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A friend or a stalker?
I have this friend who I met a few months ago. We became almost like best friends (emphasis on almost) until I noticed something..she follows me. If I don't show up for lunch one day she looks around the school for me. If I don't show up to meet with her and our "possy" in the morning one day, she goes everywhere to find me, and this just creeps me out. On top of that, she ALWAYS needs my help with math homework. Always. Whenever I help her, she just says "I don't know how to do it" and when I show her, she scoots so close to me and it makes me feel like punching her. I was doing my homework this morning and said I was busy so she sat there looking at me while I did it.
Anyways, I told another friend about this and SHE told HER. And so she cried during first period and ugh. What should I do?
male/16
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Talk to her. The girl has a crush on you. She just doesn't know how to handle it.
Tell her you like her as a friend but you aren't interested in dating her right now. Be as nice about it as you can be.
I think she may have taken your friendship to be more...or is hoping it will be more. Let her down easy. But do talk to her about it. :)
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well yeh she could like you or she jus feels like really close to you because use have known eachother for a while so she might feel safe around you but most likely i think she likes you sit her down and talk to her and etll why she does that because if you have friends doing it for you yeh it will hurt her alot more thas why you need to do it yourself.when seh comes out with the truth the you can it will be easier for you to nkow what to do adn hot to feel well gd luk mwa mwa
love : hilda
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I think that your friends has a crush on you and really likes you, but I take it that you aren't feeling the same way.
But anyway, now that she knows, this is your chance to let her know that you like having her as a friend but you need room to breathe because you both are only friends.
Maybe you could also ask her why she follows you, and tell her you are asking out of curiousity. Maybe if you knew the reason it could resolve some things. If she has a crush on you, then you can tell her that you don't have feelings for her.
-TheTeenGirl
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Is there any possible way she could like you? She's a girl, you're a boy... maybe she wants your help to get closer to you, and possibly has a crush on you. That's why it may have hurt her so much, because not only did you not feel the same way, but found it weird. If this isn't the case, then maybe she just really cares about you. If you've been an important friend to her for a while now, she may depend on you to be there with her.
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Hi,
It sounds like your friend really has a 'thing' for you or hasn't had many good friends. You should take this girl thats stalking you and tell her in private that you want to be friends with her but you would really appreciate that if she would kinda let you have "me" time ever once in a while. But make it clear that you want to be friends only. That is if you really do. =].
I have a friend like that. Yesterday I missed school and another friend told me that she went into the hall during class break and looked all over for me and was screaming my name. When I got to school this morning it was, "____ where were you yesterday!?! I was soo sad!".
So I really hope that you get things clear with this girl. Because I know how it feels. Good luck!
-GD
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