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Indian Parents=NO BOYS
hey guys....im 15/f and my background is Indian....my parents are from India but i am a Canadian...well my problem is my mom...she's all anti-boys...i am not allowed to talk to them anywhere outside class...but that's not fair! I honestly don't listen to her..i have guy friends and i am not ashamed of that...how can i talk to my mom about boys in general?
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It's hard to go against your parent's judgements and I completly understand where your comming from. You have to slowly work it into your conversations if you come straight forward with it your going to ruin any family connection. Is your father an anti-boys person to? If not you should try to talk to him slowly about it when your alone with him. If your closer to your mother then i suggest talkin to her about your problems she may not agree with it at first but she will eventually see where your comming from. Hope I helped.
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I usually got along with boys better then girls as friends.Its not an odd thing....You can talk to your mom about it,im just not sure how far youll get, because it is a little rediculous you should be able to atleast be friends with them..when you get out of school and interacting with the world your going to be surrounded by them..their everywhere..You shouldnt be ashamed of having guy friends just because you have guy friends doesnt mean your a ho or doing something sexual with them...As far as dating you are 15 and its not unusual to have a boyfriend that age also depends on maturity and usually at that age its nothing serious but its good preparation for when you become an adult and are going to be exposed to all of this so you have hands on experience and know what to look out for.If talking to her doesnt work out then look on the brightside in a few years youll be 18 and able to do what you want.
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I don't agree with the response before me, I know you're supposed to respect your parents, but, you're getting older and you're supposed to take responsibility for your actions, and I think you should talk to her about that. Maybe you could talk to her about taking it slow, and not DATING yet, but at least being able to TALK to them without hiding it from her. Good luck.
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Respect your mother's decision. She knows what she's talking about.
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