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is a convo like this?
i had this convo with my bestfriend and i feel like if my bf knew i said those things with my bestfriend that he would be mad... do you think that i was wrong to talk to my bestfriend like that even if it was joking. (the whole fuck thing is an inside joke with him) btw my bestfriend is a guy.
me: loserface
him: fuck you
me: fuck you better/more! HA!
him: haha
him: got me
me: of course i did
him: fuck you harder/faster
me: ugh. fuck you longer/hotter? haha
him: sounds good.
me: you know it!
him: you dont know nothing about sex.
me: maybe not.
him: haha you dont
me: is that bad?!?!?!?
him: yes
him: duh
him: these days you have to have sex 40 times before your 11
me: haha well i just broke the damn rules
him: oh goodness.
him: to the death pit for you.
me: haha well atleast im a virgin!
me: oooooo!
him: at least im not.
me: well your a bad boy.
him: sex is fun.
me: i bet.
me: and the only reason i dont before i get married is because if i do then ill be completely attached and if i was to break up with the person i did that with or they break up with me it would be bad... like heartbreaking bad... and all and it would end up being the on and off thing because were so attached to each other.... its not for moral reasons... its for....logical reasons.
him: haha yeah
me: i just dont want to be that serious with a guy right now.;
him: yeah i understabd.
him: i forgot you're only 14
me: if i was ready to be that serious with someone it wouldnt bother me to have sex before marriage. but the thing is... if your ready to be that serious with them your pretty much ready to marry them! haha.... so yeah. im sorry im only 14 :( i know i dont act it.
him: yeah you dont
me: well that cant be a bad thing
him: its not.
me: gooood
me: your the best bestfriend ever.
so my questions are:
1)is that wrong?
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thats not wrong
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Nahhhh.
Turning him down could have been one of the best choices ever.
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No. That is so not wrong. You did the right thing,u stuck to what u belive in. That takes alot of nerve to do what you did. Most girls your age will talk all that and they really dont know anything about it. Girls like that are most likely a "tease" they get the guys up and ready and thinking that the girl will do it and then the girls back down. You did the right thing. Im 15 years old and i wish i could have been like you when i was 14. That was the mature thing to do. Hope this helps!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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Nope. You are sticking to your logic and beliefs which is a good thing; you don't let other people or the media influence you into thinking that sex is casual and not a serious thing; you are not afraid to stand up for who you are to your friends or other people. Kudos for you. It is true you are only 14 - why do something like that now when you might have to live another 50 years regretting it, you know? Hope that helped.
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Not at all and it's as simple as that. You did nothing wrong and everything you said was quite mature. If that's what you really do believe then good for you. What is a best friend for if not to share all your thoughts, feelings, problems and all that good stuff with? Don't worry about this at all. Don't go blabbing to your boyfriend that you were talking about sex with another guy though. Not because it was wrong, but because he will get jealous and take it the wrong way. In other words he won't understand. Even if you like your best friend as a little more than a friend, nothing about that or what you did is wrong. I hope I helped and good luck!
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You're just flirting with your best friend. Now if you show no feelings toward your best friend then there's no problem. If it's just an inside joke then it's fine but if you truly mean it or have ever thought about doing it with him, I guess you can say, then maybe you have feelings toward him that could get in the way of your relationship with your boyfriend. You can say it's both wrong and not wrong. Wrong because he's a guy and you were flirting but not wrong because it's just an inside joke. I have a boyfriend but I have a lot of guy friends whom I have tons of inside jokes with.
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Hey hun
Well um to you it might not sound that serious but to your boyfriend it will because like that was a sexual talk adn your gonn arelly need to explain to your boyfriend what it ment cause atm he has no idea so if i was you id tell him
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