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eh. is this normal?
okae. so i am a 13 year old female. and since i was 12 sometimes i would masturbate. but since i turned 13 i stopped. but idk if its normal for kids my age to do that. i use my fingers if that helps. but im so disgusted by myself sometimes. that i just break down crying. and i dont have a lock on my door my dad took it off for reasons [ family reasons ] so im afriad someone will walk in. ehrwsk - any ideas if its normal , and if it is where i could do it without anyone walking in cuz i have wanted to.
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hey hun!! totally normal.. i started the same time too. i dont have a lock on my door either so all i do is do it when my parents aren't home, or they're asleep, or in the shower, or just in the bathroom. or tell them your going to sleep and do it before you go to bed and turn out the lights and so if someone comes in just stop. hope i helped!
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Msterbating at your age is perfectly normal. If your afraid of getting cought just do it at might befor you go to sleep or just do it in the bathroom.
Enjoy!
Mandy :)
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Masturbating at your age is very normal, don't worry about that.
It might get slightly suspicious if you spent a lot of time in the bathroom. Why not just do it when you take a shower? Then there would be no questions asked. If anything, maybe just a complaint that you took a long time. I don't see too many problems with just doing it in your room either. It's not like you don't have a door. I doubt someone is going to storm in really fast. There's plenty of time to stop what you're doing before anybody noticed. Just don't strip naked or make a lot of noise. If someone walked in, you'd have PLENTY of time after you heard the door start to open to make it look like you were doing something else. The fear of someone walking in on you can actually make it even better because of all of the adrenaline. Good luck.
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yes its normal although im not to sure about the bathroom because that could rise suspicion if they dont hear water or some other femal family member has to use the bathroom and you could eend up doing it for longer then a half hour and not realize it why dont you do it in bed when everyone goes asleep or say your taking a napjust get under the covers if some one walks in you can hear them and just stop immediately if you have the covers over you and its dark they wont see what your doing. you could also do it when noones home.
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dont be afraid of it. its completely normal. i do somtimes as well. as you get older you do more stuff so your more busy and so you dont do it as much. you have nothing to worry about. if you need a place to do this try the bathroom. like anytime. or if your taking a shower you can do it then. or if you took a shower in the morning you can say that you had a hard day at gym in school so you want to take another shower. but dont. just go in the bathroom and spend maybe half an hour masturbating. or however long it takes. and then maybe if oyu want longer you can "blow dry your hair" dont worry its completely normal! dont worry about it. and if you get caught say that if you got your period.. jsut be like i tried a tampon and its uncomfortable.
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It's completley normal and don't be ashamed of it. If you don't want your dad to walk in on you, try the bathroom. I'm sure you can lock the door? So like I said, it's normal.
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