it.by the way your enviroment isnt an excuse i grew up with an alcoholic drug addicted father in a drug infested area and ive never did drugs or drank..but you have free will and you are way under age to be drinking and even if you were of age drinking more then 1 or two all the time and craving it is going over board.Drinking could also get you hurt,dead,or put you in other bad situations so quit while your ahead.
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I am a little anti-social and that is because I am used to getting left out and feeling not accepted. so I was talking to two of the few people i do feel somewhat close to a male and a female that i joke with and talk to often. And, they begin to discuss something that happened in one of the dorms and They said that someone was in lets say the dorm cyrna and i said who was in cyrna and the male said nobody. like I wasn't accpeted and trusted enough to know what they were talking about. Do i take things too personally are what? Because it made me feel like we weren't close at all. (link)
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It might not be that your not accepted it just might be that its someone they know or be tween them and someone else and they dont think that the person its about or whoever told them would appreciate it if they told you or someone else,nothing really personal.You shouldnt worry about it unless this happens alot with numerous and various topics then you could ask them why they dont want to tell you but if its only happened a couple time then dont worry about it..if they had something personally against you they wouldnt talk or joke around with you.If you dont know eachother that well then you just need to know them better and hang out more for a stronger bond to occur.So dont take it hard its no big deal.
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I am always hungry! I'll eat when I am depressed, bored, and everything. When I am full (really), or feel full, I still eat. I can't help it because since I am always hungry I need to eat.
I have tried diets, and just plainly tried to go to 3 meals a day, but I can't do it! I will feel sick if I don't eat within 2 hours. I am overweight but I really want to stop eating a lot. I also have low metabolism like REALLY low.. so low not even exercise or food alone brings it up. So I am always tired which may be triggering my constant hunger. What can I do?? (link)
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This is something you need to discuss with your doctor and set up a diet plan with them.Ive known people to do this and it worked for them.. If its something you want bad enough youll stick to it..you do have free will. Another thing is you might be confusing the urge to eat as in just wanting to eat with actually being hungry and your stomach growling,There is a diffrence. You also should try to cultivate a hobby for when your bored,and find some sort of release when your sad like writing,art,music or just talking to someone...
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I am really hating my mom again. Everytime I do something in front of her she responds to me when she tells me something. Gosh I don't know what she wants from me because I talked to hotlines about this and all they told me was find a job move out talk to her. I cried it's hard i thought the hotline will really help me but it didn't. she tries to imitate the sound I have when I talk in my head when she tells me something. I am not a daughter in her eyes anymore she is brainwashed completely. I was around her reading this thing label then she got an idea from that. Like she observed and knew the thoughts on my brain. I don't think people should be doing that. SHe is so cruel to me and everybody else in that family. I dismembered my self from the family tree. I hate them they are so rude. No normal people will like them. Does anyone know how to deal with it or can give advice aside from getting counseling. (link)
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Pay attention to see if there is a pattern to what seems to be setting her off if you notice one then avoid doing those things. Maybe you should just try calmly and logically in a normal tone start speaking your mind with out cussing even if she begins to and explain your self and ask why..if niether of those methods and you cant find any positive ground to walk on with her (i'm not sure how old you are) but maybe the best thing would be to move out and get a job its not really seprating your self its just loving from afar and that works for some people not all families get along and not all families click togeather.I think its odd that no one in your family is expressing any kind of concern for you at all or trying to talkto you but it does happen and that is the case maybe it is best you move out..not every one is happilyever after with their family and can just click by getting to geather but i would only suggest moving out if there is not one to talk to in your family or nothing positive with your mom or if you are 18 or older then maybe its time you spread your wings and have your own space.I myself am the type who can usually talk out problems but if the person is just irrational and negative whether they are family,friend,what ever then i just separate because theres no use.
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Ive got a friend who ive liked since ive known her, we made out a couple times and have admitted to liking eachother but then chose not to date, shes got a bf now, what kind of things could i do to make her know i really really like her still, do i wana be subtle or just come out and say that i want her? ladies, this is where i could use your help lol (link)
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Listen she already knows you like her..if she was interested in dating im sure shed let you know..She has a boyfriends so obviously shes not shy about having one so thats not why she turned you down.No you shouldnt bring it up at all shes made her decision and its just going to bring out hostility when she has a bf. If she wanted you she would come and get you.So your going to have to move on and accept that your just friends even though youve kissed and said things it really doesnt aount to much if your not going out. Now unless you were the one who didnt want to date and she did then i'd say bring it up to her but if she vocalized that she didnt want to date then your going to have to settle with friendship and accept what ever happened as a fluke and move on.If you cant respect her wishes and drop it then your not being a good friend.If they break up on there own and you want to bring it up one last time or she expresses to you that she interested then thats a diffrent story.If shes leading you on or flirting with you or giving you some type of sign that makes you keep hoping then shes just trying to keep a foot on you incase things dont work out people do that sometimes so if thats the case dont fall victim to it.It could be that if shes not giving a signal of wanting something more that your just meant to be friends so let it go especially if your really friends. If you continue to push it then your hurting your self,her,and you guys friendship.
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ok i hreard a song
and i need the name
it goes like
"for the children of the world..
every single little boy and girll..."
i tried limewrie and typing for the children of the world but idk its being gay. (link)
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I know which song your talking about i used to sing it in chorus and it is amy grant.
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Im so confused right now. I have the most amazing boyfriend who I love very much. Meanwhile theres this other great guy who likes me now. It really annoys me that guys dont want me until they find out im in a relationship. I dont know what to do. I dont mean to sound like a whore which I do sound like one. Im just confused and need help so please help me (link)
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If you really love this guy then you shouldnt feel this way or be confused i think you should just stay with the one who you have the most feelings for unless they dont treat you right or there is something about them that you absolutely cant live with.Maybe they just want you because they cant have you.
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I have a ton of freckles on my face and all over my body. There not the cute little ones that cover your face, they are farly big random ones that on my face. I really wanna get rid of them, and i keep getting more its really anyoing. I know use sunscreen and stuff to prevent from getting them but they still come. Is there any way that will help get rid of them??? thanks (link)
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The best thing i can tell you to do is to see a dermatologist about it because im not sure that there is away to fully get rid of them..but you never know...sometimes freckles fade with age you can always go for some concealer to try to cover them up. If you need help then go to a make consultant in the mall or beauty salon.It's not that big of a deal some people like that kind of thing and if your in your teens or younger you still havent fully developed so you'll look diffrent in a few years.
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