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Im 14 and scared and nervous to tell my mom i started my period yesterday. Can someone help me out please.:) thanks
Dear "How to tell my mom i got my period ",
Why would you be afraid to tell your mom about this?
You should not be scared about talking to your mom about your period.
She needs to teach you how to use pads and tampons. She needs to go over the health risks involved with tampons and douching.
Go to her and ask her if you can talk to her in private. Then tell her that you got your period and you are nervous. Make sure you ask her how to protect your favorite underwear from accidents.
If you cannot talk to your mom for what ever reason, seek out an adult female and ask her the questions you have.
However, your mom, unless she is a complete failure as a mother, should have already explained this to you and is waiting for you to come to her with this subject.
If all else fails, you can find the answer to any question you have by searching on the net.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
ok so like im 16 and 2 yrs ago i was spending the night at my friends house and she (and i)both gota little curious on how sex feels so we did a lil sum sum,would girl on girl be considerd 'real' sex???
Dear "is this really sex?",
Was there penetration? If so, there was sex. The penetration could have included fingers, toys and other body parts or objects that you may have used.
If there was no penetration, then there was no sex but only foreplay.
Peace and love to you.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
I think this is the correct category. How would one say "This is Ryan Jones photography." Would it be -Ryan Jones'- or would it be -Ryan Jones's-? Thanks for the help!
And this is so that I can start a Facebook page and make sure that I do no look ignorant when I make it.
Dear "The Proper Possesive Form",
In college MLA formatting classes, we were taught that when the word is a noun like Mr. Jones, to make it possessive you sould write it like "Jones' or Jones's". Essentially, either way gives the same possessive indication to the reader. Consistency is the key. Write it the same way every time.
Here is link that explains it better.
http://grammar.ccc.commnet.edu/grammar/possessives.htm
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
My mom is constantly writing people off in her life. I'm 36 years old and from as long as I can remember back my mom has been disowning family and friends. I always dreaded the day that it would be me. But, she wrote me off about a month ago, for nothing in my eyes. In addition to myself- in this episode (which is what I call these mood periods) she has alienated herself from me, my sister, her two sisters, her three nieces, and a nephew over a facebook comment one of her nieces wrote after she went on a verbal attack on facebook herself.
My mother is a very insecure person and always feels that family member or friend's actions are motivated by them wanting to upset her or make her look stupid or to directly hurt her.
She has always been jealous of her sisters, stepmother, and mother because of their relationships with her father. She has been jealous about my and my sister's realtionship with my father. In fact when I was 6 my mom accused my dad and I of having an affair and throw her china against the wall above our heads and told us to move in together. She has often kept us from talking to him on the phone or having private conversations with him in person.
My mother has a constant habit of bad mouthing people, everybody from someone I last saw in grade school, to the neighbor, to a relative, to a friend of mine or a friend of hers, to a constestant on American Idol. It almost seems as though she thrives on other peoples unhappiness.
Whenever a family member has an important event coming up ie: a wedding, birth, some great milestone she takes it upon her self to have one of her episodes - out of the blue. This time was that we were all planning a family reunion at the end of August.
I should also mention that she goes to the dr like it's a hobby. She always thinks something is wrong with her. But she also thinks something is always medically wrong with everybody. All in all I would say that she is paranoid. She is very judgemental and if you don't share her opinion than you are garbage. After putting up with thi sfor years on end I am finally done with pacifying her. My Dad is an enabler so I am not sure how to get her helf. Is there such a thing an intervention for mental illness?
Dear "Does my mom have a mental illness?",
Wow, I think our mother's have the same mental issues. You have described my mother and her problems to a tee.
Her diagnosis was personality disorder, borderline schizophrenia, and depression.
Was there anything that happen to your mother when she was growing up? It sounds to me like she has issues with 'father' figures, and trusts no one. This could mean that she was hurt by someone very close in her youth, maybe a male figure she admired and trusted.
My mother was raped by her own father for almost 15 years. My mother thinks everyone is having affairs, running whore houses and conspiring against her. She has disowned everyone in the family at one time or another, and has held a grudge against a cat for at least seven years.
I thank the Weavers of Fate for giving her to me as a mother. Now,I can recognize Crazy when I see it. LOL
Love and Peace be with you.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
I'm an 18 year old female and I have a problem connecting with people. I'll try to explain it but it's pretty complicated.
Ever since my first bf of 3 years and I broke up senior year of HS (i am now approaching my sophomore year of college), I have never let myself connect with people. Since then I have had sex with 5 people who I care nothing about and I have hooked up with like 30 guys (all in which i was drunk). I used alcohol to "get some and get gone" and I was happy doing that because I never wanted to get close with anyone again. I am a pretty screwed up person because all I do is hook up with people.
Recently this summer I hooked up with this one guy and I planned on ditching him like I do with every guy. But he was extremely nice and cute and actually pursued me further and we sorta had this fling. We knew it would be just a summer thing bc he was leaving to go away for like half a year. So this guy is the first person I ever felt connected to at all. And he changed the way I feel about myself and made me want to change the way I act. But now he's gone. And I can't get these feelings to go away. I don't think I'm attached to this guy as much as I am attached to the feelings I discovered I am capable of having. I feel torn because I don't want those feelings to go away because I don't want to revert to the emptiness I felt before. But at the same time I do want them to go away because they hurt so much. I don't know what to do. It's not a typical "heart-break" situation because neither of us hurt one another or expected more of anything so I don't want to delete him from my life. But I can't stop thinking of how happy I was when I think of him and that drives me crazy. What should I do?
Dear "getting Some and getting gone",
Your story sounds normal to me. You got hurt, you retreated-meaning emotionally closed, rebounded-meaning you bounced your energies off of possible mates and got into a routine.
Connecting with someone on that level is a beautiful thing. Your human spirit of forgiveness and love has been renewed. You have been reminded with a short burst of some powerfully positive energy.
The Emptiness will turn us colder than ice if we let it consume us. Attitude is so very important in our everyday lives.
Hold onto that feeling. It hurts right now because you are torn from the feeling's source. Right now, that source is this guy you just connected with. You do not have this positive energy fueling your core yet. Until it consumes your core, and fuels it, your attitude will not change much.
My advice is to talk to him as much as possible. Not with intentions of any sure long term relationships, unless that is what you both want. I suggest holding onto him as an energy guide, or a spirit guide, until these feelings are your core being.
It starts with your attitude towards yourself, your life, and everything you have experienced.
You are learning a lesson from the most powerful teacher of all, life.
Take Care and Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
I am a 16 year old female. I am going to be a senior in high school. When I was back in jr high, I had a favorite teacher and it was quite evident that I was his favorite student. We were so close, he was like a second dad to me, how I saw it anyway. Other students were jealous that they didn't get the treatment from him that I did, so badly that the only thing they could come up with is that we were "together". Honestly, from an outsider looking it, it would look as if we were dating. But he would have no intention of dating a 7/8/9 th grader which was what I was in jr high. I am now in sr high and we still stay in contact.
-He comes to my school to watch over some teachers and we'll steal quick glances at each other
-He'll tell me he likes when I visit him during the school year on my walks home
-I'm the only student that during my years of having him and now not having him that is able to call him by his first name
-He asks me for my opinions on his teaching lessons (about what would interest the kids because I had him and he knows that I would be honest if his lessons were boring)
-He asks me about my personal life and he talks to me about his which is something he never does with other students
-One time when I visited him it was during a practice with the kids so I sat there at his desk and saw how the kids were doing and then I went back again with my friend the following week and he didn't let us sit in but he let me sit in alone the week before
-The first time I visited him was after Christmas break with a friend of mine and she asked if he liked his late Christmas present and he said "I love my fantastic Christmas present" and she said after we left that he hadn't looked that happy in a long time.
-The following week, I went alone so he would let me sit in and listen and after every kid had left, he exited his office and was walking out the door to drive home when he saw me standing at the door, he acknowledged that I was still there and asked if I had a ride, if I didn't, he could drive me home. He never offers kids rides home, ever.
He's the only teacher that I still make an effort to see because he was a very important person in my life.
--what do you think about us? more than just student teacher?
I really need to know if you think we are "wrong" because I am going on an 11 day school field trip out of the country and he is the head of the arts, which is what I am going for, so I will be with him everyday. So, are you like everyone else and think we're together or something?
Dear I think they're wrong.,
You think they are wrong because they are wrong. Everyone around you has been programmed to believe it is wrong. Do not blame them. Forgive them.
You are more mature than most girls your age. No, I do not think there is anything going on more than what you have told me. However, I do think there is more than a student teacher thing here. I think there is a friendship going on here. You make it a point to pay attention to him as a teacher, a mentor, a man of wisdom in his years. You make him feel real. Friendship is a valuable thing to someone like him.
You are easy to talk to and he feels he can trust you not to lie about the nature of your relationship with him.
To him, the only fear he has is that someone will construct an idea of that relationship, and use it in a sinister way.
He does not want to get too close because of society.
The United States is a Socialist Nation and State-ism is its religion.
Basically, I see it this way; if you were to become close to this man, he would teach you things that you may never uncover yourself. You would benefit from his experience based on what he has learned in his life to be true of the system.
Since the Powers that Be want to keep you in the dark about reality, lawmakers pervert the system and set social standards in the form of legislation and call it law. Almost every piece of legislation passed is designed to keep your young mind in a constant state of ignorance, and imprison, condemn, and destroy those that would try and feed your mind with truth.
So laws are set to keep you, who because of age instead of maturity are considered a minor, from ever having a friendship with an adult. Even your parents. Most kids your age have two parents working hard to make ends meet.
Parents all over this nation are being forced to Occupationally Orphan their own children to support a socialist government. But this is another question all together.
In a true Republic, your relationship with this man can only be questioned by your parents, and even then, if you consented fully, they could not stop it. Unfortunately, we no longer enjoy the rights in a republic America, nor do we enjoy the fruits of the Democracy. Socialism comes in many forms with many names, REPUBLIC is not one of them.
In a Socialist Society, getting too close to your art teacher will cost him everything he has ever worked to accomplish. Even if your parents approve of your friendship, and trust that is all there is to it. We live in a Society that gets your friends, relatives, strangers, etc.. to become spies in our lives. This is State-ism. They will punish your friend in the name of the STATE or THE PEOPLE (another way to say the state) in order to take everything they can from him.
If anyone in your life, disapproves of this man as your friend, even if you both deny it and there is no proof, he will lose his career, his home, and his way of life. Nothing will happen to you. In fact they will ignore you, and say he probably threatened you to keep you quiet.
This is why teachers, for the most part do not cross that line with students. Giving you a ride home, letting you sit in on his class, sharing his life's ups and downs with you are all no-no's for a teacher. Unless, he is comfortable enough to trust you and your family not to put more into the relationship than it is.
The school has regulations that follow state legislation, so all the more reason to keep away from friendships between wisdom and youth. Keeping you in the dark, and punishing those who would enlighten.
Your friendship makes him happy. Your energy flows into everyone around you, so be careful. The energy you give off could be taken wrong by many on lookers as an infatuation with him.
My advice is to never be alone with him, and whenever possible, include his wife, children, your family, etc. . . Taking a present to him with a friend-in-tow was good. If you are ever left alone with him, keep a good distance, in case someone is watching you. When you are with him, act as if you are being watched by hidden cameras. I do not say this because my mind is paranoid, My advice comes from seeing innocent lives ruined from one malicious lie.
If you are never alone with him, no one can get away with lying about your relationship. Unfortunately, we live in a society full of people who have programmed to lie about things they see, and do not see.
Have fun on the Field trip and keep being a good friend to your mentor.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
My son is 4 1/2 years old. He was just recently diagonised with ADHD. Where I live there isnt many children theripists. So were we go he can only get in once a month hes only meet her once and its been two months she rescheduled with us. So I am placing him on home therepy were they come in our home and help with behavioral problems and stuff. Well he seen a medication doctor he asked us a ton of questions and told us he had 7-10 symptoms and since the theripists are limited here they want to place him on medication a small dose to try. its called intruiv (i think i spelled it right) Is there anything else I can do to help my son. He usually talks like an adult but lately hes been talking like a baby (he hasnt started medicine yet it has to be pre autherized) I was also told to make an appt. with SSI since I have limited income and him being diagonised with this I could qualifiy for SSI?
Dear "Are there any other ways to help my ADHD child"
It is a sad story. Yes, you can get paid from the government. Your doctor's note should be enough to get a monthly check.
I say this next part from my heart, and from experience. Do not let them drug your child. Look into safe healing herbs before you result to chemicals for such a young child. I know your doctor will tell you it is safe. That is only because he believes what he is told by the pharmacist that he will get a kickback from when you buy the drug. Medicines released to the public are not tested adequately enough to declare them safe. In fact most drugs given to people are only experimental.
Have you looked up the side effects of this drug?
The most common side effects of INTUNIV include
sleepiness
tiredness
trouble sleeping
low blood pressure
nausea
stomach pain
dizziness
This sounds like you will have increased problems with your son if you put him on this drug. His mood swings will get worse, he will have ups and downs from the sleepiness, and the trouble sleeping, low blood pressure, dizziness, are symptoms consistent with cardiovascular issues (his Heart). Keep in mind that not everyone who experiences these side effects calls the FDA and reports them. So the percentage of people they claim that have these side effects is much larger.
I visited this site http://www.intuniv.com/ that this drug had only been tested in the lab for a 9 week period before it was released. I would not put that in my child's developing system if i were you. Find something more safe.
Here is a link that you should take seriously, as an alternative to pills.
Please do not dismiss this subject based on programmed social prpaganda. These studies are serious, and if you love your son enough, you will take a serious look at how much you can improve his quality of life with this medicine.
If you ask your doctor about this medicine, and the doctor refuses to look at it as a possible alternative to chemicals, then I would find a different doctor. Either the doctor is completely programmed to believe it is not safe, or the doctor has their own self serving interests for dismissing the possibility of using it.
In the last ten years, dealing with my Autistic Son, I have discovered that only the doctors who care about their patients, and not their wallets, will use this alternative first, instead of Pharmaceuticals.
http://forum.grasscity.com/medical-marijuana/314173-granny-storm-crows-list-2009-a.html
This link will send you to Granny Storm Crow's list of studies that deal with ADD and ADHD, along with others, using this herbal medicine.
I have also seen first hand, the difference this medicine makes in children with problems such as ADD, ADHD, MS, and Autism. I am less and less impressed with the FDA everyday that this medicine is not made available for use. I seriously consider the possibility that it is kept from us on purpose.
Things that have worked with my son have been regular daily routines, one on one attention, and a lot of room to run! I find that love and laughter are the keys to breaking his bad mood swings. We get him to laugh at something, or make a joke.
It is hard when you are on your own. Trust me, as the years go by, it will get easier to communicate with him. Patience, love, and forgiveness will see you through everyday. Trust me on that. Peace and love to you!
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
Yesterday I did not talk to my boyfriend at all. He stopped answering me and I was getting worried. Finally after so many hours of trying not to contact him too much, I asked his friend if he knew where he was and he said no but offered to call. So his friend called and my boyfriend answered right away, saying that he was out for drinks and he had his phone off for a long time. I was very upset. I was upset my boyfriend didn't tell me, even if his phone was low on battery and he had it off all day. It would've taken five seconds to tell me he was busy so I wouldn't worry all day. So I texted him and told him that he should've told me what was going on so I wouldn't have to worry because he knows I worry a lot. He said "sorry" and that was the end of it. I told him he didn't sound very sympathetic and a simple sorry wasn't gonna instantly fix it. We're always honest with each other, but he got pissed and said, "Fuck it, turning off my phone." I called him but he didn't answer and I texted him that I was only being honest and I hope he had a good time and we can work things out in the morning. As far as I know, we are still together. This is our first argument as a couple and we've been going out for almost two months. I only acted like that because I was upset. I know not every boyfriend can be perfect, and I can't expect so much out him at times, but this situation was crazy. We're supposed to hang out tomorrow, so this morning I texted him asking if we were still hanging out and turned off my phone. He doesn't wake up until like one anyway.
honestly I'm sure this is just a little bump and we will get over it and things will be just fine but I am a worrisome person. I really feel strongly for this guy and he makes me happy and we have a great relationship. Surely he won't end it over something this stupid?
Dear "First argument as a couple... sigh",
Wow. Two months and already a tiff. I get the distinct impression that he is feeling suffocated by your compulsion to worry.
You should never act like this with a man.
I am being brutally honest here, even if you rate me low, I have to say it.
You will not hold onto him for very long with the attitude and behavior you have described. You described a nagging wife who does not trust her husband, and then gets a friend involved in the mess. Most men do not like Drama Queens. So I understand why he hung up on you.
Your attitude will make or break your relationship with any man. If you are like this with your current boyfriend, you will be like this with every other boyfriend you get.
You need help. Follow this link, and then come back and read some of the advice I have given to others about attitude.
http://www.firstload.com/?ir=1&fn=the+proper+care+and+feeding+of+husbands+pdf...
This is a pdf download. Read it, apply the tools that you are taught and never, ever, ever, treat your man like a nagging wife again.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
I just recently finished a bunch of stressful exams, and a period of stress induced (and antibiotic induced) anxiety/melancholy. It's summer now and i feel much better, ready to get my life back on track, but i'm scared i'm still going to have the occasional 'black day', like a day where i fall into anxiety again and don't feel like doing anything. Any advice on how i can keep myself up beat and enjoy the awesome summer??
Dear "Need to get my life started again",
The feelings you are having are normal signs of distress.
Stress is what you have in your life, and distressed is what you become when the stress gets to be overwhelming. Common in the society we have been forced to accept as human nature.
It all starts with attitude. Your attitude will dictate how your day goes. If you have a bad attitude, then it will cause you to have bad day.
In turn your stress increases and you become more distressed; until you finally go postal and run over a mailbox.
So we know it is you who determines your stress level with the attitude that you have towards things. Let things go. If you can look at everything, and handle everything with a good attitude, your stress level will drop to almost nothing.
This was a lesson I had to learn over time. It is hard to keep a good attitude when you have other people influencing your thoughts, actions, and beliefs.
The key is to remember that you are in control of your attitude. The moment you feel yourself getting a bad attitude, or the moment you notice you having one, stop, take some breaths, and think of something you love dearly. Once you have that thought, think of something that makes you happy inside. Now, smile and change your attitude to reflect the happy, forgiving, and loving person that you are.
It was not easy for me to change my attitude. There are so many negative influences, that I even went as far as setting my ring tone to say "Attitude, attitude, attitude. It is the single most important factor to guarantee good results, day in, and day out, everyday of our lives."
I got that from a self help tape. Do not remember if it was Dale Carnegie or Earl Nightingale. I have used both of their advice on living happy.
I would have my best friend call me every morning, at lunch, and bedtime, During the day I would have friends calling too.
I heard that ring tone so much that now, I cancel negative thoughts the moment they enter my brain.
I can tell you this is the only medicine that works for combating distress.
A Positive Attitude will include, Forgiveness, Honesty, and Love. If these things are not prevalent in your life, depression will surely take over. Misery loves company. However, Misery cannot live here there is Forgiveness. To be forgiving of anything, you must first take stock in a positive attitude towards everything.
A positive and forgiving attitude will always calm
you, and usually suppress any anxiety in your life.
Always look for the good in things. Never the bad.
Find the positive in everything, even in death. Laugh a lot too. Make jokes about everything.
Life is way too short to be distressed all the time. Your life, not just the summer, will reflect the attitudes of the ten people you spend the most time around.
Spend time around people like me, always laughing, even in the face of uncertainty. Making jokes, and finding the funny in everything. I give a lot too. I give of myself, my time, and my energy in the name of love, to those that need it.
I have given you the advice that I live my life by. It is a powerful anti-depressant and life stimulant.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
P S Follow this link to help use food as a way to combat anxiety and depression.
Peace of love to you always!!
http://www.drlam.com/blood_type_diet/
Recently my cuzion has past away, at 24 years old! She is really young!:,( it just happend so fast and unexpected, everyone is taking it soooo hard! What can I say to cheer em up, make em feel better, and to help them stop crying? Thanks and god bless you
Dear "what do i tell my family to cheer em up",
Grieving the loss of a dear young loved one is natural and you should let them cry if they need to. It is better than going out and getting into a fight because they bottle it up.
It is good that you want to sheer them up. Maybe you could gather together pics of your cousin and make a memory book, or video collections dedicated to her. People do that as a way to remember loved ones in life, instead of focusing on the death.
Be happy that your cousin's death was sudden, and not painfully drawn out like some.
My advice is to help your family remember her in life, and not focus on her death. At first, life without here will be odd, painful, and unreal.
Help them get up everyday, help them live, and move on. If there is forgiveness to be had, let it be forgiven. Love cannot exist without forgiveness.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
Guys call me boo,babe,baby,beautiful.. ect. What are names I should call guys?
Dear "what are names girls should call guys",
This is a good question, with a few answers from me.
You can call them what they call you; babe, and beautiful.
Or you can get creative and use names that describe them, or your favorite parts about them.
For instance, a guy with big muscles could be called 'muscles' or 'strongman'.
A guy who is smart, can be "brain'.
I like to stick with names that flatter a man like stud-muffin, studly, hunk, stallion, tiger, etc. . .
But be careful, do not go calling your dad a stud-muffin unless you are kidding. LOL
Here is another idea, use the thesaurus to look up synonyms for names like hunk, and stud-muffin.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
I don't know what else to do, or who else to turn to.. not that I've turned to anybody because I'm afraid talking about it is going to make it worse.
I've been with my boyfriend for six months, and I love him so much. He loves me just as much... if not, then more. He tells me he's in love with me and I'm the most important person in the world to him. He tells me I'm the reason why he's going to try to get into college. And I'm so glad I could do this much for him. I've always loved hearing this, us making scenarios about our future together like getting married and everything. We have legit plans to go to school near each other so it won't be too much of a long distance relationship.
I have never once doubted my love for him. I know I'm young, and so is he, but I never felt so strongly about somebody before. He electrifies my life. I love being with him, being at his house doing nothing but eating & watching movies, and I really like his family & vice versa.
But out of NOWHERE a couple days ago, I began feeling uneasy about this whole thing. I don't know if it's a long, committed future, or if it's that he's suddenly gotten a bit clingy (I get reminded how much he loves me dozens of times a day, and I don't understand why, because he knows I know already).
There isn't anybody else, I don't want anybody else. I want to be with him, but there's something stopping me from returning the words "I'm in love with you too", which I've already done before and I'm afraid he's going to think something's wrong.
Which I think there is. But I don't know what. I don't know what to do. He knows something's wrong but nothing this serious. I mean, it could be worse. But with the slightest doubt about ME scares me so much. I don't want to hurt him, I'm not ready to end this. I don't know what to do.
Just today, just a few minutes ago, he noticed I was a bit upset so he said, "Don't worry about me breaking your heart, okay?" assuming it was about that. I shook my head, telling him that's not what I was thinking about: I was worrying about me breaking his.
I don't know what's wrong, or how to approach it. But I need to fix it because I want to have that 100% feeling again like he does about me. But right now it's not 100%.
Hopefully this is just a phase. But it hurts me to tears. I'm scared of breaking his heart, along with breaking my own. I don't want to feel this way anymore, and I'm not ready to give up.
Any advice? Any similar situations? Thank you SO much.
Dear "It's not him, it's not us, it's me. I need to save my relationship",
YoungMommy is right. You are projecting your insecurities onto the closest person to you, and not telling him why.
Communication, honesty, and forgiveness are the key to true love and happiness. Never be afraid to communicate with him. If you are seriously thinking about marriage at 16, be prepared for hard work ahead. It takes serious work to stay together when you have so many outside influences like, work, school, hobbies, family, etc. . .
Here is a link for you my dear. I get nothing from sending you to this site. No kickbacks, no affiliation what so ever. I just happened across this lady one day, and she helped me save and strengthen the bond between my husband and I. It will bring you closer together only if you use the tools she provides.
http://www.ebooksdownloadfree.com/Medical-Health-Care/Laura-Schlessinger-The-Proper-Care-and-Feeding-of-Husbands-BI2561.html
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
So, I got my hair cut a lot shorter than it has been in a long time, and now I want it to grow back out. I am a 19/M, not sure if that really changes anything. I have biotin pills, but is there anything else that I can do to help my hair to grow more quickly? I am also going to start brushing/combing my hair more to see if that helps any. I am desperate for it to grow back out! I miss my long hair so much. Thanks in advance!
Dear 'I want my hair to grow out, fast!',
I followed the link given by YoungMommy and read the steps.
I think, for the most part, the steps tell you everything you should do according the current Society's Standards.
My grandmother was 2/3 Indian and she had the longest, thickest, healthiest, fastest growing hair and nails. I only see hair like hers in women who keep their hair braided constantly, and almost NEVER use any Shampoo, Soaps, or Conditioners. They wash their hair with plain water, since most shampoos strip your hair of the natural oil BUILD-UP that is essential to protect your hair and prevent damage.
Using chemicals in your hair is a nasty way to care for it. So when I see you getting advice that tells you to use shampoos and conditioners, or pills to get your hair to grow, I want to scream "MISINFORMATION!"
Believe it or not, even brushing your hair will damage it, always use medium tooth combs and never comb it when it is wet.
Once you have not used shampoos or conditioners on your hair for about 3 weeks, you will start noticing your hair getting healthier. Also, your diet will affect how fast your hair grows. Massaging the scalp helps too.
Use food to help your hair grow faster. Eat foods that are medicine for the body.
http://www.drlam.com/blood_type_diet/
Everyone is different. What helps my hair grow, may keep yours from growing. Pills are not the answer, but part of the problem. Depending on your genetic background, those hair pills are probably doing damage to your system, and possibly slowing hair growth. Everyone is different.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
yes, i had a yeast infection about a month ago an i used monisatat 3. well it went away, now i'm itchy around my clitoris an i'm becoming raw. an right around my hole to my vagina, it hurts an itches. what could be the problem? could i have a yeast infection again? please help me.
Dear itchy around my clitoris area an im raw,
It is possible that the detergent you are using in your clothes is causing this.
It is possible that the toilet paper you are using is causing this.
It is possible that something was on your hand, or someone else's body, or object that touched your area, and now it is irritated.
Perfumes, dies, and some lubricants will cause this reaction.
Another possible answer is a urinary tract infection. It can start off with simple itching and redness of the clitoris, and then turn into painful urination. You are raw, most likely from scratching the itch.
If you can rule out any irritants, like soaps, creams, powders, etc.., then take a look at these links.
These may help get you started.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/womenshealth/207074.html
http://womenshealth.about.com/b/2003/07/23/vaginal-itching-without-discharge-or-odor.htm
From personal experience, if your body is healthy enough, you should not need pharmacy drugs, treatments, creams, etc . . to get rid of an infection. I can also tell you, that you can get a yeast infection from anywhere, even a clean pair of underwear.
Here is a link so that you can use food as medicine and help your body fight this naturally. However, if you find that you have an infection, you might want to get some pro-biotic organisms in your system.
From this link, "According to Dr. Peter DÁdamo, author of Eat Right For Your Type, a chemical reaction occurs between your blood and the foods you eat. This reaction is part of your genetic inheritance. This reaction is caused by a factor called Lectins. Lectins, abundant and diverse proteins found in foods, have agglutinating properties that affect your blood. So when you eat a food containing protein lectins that are incompatible with your blood type antigen, the lectins target an organ or bodily system and begin to agglutinate blood cells in that area."
http://www.drlam.com/blood_type_diet/
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
how can truely live a rughteous life? cause i really do want to live arighteous life, i do hunger and thirst after righteousness but it seems am not living right.
Dear 'How do I live a life of righteousness?',
I would say it depends on your definition of righteousness. It could be different than mine. Do you want to live your life by my definitions, society's definitions, or your own?
Society has set certain standards. But who's standards are those? Living by someone else's standards can get pretty jaded if you ask me. It seems those standards are changing daily.
If you want live righteously by society standards, then make sure you never promote anything truly healthy, never cut your friends hair without a permit, or kiss a man with a mustache in public. (believe it or not, it is against the law for a man with a mustache to kiss a woman in public here in the USA)
I believe living righteously, simply put, means living your life in truth. Never lie, cheat, steal, or act maliciously against another being. Never raise a hand in anger, only self defense. Always treat others the way you have them treat you. Love must live in your heart. Therefor, forgiveness, in my life, is the only righteous way to live.
Be kind, honest, and forgiving of everyone and everything, including yourself.
You feel as if you are not living righteous because you are comparing the way you live, to a set of standards that are not yours.
It is obvious that you feel you are not living right. Why is that? Are you not happy with the definition of the righteous life you are expected to live? Be yourself. Fill your heart with love and forgiveness always, and you will see my definition of righteousness.
It is so warn here, even on the coldest of days. My life is blessed with fabulous beauty and peace of mind, all because I keep forgiveness and love in my heart for everyone, and everything.
I am cash poor, but I fell like the wealthiest woman on the planet. Love cannot live where there is no forgiveness. You must forgive in order for love to live in your heart.
I do hope that this helped give you something to think about. Everyone has their version of righteousness, so no two answers will be the same.
I would hope more people see forgiveness as the key to love, happiness, truth, and abundance. To me those things are truly righteous.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
First of all I know it isn't busted capillaries because its really high up on my arm and I haven't done anything lately that could cause that. It's these weir little purple dots on the upper part of my arm and they don't itch or hurt or anything they are just...there. I do have a skin condition called eczema but that usually itches and is red. What I'm wondering is if it could be just another part of my eczema or is it something else?
Dear Weird Purplish dots,
While talking to a trained professional is common advice, I tend to look things up for myself. I have saved thousands in unnecessary medical expenses.
Here are the results for your search on purplish dots on my arm. If this is it, you are not in any serious danger, but may want to change your diet to better suit your Genetic background. Simply foods like tomatoes can be killing you.
http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/dci/Diseases/Itp/ITP_WhatIs.html
http://www.drlam.com/blood_type_diet/
Check out some pics on-line, maybe you can find photos that resemble your issues.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
Let me just start out by saying, I am a firm believer in God. He is my life, and I love him so much. :D But, you see, I was raised in a Christian household. I grew up being told that Jesus was my savior, and God was my Father. I never questioned anything. Until now. I am known amongst my friends as the religious one, the one they know to NEVER offer a drink or cigarette to. Ever. ;D I have strong ideals of what is right and wrong, and a strong conscience, of which I believe to be God guiding me. So being known as that person, my friend not long ago once came to me with a dilemma, asking me all these questions about Jesus, God, etc. I had not the slightest clue of how to answer. All my faith in Him wasn't born, it was always there. I hadn't been convinced of his presence. There was never any question. So therefore, I have no facts or anything. No shield against the questions of curious people! I only have/need love, and feelings of His presence to convince me. You can't really debate with feelings, lol. Anyway, I've recently realized; All these years of just assuming and stuff, and only dealing with God, I have no idea what the Holy Spirit is! I also have no relationship with Jesus. Which has made me realize: I'm a lukewarm. I'm a poser. I've gone through my life believing I was a true christian, and now it's sorta hit me like a ton of bricks. So after all those words, here's my question: How are all three really connected? Are Jesus and God the same thing? But, why did Jesus refer to God as "The Father" if he WAS God? If they're all the same thing, what's the point of having three different things? I'm so confused. I pray to God like he's my best friend, and my dad. We're pretty tight. But when it comes to Jesus... I don't understand! When I pray to God, am I praying to Jesus too? But the Bible says if I don't know Jesus, I might as well not know God. So according to the Bible, it doesn't matter that I trust and believe in God as much as I do if I don't have a relationship with Jesus? I mean I know Christ is the only way but... UGH. -Face/palm- I've looked it up on Google, The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit thing? But I've only gotten either huge, complicated answers, or useless historical answers. I've prayed to God about it, and I think Advicenators is where He's telling me to go to. I need a human to human ANSWER, ya know, that ANSWERS my question? So can someone simply answer my questions without any unnecessary crap or anything, like stupid Wikipedia? LOL. Thank you, my sanity depends on you! OH, side question, when I'm worshiping God in song, this unknown wave of emotion flows in my chest, and all my questions fade away, and it's as if He's looking down on me, and it's calm and serene... Is this rational, and normal? My brain's not making that up, is it? xDDD!
Dear The Father, The Son, AND The Holy Spirit,
I have been studying different religions seeking the truth. I was raised Christian, I too could not answer questions when challenged by non-Christians. That is because I did not have the truth, the full truth and nothing but the truth. It has been deliberately kept from us. We have been deliberately misled with halve truths and altered perceptions.
The truth is, GOD is a very complicated subject. A very real, very misunderstood, and very misrepresented subject.
That is what set me on my path to the truth. I was confused by the texts, but I believed in GOD, JESUS, and the HOLY SPIRIT. I STILL DO!!
More than ever, because now, I am armed with the truth, so anything that challenges me, I have answers.
Unfortunately, with this illuminating truth came the knowledge of the real evil that currently represents almost all of the religious population.
Unwittingly, most members follow what they are told is truth and believe it is ultimate good. Only the handful that rule know the real reason for the church and its ultimate evil plan.
Control of the Human race.
An example of the various subjects I had to dive into in order to find the truth ranged from Religious texts (at least 15 known religions), secrets of the Illuminati, Symbolism and Freemasonry, Art History, IRS tax codes, the United States Code, Greek and Roman Mythology, Economics and Money Mechanics. These are just the tip of the iceberg.
Please keep in mind that I am not saying there is no GOD, or that feeling GOD is not real. In fact, I know the opposite to be true. I know the will of the GOD and it moves all of us. The Holy Spirit that fills us with the warm fuzziness of love is real too. Jesus, no matter what name you call him, had a message of love and forgiveness, and that is real human nature.
Not this twisted, mutated, violent, dog eat dog, rat race of an existence that the war has us victim to. I know the war for our souls is real, and very much in control of our lives right this instant.
The Christian Bible, and others like it, are Politically Influenced Condensed Readers Digest version of an time in uncertain history. I came across the same version of many of the events in much older religions than Christianity. The names were changed to fit the times, but simply put, Jesus has had a dozen or more names all pre-dating the birth of Christians.
We as a race have been manipulated through the use of words and their meanings. Please keep in mind, I am speaking from almost 20 years of experience and research.
These are the things that I found in my research.
Holy Bible translates into One Law or Universal Law Book. Your Mortal soul simply translates into Your Living Energy. The word God is plural for many God. The Holy Spirit translates to Universal Mind. The word SIN has dual meanings in the Bible, as do many of the offerings and lawful terms. There is 'sin' as in 'an immoral act' and then there is 'sin' as in 'the number of a man issued by the government'.
Do you really think that Jesus was telling you not to admire your friends haircut?
It is more likely that he was telling you to repent, or reject the 'Social Insurance Number' aka SIN issued to them by the government. That number is a binding contract that takes your living energy. That number does not belong to you. It belongs to the government, and you are allowed to use it in order to do business in the borders of this country. The system has not changed that much. The form of SIN offerings have gone from foods like lamb, to things like dollars and property.
Our society is ignorant of definitions and the implications of words. Your assumed definition is not what matters, only legal definitions are what counts. The foundations for the social security system are laid out within the first two books of Moses.
Remember, the stories in that book are actually older than the bible lets on. Everyone knows Moses came before Jesus. Moses recruited officers for Lord GOD, giving any man who would serve, a number and some money. In return, these men would have to give sin offerings to the Lord GOD, usually a lamb or gold. (Sounds identical to the Social Security System that supports the United States Government.)
As time passed, more people signed up, the beast grew and grew; and then here comes Jesus. Jesus was saying things that opposed Moses' officers, He may have been saying them thousands of years later, but still, officers of the Lord GOD none the less. Jesus was very angry that sin taxes were being imposed on the people. He even went as far as storming into the churches and cursing the 'Holy Men' for desecrating the word of GOD.
Why would Jesus go against Lord GOD's social system of governance supported by taxing the people, imprisoning innocent people and waging wars? Instead Jesus promoted the true nature of our existence. He promoted GOD's governance system which is supported not by money, but from love, forgiveness, and good will. Now, why would Jesus condemn a system ruled by Lord God; Unless, Lord GOD is not Creator GOD. (like a Brown human and a green human, both are human regardless of color)
This makes sense when you look at past societies like the Maya, Inca, Aztec, Egyptian, Sumerian and others. They are all from different eras in man's history. They all had evidence in their culture that supported the existence of many GOD that ruled their daily lives.
Then suddenly, there is this religion that swears to the existence of no other GOD than Lord GOD.
We will start with what some call the first civilization on earth. The Sumerians referred to the GOD as humanoid race of Giants called the Annunaki. This is where our history begins; with a race of Giants from another planet manipulating DNA. They were described as being masters of Genetic Manipulation. So for thousands of generations we have civilizations that believe in the existence of a GOD for every occasion, season, person, etc. . .
The planet that the GOD live on is known as Nibiru, or Planet X. It's orbit brings it close enough to earth for Annunaki to descend from 'heaven'. This happens, approximately every 36 hundred or so earth years. There is scientific evidence that supports the earth's encounter with Nibiru in the past at these intervals. Core samples of the earths magma flow support the earth changes that happen when these two planets get close enough to one another. Have you ever played with magnets. Opposites do not attract!
Moving along, in Greek and Roman Mythology, sometime in History, on Planet X, the King of the GOD and other Titans were overthrown by the King's Sons and their generation of GOD. According the the myths, the two sons, began fighting over who would inherit the throne, and the earth with all its humans. At this time, the younger generation that mutinied against the titans ran to earth and hid.
About this time in biblical history, angels fell from heaven, caste out by GOD for insubordination. These angels came to earth, and mated with the earth women, creating hybrids.
The Family Tree of the Rothschild clan is just one example. The history of that family came to me through my research on the Economy and Money Mechanics. Wow.
So anyway, the watchers took wives, and taught them their crafts. The wives were called witches and they learned how to hunt, brew potions, use nature as a cure, manipulate the elements, etc. .
A watcher has a life span of 450,000 earth years. So when people stopped believing in the old religions, the watchers would re-invent the old religion and sell it is new. Look at the similarities in Christian bibles and Government Law Books. Same basic structure with a twist on words.
So the system was working great for the watchers. Humans suffering at their hands, their planning killing the earth, and erasing any knowledge of the Creator GOD. Until along came a carpenter spouting about how love, forgiveness, and goodwill causes abundance and prosperity.
WOAH! The Fallen Angels cannot have that kind of thinking going on in the world. That would promote life and beauty; something the watchers cannot allow to exist among them.
In the information I came across while researching the watchers, I found that the Illuminati, Freemasons, and others like Knights of the Round Table, Knights of Templar, Knights of Columbus and many, many others, are founded, and perpetuated by generations of watcher bloodlines for the ultimate goal of destroying unwanted human specimens and bringing Lucifer into power; all before his home world gets here.
Here are some links for you to get started on verifying my information.
You may be able to find this book for free on a torrent. It explains Greek and Roman Mythology pretty well.
http://www.amazon.com/Myths-Their-Meaning-John-Herzberg/dp/0205080014
This one will knock your socks off. It will 'illuminate' for you just exactly where this world is headed and why.
http://www.eaec.org/bookstore/books/en_route.htm
This is another one that will knock your socks off and explain how everyone around you is being manipulated with Silent Weapons in a Silent War waged on humans.
http://www.amazon.com/Behold-Pale-Horse-William-Cooper/dp/0929385225
This guy will show you how we are contracted through a number issued by the government.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BXTqTDuehs&feature=related
Here is a link to an oath taken by members of a secret society that acts in the name of Lord GOD.
http://arcticbeacon.com/books/The_Oath_of_the_Knights_of_Columbus.pdf
The American Dollar Bill has symbolism all over it. The Eagle is the Symbol of Jupiter, the Lord OF HOSTS. In his talents are the symbols for his wives. While we have the all seeing eye, and the pyramid on the other side. When the new Currency comes out, if the pyramid is connected with the top, the plan is complete, and the rulers are ready to usher Lucifer onto the throne.
In my research I discovered that the cross, like the one Jesus was nailed to, was and still is the symbol for the Illuminati.
So, when someone asks about GOD, you can tell them that it is a complicated subject that is misrepresented and holy misunderstood. There is a GOD, in fact, history and physical evidence shows there may be thousands of them.
The point is, the subject is complicated and the masses have not been given the full picture. I had to study two years of Graphic Design to see a small part of the bigger picture.
My research leads to believe that the Illuminati manipulated the word of Christ to create a new religion of sheep. Christ did not save us, but he murdered trying to give us the tools needed to save ourselves. His bloodline has also been hunted to extinction. No one is going to ride up and save us all from a fate planned by the cunning masters of manipulation. These plans are thousands of years old, in the final phase, and almost complete.
From one human to another, in my research one can conclude that The Father is the creator. The Son is Jesus. The Holy Spirit is the Universal Conscience that connects us to each other.
It is my deeper understanding that the Father represents your mind or thoughts, the Son represents your heart or love, and the holy Spirit represents everything that is forgiveness.
I believe in the existence of GOD. I believe in and follow the teachings of Christ, and I am entirely connected to the Universal Energy aka the Holy Spirit. I am at peace with my knowledge of Religion, GOD, Jesus, and those that manipulate this world.
Knowledge is power. Keep searching and your journey will lead you to the truth as well.
Love and forgiveness are the keys to happiness and abundance.
As for the feelings you get when singing to GOD, it is not surprising that singing to someone you love would cause emotions. Music and tones are vibrations of sound wave energy that the human psyche responds too with strong reactions.
You should look into how VLF effects the human brain and induces emotions. Silent Weapons for Quiet wars. Music is one of them. The more you love something, the more emotional you get. The more emotional you get, the less rational you become. It is planned. Those in power have a very intimate working knowledge of the human brain, psyche, and body.
Seriously, look up Very Low Frequency Machines being used by our government. Some of the books I have listed will tell you about them too.
I know you wanted answers without all the crap. The truth is, I had to dig through thousands of sources full of crap to get to the speck of truth within. You are not going to get any answers without a load crap to go with them. I am sorry if any crap made it through, but that is what my research discovered about the subject of GOD, The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit.
Although I have more faith in GOD than before, and live my life by the teachings of Christ, I refuse to step foot into any church that displays a cross, reads from the Christian texts, or allows the government to dictate their activities.
I am not religious and I have rejected all organized religions. I love Christ for his courage and determination to spread the truth, and I Believe in the existence of GOD. My research showed me things that I would never have thought to be reality.
I hope my answer, crap included, will help you start your search for the truth.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
I havent had my belly button pierced yet, but its something ive wanted for a while. I was just wondering if, after the peircing has healed up properly and you can change the jewelery, is it possible to get rid of it entirely? Not that i want to, but i wanted to know. Can you get rid of the scar with bio oil or something even after its all healed up? Like, let the hole heal over...?
Thanks
Dear Naval piercing, removing the scar,
Young Mommy is right. You can let the hole close up at anytime, and use oils like Vitamin E, or Simpson Oil, for the best results, mix the two for topical applications. The Simpson Oil on its own will work better than anything out there. However, you will not find it in stores. It would put the Pharmacy out of business, since it has so many uses.
I have used Simpson Oil, or my home made version of it for years now. I have used it to get rid of scars that I have had since childhood, and prevent scars from new injuries. LOL It kills cancer on contact. Funny thing that Simpson Oil, it is so safe that you can eat it too. The Pharmacy cannot say that about most medical ointments, or other scar treatment serums.
Here is some information on the Oil I use.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0psJhQHk_GI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DKsq90jWFuA
You should know that the PTB do not want you using this Oil because is can save your life; they are in the business of death, so be aware of the truth and you will live longer.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
I smell like ass even after I take a shower, why?
Dear I stink,
Are you showering in the city's sewer? Just kidding!!
Diet my dear stinky, diet. Bad odors are mainly caused from your body processing food that is killing your genetic structure.
http://www.dadamo.com/
I used to stink so bad, even after a long hot soapy shower. The smell seemed to come from my pores. When I almost died from chicken, my dad introduced me to this diet. I no longer need deodorant, or soap. My skin is natural and gleaming, I lost weight and can think clearly.
Understanding how the foods affect you as an individual Geno type, and eating the ones that act like medicine, will reduce your health problems a hundred fold.
Good Luck!!
Docktor Tammy
I am a near 30 year old, single, attractive woman who has attended a large scale church for over 3 years now. I have not become a member of the church, but I just enjoy the worship and the teaching. The latter part of 2010, I started noticing the pastor gazing in my direction. I perceived that he may have been looking somewhere else, so I would change my sitting arrangements at church to see if it was a figment of my imagination, or if what I was discerning was accurate. Well, I noticed that no matter where I sat, he would stare with no facial expression, but with great tension in his eyes. I also notice that when I stand up during his preaching, he immediately looks away or avoids eye contact. I have never spoken to this man or have no way of comprehending his behavior, or his perceived mood swings. Any Advice.
Dear Mixed Signals,
It is hard to say what could be happening here.
Has he been the pastor there for the last 3 years, or is he new?
It is possible that he is trying to figure out who you are, if he does not already know. You attend, but he does not have your name in the book yet. We all know that conversion is the main goal of most church houses and their leaders.
I sense a conflict within him. So it is possible, that blank expression is concentration.
Or, he could be, I dare not say, under attack by silent weapons and you stand out to him for some reason. If this is the case, instead of the former, you should move far away and never go to that church again. Silent weapons are the cause of senseless violence en mass. Be aware of the world we live in and how it effects you.
Silent weapons for quiet wars
http://www.syti.net/GB/SilentWeaponsGB.html
http://www.disclose.tv/action/viewvideo/40502/William_Cooper_Silent_Weapons_for_Quiet_Wars/
However, your information leads to believe that he has taken notice of you for some reason, and is even embarrassed about looking at you. This tells me he is conscious of his actions and not likely under attack from a silent weapon. There are symptoms that are unmistakably evil when dealing with a puppet of the weapons.
Is he married? Pastors are allowed to have wives. What if he is single and does not have the courage to say anything. Mood swings indicate conflict. Maybe talking to him would clear this whole subject up fairly quickly. I recommend breaking the ice with a positive comment about himself, his preaching style, or hair cut, for example.
Find out why he has been 'staring blankly' at you, or so it seems. Maybe he needs someone to talk to too. You will never know unless you make that first move for yourself.
In the mean time, research how to recognize a person who is being targeted by the silent weapons. You will be amazed at what you find.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy