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HelloO every one

well im hilda =]=] im a just a teenager tryinig to live her life and i love helpiing poeple so if anyone need help ask il be glad to helo you =]=]
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i had this convo with my bestfriend and i feel like if my bf knew i said those things with my bestfriend that he would be mad... do you think that i was wrong to talk to my bestfriend like that even if it was joking. (the whole fuck thing is an inside joke with him) btw my bestfriend is a guy.

me: loserface
him: fuck you
me: fuck you better/more! HA!
him: haha
him: got me
me: of course i did
him: fuck you harder/faster
me: ugh. fuck you longer/hotter? haha
him: sounds good.
me: you know it!
him: you dont know nothing about sex.
me: maybe not.
him: haha you dont
me: is that bad?!?!?!?
him: yes
him: duh
him: these days you have to have sex 40 times before your 11
me: haha well i just broke the damn rules
him: oh goodness.
him: to the death pit for you.
me: haha well atleast im a virgin!
me: oooooo!
him: at least im not.
me: well your a bad boy.
him: sex is fun.
me: i bet.
me: and the only reason i dont before i get married is because if i do then ill be completely attached and if i was to break up with the person i did that with or they break up with me it would be bad... like heartbreaking bad... and all and it would end up being the on and off thing because were so attached to each other.... its not for moral reasons... its for....logical reasons.
him: haha yeah
me: i just dont want to be that serious with a guy right now.;
him: yeah i understabd.
him: i forgot you're only 14
me: if i was ready to be that serious with someone it wouldnt bother me to have sex before marriage. but the thing is... if your ready to be that serious with them your pretty much ready to marry them! haha.... so yeah. im sorry im only 14 :( i know i dont act it.
him: yeah you dont
me: well that cant be a bad thing
him: its not.
me: gooood
me: your the best bestfriend ever.

so my questions are:
1)is that wrong?
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Hey hun

Well um to you it might not sound that serious but to your boyfriend it will because like that was a sexual talk adn your gonn arelly need to explain to your boyfriend what it ment cause atm he has no idea so if i was you id tell him


I have this friend who I met a few months ago. We became almost like best friends (emphasis on almost) until I noticed something..she follows me. If I don't show up for lunch one day she looks around the school for me. If I don't show up to meet with her and our "possy" in the morning one day, she goes everywhere to find me, and this just creeps me out. On top of that, she ALWAYS needs my help with math homework. Always. Whenever I help her, she just says "I don't know how to do it" and when I show her, she scoots so close to me and it makes me feel like punching her. I was doing my homework this morning and said I was busy so she sat there looking at me while I did it.

Anyways, I told another friend about this and SHE told HER. And so she cried during first period and ugh. What should I do?

male/16 (link)
Hey

well yeh she could like you or she jus feels like really close to you because use have known eachother for a while so she might feel safe around you but most likely i think she likes you sit her down and talk to her and etll why she does that because if you have friends doing it for you yeh it will hurt her alot more thas why you need to do it yourself.when seh comes out with the truth the you can it will be easier for you to nkow what to do adn hot to feel well gd luk mwa mwa

love : hilda


ok so theres this boy...of course. he is cute funny and we have known each other for over a year. we flirt and talk all the time but i love this kid and i really want to be more than friends. i want to know how to tell him but i dont want it to be weird. please help! (link)
hey Hun

well you should sit him down and tell him how you feel aboput him but if he dosnt like you back say to him you dont want to have a weried friendship just because you like him but if he does act weried you should tell him not to because you dont wnat u liking him more then a friend take over your friendship and yes you should tell him because if you dont everytime you go near him you will havea weried vibe telling your self tot ell him so let out the trut you never know he might lik you to

well gd luck mwa mwa love : hilda


Which of these thesis paper topics (about anything in American History)sounds more like a thesis & something a teacher would probably prefer?
1. Arthur Miller's personal life experinces were the biggest contributuions to his success as a great American playwright.
2. Many different events and issues in the later half of the 20th century helped to shape the ideology of American theatre.

(these would not be the final thesis sentences...i will re-word them...I just need a feel for which is better.) (link)
Hey Hun

well they both sound great but unfortanitly u can only choose so i go for the first one


and gd luk mwa mwa


love : hilda


ok well i made this video and i want to put it on my myspace. how to i do that? (link)
ey well you cant put like vedios here if you read the faqs it will tell you ,you cant


:love hilda mwa mwa


Well me and this guy dated for a really long time and he would tell me how much he loved me where always together at school and we would talk on the phone all the time but we barely ever hungout besides at school he always said he would come over then he wouldnt and he wouldnt call to say he wasnt coming over and sometimes he was really mean to me. Well about a month ago i found out that he has a girlfriend that lives in another town and he was going out with her the whole time we were dating. of course i broke it off with him and we stopped talking just recently he started talking to me alot again and he says that he loves me and he is really scared because he thinks that he wont get another chance with me but he is stil going out with that other girl he told me he would break up with her for me and the only reason he went out with her was because he didnt think i wanted to go out with him even tho i really did i still do i care about him so much but i know that he is a player and i dont know if i can trust him. i try so hard not to talk to him and to act like i dont like him but when i see him i cant help but want to talk to him and hug him and just be with him. but i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance because the other day he told me him and his girlfriend where about to break up and then he told my friend they where doing really great and he says that he loves her but he also says that he loves me more and he flirts with my friends right in front of me We where best friends before we dated and i dont know what to do i miss being close to him as a friend and i miss dating him. I cry all the time because i miss him but i know he isnt worth it but i just cant help caring about him. Sorry this is really long.. (link)
hey hun

yeh i know love is a big work but a cheat is always a cheater thats a fact and if he really did love you he wouldt flirt with your friends in front of you he would try to get you back and seeing what he does i think he wants to go out with you for a reason or soemthing like that but hey move on a guy isnt worth all the tears waste your tears on something joyful then a boy because some boyz are just cheats and lies and that one is definetly both so move on theere is some one out threre you just need time and you might think of him and all that (thats like so normal ) trying hanging with your friends adn shopping ( girls favourite sport ) :) well the guy isnt wotrth your love you can do alot better


well take care mwa mwa hope i helped

love : hilda mwa please reply bak :)


I met this girl this year, and we quickly became best friends. We ate lunch together every day, saw eachother outside of school, and we had English together so we would always see eachother. Semester 2 began, and she started to eat lunch with the guy she liked and his friends, leaving me all alone. I found a new group of friends while she continued hanging out with her crush and his group of friends. I confronted her about it right after it started and we argued about it so much we didn't talk for 2 weeks. We made up, but things still aren't the same. She says its important that she gets the guy, but I always thought our friendship was more important. It's been a while now, and we still don't talk often (VERY rarely), never see eachother, and I don't know what's going on in her life anymore. I want our friendship back, but I don't want to fight about it again and have it be even worse. What can I do? (link)
hey

well um talk to her agin but tell her this time you need her to really lisitien tell her that if she likes the guy that she should tell him so she knows if he likes her or not and tell her it's stressing you out beacuse you love her as a friend and you dont want a guy to interfeer tell her that friends always come first beacuse boys r on and off and friends are awlays there no matter what but if she wants to choose a guy over a friend then she isnt a true frend and she needs to respect her friends a little more because you wer ethey one that loved and cared for her before her crush came alone so tell her she really needs to think about what she chooses because you feel lft out and you really want everything to be the same and if seh dosnt care then move on there are other great people to look fowrd to and when her crush upsets her she will come running up to you saing srry and from there you can make ur mind if you want to be her friend or not


well take care mwa mwa

: love hilda hope i helped and please do rate me :):)


My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice. (link)
hey

Well tell him that he needs to ask her out his self maybe the girl said no ebacuse sh wanted him to do it his self you never know well yeh tell him to ask her out his self adn if she rejects tell him he can do better and there is some one out there you just have to wait and tell the gir that she needs to get to nkow him better before saying no


well take acre mwa mwa hope i helped : love : hilda


About 3 weeks ago i had sex with this kid hes 16. Well While we had sex he didnt use a condum untill i asked him to. (i know i should have asked a head of time)(but its to late for that now)well im having the feeling im pregnant (scary thought) i was going to wait a couple more weeks and take a test. And Suggestions? and if the test is positive what should i do? please help im almost 15 and really scared at this moment (link)
Hey Hun

Hey well you might not be pregenat u might kepp getting the feelings because your worried to much and worring can cause pain but try not to think about it but if they pains do get worse go to a doctor and check and if its positive try talking to your mum about it but if she gets mad well then you need tot ell at the moment you cant really be dealing with her always getting mad tell her this is the best time you need her support and careing tell her that you would lvoe her to be there for everystep of the way but if seh dosnt are well then try your best

well i really hope i helps


take care mwa mwa : love hilda mwaz


I have a friend that is going out with a guy who is really bad for her. He has hurt her before. He has sprained my wrist purposely and he is a drug dealer. He deals hardcore stuff; cocaine, crystal meth, heroin, etc. She has done coke in the past and she was beginning to develop a dependancy, but my friends and I helped her to kick it. We think that she has started using again and has probably started with other drugs, too. We've tried talking to her, but she won't seem to listen. Is there any way we can get her away from him? Thanks. (link)
Hey Hun

well you should tell her parents it might cause some problems between use but tell her you love her as a friend and you dont want anything to happen to her and telling her parents was the best option and if dosnt wnat to be your friend well hey look on the bights side she will eventually tell you how right yoy were adn how rry she is andit's better to lose a friend for a while then losing her forever or watching something bad happen to her cause she needs to learn what life is really about

well take acre and gd luk mwa mwa

love : hilda mwaz


I was wondering were i could find a penpal (to like talk to through email or aim)
or if any GIRL who types nice would like to be my penpal
(even though the word penpal is pretty stupid more like friend.)
and im 13/f by the way.
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hey id love to be your penpal you sound like a great person well if you my msn hot mail it is hilda_is_a_hilary_britney_liker@hotmail.com or you can add me here just add me in the box


well take care mwa mwa


I'm 13 and I've liked this guy for a year now, and I'm beginning to wonder whether I should tell him I like him. I doubt he likes me back in "that way", but I'm 99.99999...% sure that he likes me as a friend. We're good friends. Not like unseparably devoted best friends, but we talk a lot. I'm not sure whether telling him how I feel is a good idea. Can anyone give me their thoughts? (link)
Hey Hun well i think a year is a long time and yeh you sould tell him you never know if a guy liks you but at least your out witht he truth if he dosnt like you back dont go think bad about your self like your ugly or anything like that he might think your gorguz but he just dosnt feel the same way he just think about how lucky you are that he is evn your friend dont let your friendship get runied by you thinking bad aout it..... but there also is a chanc where he likes you so tell him how you feel gd luk mwa mwa

love : hilda


ok so i really want some help . please. i will rate 5's for anyy.

ok soo. i have a new boyfriend we'll call him jake (of 4 days) and i really like him. i never see him he lives like 20 min away.. different school and stuff and i havent seen him since last year at a batmitzvah where i met him. we talk online a lot and (4 days ago) he asked me out. i said yes because i like him and hes nice and blahh. however i have been in love with this one guy we'll call him chris. (these are not their real names) so i have like loved chris for a year. he was a jerk to me.. and so i TOLD myselfi didnt like him anymore but i still did. so anyways,to get to my point. i still love chris even though im dating jake. i dont want to dump jake but how should i get over chris. and chris is like a good friend. and another thing.. jake ,i feel, is always taking advantage of me and my body.. he always asks if i'm horney or what we would do (how far we'd go) or if i would send "sexy" pics of me. (if you know what i mean) and he says that like every time we talk and ugh its annoying but i still like him a lot. soo yeah id love any advice thanks sooo much and sry if this was sooo long (link)
Hey hun

well um jake sounds like a moron srry to say because he osunds like the horny type and that could lead to sex but chris sounds like a sweety but dont lisiten to me lol but hey think of who you really have feelings for cause it will be ahrd to date some one but ypu haev feelings for some one else talk to your boyfriend about it and if he dsnt respect that then tell him you need him to support you and if he dosnt care adn swears you and all that just tell him to stop being a jerk and to respect your descions and after that if you do dump himt ell chris how you feel shouldt have to hide them

hope this helps plz do reply bak take care mwa wma

love : hilda


i like this boy since last march. i don't know if i should come out to him. i really love this boy, it's so hard to explain. we flirt alot but he doesn't like me he's a BIG flirt.. i'm scared of responses and i don't know if i should tell him? what should do to forget about him ? should i tell him? how could i move on? (link)
Hey Hun :

sounds like you really love thsi boy well yes you should tell him cause he might like you to but h might not like you but at least you came ou with the truth instead of holding it back hey because you told him the truth it will be a little bit easier to get over him hey and you never know he might ask you out but if he dosnt dont think of your self as if your not good enough just give your chance a go

well gd luck hope everything goes well mwa mwa live : hilda


Alright. I am 17 and ive had sex alot. but the thing is...my parents think im still a virgin. and my brother found out about me and this guy last night. and now hes like holding it against me. i am pretty paranoid cause i mean. he usually doesnt tell on me but sometimes he does. what should i do? come clean or just see what happens? (link)
well hey im only 13 but i can still have a say :) well um you should talk to your brother tell him his you brother and you need to trust him and you need him to be there for you and you will do the same tell your brother if he forces you to tell your parents you should but tell him when the time is righ tbecause you dont feel comfortable at the moment and if he tell your parents just tell him it's gonna be very hard to trust him and if you get in alot of trouble tell your parents yor 17 ur like an adult you also need to make your own decisions but you need them there to love and support you ifit dosnt work then im really sorry but thast the best i got plz reply

xox love hilda taek carw mwa mwa


So, I'm a boy, my friend is a girl..her boyfriend has recently gotten back and they are w/ eachother a lot. So they had sex a few times the first week, and it's been like 3 weeks now. They have sex at least once every day(i'm pretty sure) but if not, just about. Well i don't care, because her bf is my friend too..but what DOES actually piss me off is that we were watching a movie, and when her mom went to church, the very second she pulled out of the driveway, they ran to her room to have sex. leavin me there alone..i don't want to piss her off but i want her to know that it bugs me..how do i do it w/out hurting her? (link)
well hey im only 13 but i will try to help you well um first you need tot alk to your friend tell how you feel and what you would expect from a friend and is se dosnt listien tell her to reamember that friends always come first stand up for your self and tell her when he boyfriend dumps her not to come crawling to you and tell to remember who was there before he boyfriend and who was the once that cared adn loved you before your boyfriend came and if she ignores you tell her she's not a true friend and seh needs to learn that friends will always be there but boyz are on and off




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