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Boys dont know what to choose
Im so confused right now. I have the most amazing boyfriend who I love very much. Meanwhile theres this other great guy who likes me now. It really annoys me that guys dont want me until they find out im in a relationship. I dont know what to do. I dont mean to sound like a whore which I do sound like one. Im just confused and need help so please help me <_>
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If you really love this guy then you shouldnt feel this way or be confused i think you should just stay with the one who you have the most feelings for unless they dont treat you right or there is something about them that you absolutely cant live with.Maybe they just want you because they cant have you.
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You don't sound like a whore. I've been in this situation before too. You have to really think about this. Ask yourself, Does your boyfriend really love you? Do you still feel a spark (an attraction) between you two? Do you feel happy with him, or do you feel like things are getting boring? These questions are important to ask yourself because they'll help you understand what you have in your relationship right now, and what you're actually looking for in a relationship.
Now, you said that this guy didn't want you until he found out you were in a relationship. That's pretty dumb of him, I mean, if this guy REALLY liked you, he would of ALWAYS shown interest in you. So don't break up with your boyfriend quite yet. If you do, it might be the complete end of it and you might not be able to get him back. You want to get to know the other guy a little better first before you make up your mind. Start out by being friends with the new guy, get to know him a little better before you make a decision.
I can't really tell you what exactly to do because I haven't met your boyfriend or the other guy. The next step is up to you. Whatever you decide, make sure you're 100% positive of your decision.
If you decide you want to make a change in your life and go out with the new guy, go for it. But if you're not sure, try asking your boyfriend if you guys could "take a break for a while because you have alot on your mind right now."
Also, there's nothing wrong with being single if you decide you want to be single for a while either. :]
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If you're happy with your boyfriend,then you should stay with him. Meanwhile,the other boy..you two can continue to be buddies.
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