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On july 13th, 2005 I started dating this boy who I really liked. I was so in love with this boy, even though I was so young. He is in my grade but he is a year older than me because I should be in a grade lower than I am in. I liked this boy so much because he was my first love. We were so open eachother and I told him more than what I would tell my best friend or my mom. If I needed help, or someone to talk to, he was the first person I'd call. Same for him towards me. We were inseperable and spent everyday together. We hardly ever fought, and if we did, we would make up the next day. Me and this boy dated for exactly 1 year and a week. We both just needed a break and dated other people. After about a month or two, we started going back out. Then we were on and off until February 21st, 07. He broke up with me because he thought I liked another boy but I didnt. Ever sense then, he has made out with some of my so called "friends" and he has completely ignored me. I want him back more than anything in the world right now. My friends have tried to talk to him but he says he hates me. Even I have tried but he just ignores my texts, or walks away. I've tried everything. I've tried ignoring him, ive tried making him jelous with his friends, he doesnt care. I dont know what to do and im dying inside, please help me get him back !!! =/

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This guy I really want to ask to homecoming just got a girlfriend. I go to an all girls school and he goes to an all boys school. His girlfriend doesn't go to my school though. I wanted to know if you think it would be ok if I still took him to my homecoming. Or would that be totally off limits.

P.S I don't like him, we are just really good friends.

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a girl thinks were freinds but i dont rlly lke her. she went out whtt his guy but he broke up with her. now he asked me out. should i say yes? because we really like eachother and shes out of the picture but i dont want to hurt her. any ideas

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I seem to hate it so much whenever people use msn slang, double letters like ''radd &&fabb'' and also &&.

I know I'm 14...but everyone else uses msn slang ALL the time.

Is there something wrong with me because I hate it so much? I find it easier to type normally.
I understand things like w.e lol stfu etc.
bt wen thy typ lik ths it pisses the sht out of m.

Also I find people who use excessive emoticons for like words and so on.

I'm wondering whether I have a problem..?

sorry it was long.

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Is it possible for your mom to be your sister?
I think it is but my friend says it isn't
My theroy is that your dad has a kid then your dad and his kid make you. therefore, your mom is your sister because you and your mom are both kids from your dad.
My friend keeps saying that it's not possible.

Do you think i'm right or not?

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hey this queshtion is mosly for girls. i have a firend that i like and i think that she might like me too but im not really sure if i should ask her. i think that she is sorta giveing me an idea that she dose but im just affraid that if i do ask her and she dosent like me then we wont be as close. what do you guys think i should do and how should i aproch her wiht it. plz answer tis and thank you

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Well i like this guy ALOT. Like ALOT ALOT. I like him more than ive ever liked anyone. And he likes me too & hes planning to ask me out tomorrow, but theres one problem:

Hes moving in 3 weeks. Hes not moving too far but its about an hour away, and i obivousley wont be able to him very often.

I dont know what to do because i like him soooo much so if i say yes, ill like him even more and then he'll move, but i dont really want to say no. There is the chance we could break up before 3 week.

so what do i do?

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My parents are divorced, but still have the same ideas on alot of stuff. I am white. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. My parents both say that i can not like(have a crush on), date, or marry anyone who is Black, "Mexican"(I tell them all the time "HISPANIC"), Chinese, or Mixed. The thing is, I like ALOT of people! About half of which are not white. Its not because I like other colors, I just happen to like these people. my parents say they will disown me if i ever marry someone not white. The boy I am crazy about is Hispanic. I have a lot of different colored friends. So racism realy offends me. But whenever i mention this, they get mad. What can I do!

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A few of the teens at my church won't date anybody when they're in high school, b/c they think it's pointless... but some of them will date in high school; I've dated people before, but I'm starting to see the other people's pov (the one's that won't date anybody), but I really like someone, and I don't know if I should date while I'm in high school or wait like SOME of the people at my church.... any ideas?

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this guy has a gf but he likes me 2. I lke him back and he wants to hookup and stuff and cheat on her with me. yah i no its wrong but i really lke him and were gonna go out anyway after they break up . BUt they might not breakup for a while. shes also a "friend of mine" but i dont rlly like her. idk what to do bc i like him alot and dont want to wait but if anyne finds out my life is ruined.thanks!

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hey guys im 14 years of age and am looking for a job but no one will hired someone under the age of 16 that i know of so far if anyone know somewhere that will hire at 14 please tell me

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do you think it's too fast to be past second base after 3rd week of going out?

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Ok, so, a few days ago, my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it didn't work, which is good, because I didn't really want it too. And like, he really wants to have sex, but I'm not ready. Well, apparently, he told people he fingered me and stuff. I feel like he's using me to be able to tell his friends "oh my god i did this with a chick!" or something. Like, lets say we had sex. What if he told people? They're already thinking Im a slut, which Im not. I'm like, really shy, and I don't "confront" people, I guess you could say. what do I do? It's killing me.

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Hey everyone, I love music and am constantly downloading songs to my iPod. Unfortunately, Limewire, the downloading site I usually use, is ILLEGAL. I know many people use this site, but I don't want to get in trouble with anyone and want to do the right thing. Since I listen to so much music, iTunes is very expensive!

Does anyone know of any website where I can download music LEGALLY for FREE?

Thanks in advance,
Spoolie21

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18/M hey the names weak
I have a problem, my relationship with my girlfriend is going good so far, but I feel that I'm going to be the one that will mess up, what I mean is that I'm weak with girls and I'm afraid that one day I will go to go a party one day and there's girls all over me and I can't help but to flirt or god forbid sleep with some of them, I never cheated on my girlfriend but like I said I'm weak against girls, what should I do to prevent this from happening, I love my girlfreind and she doesn't deserve to be hurt, but I really like women also?
please help thanks

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okay so my name is lauren.
14/f
so i like this guy who has a girl friend and he wants to make out with me and i want to too. the problem is i have never made out with someone b4 but he thinks i have. will he notice that i havent. and do you have any tips!??


thanks

~LaUrEn~

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Im going to an island over spring break adn the drinking age is lower so i want to try some drinks. I know you cant drink on certain medications, can you drink if you are on birth control

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how can you survive a broken heart from a first love and you have done everything with him. ALMOST EVERYTHING EXCEPT FOR sex. but how can you survive a broken heart from a first love and from someone you really lpoved and first kiss..

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18/f
(sorry its long)
so here's the scoop: so i had my first real boyfriend this time last year. things with us were amazing! we were together 7 months, and not once did we ever fight, i mean literally, it was unreal. we talked about things like when we were going to move in together, where we were going to live, kids, and just future life. well eventually he dumped me for another girl he met that i worked with and they've been together ever since. we had a HUGE falling out and got into our first and only fight and we quit talking for months. well, not long ago we talked and i apologized for everything i had said and that i was just very upset because i really loved him and it hurt. so i talked to his best friend and he said that my ex won't quit talking about me (in a good way) saying how much he misses me and how he's never met anybody like me.

well him and his gf got in a huge fight because she knows me and him talk and she feels threatened so she's bad mouthing me to him then being all nice and whatever to me at work and i won't have that crap. and i talked to his best friend today and he said that my ex was over yesterday and they watched a movie and all the sudden out of no where he asks "why did i break up with her?" and my friend pretty much said "because you're an idiot and couldn't see a good thing when you had it, and you gave it up for a hoe" and neither of them spoke the rest of the night. well apparently he's made it known that my parents are the only thing standing in the way of him asking to get back together with me (we had a very, very physical relationship that my parents found out about a few months after we split and they're not too happy that we did that then he dumped me for another girl). but aside from that, he would in a heartbeat and has already said that his current gf's next boyfriend won't deal with her crap nearly as long as he has so evidentally its about to end soon.

so question 1: my parents hate him. and they want me to have nothing to do with him. i've snuck out and gone to his house in the middle of the night (he lives 30 minutes away and we weren't cheating, we were just playing pool and watching tv) and they have no idea. how can i explain to my parents he's different now and that he's the only one i want to be with and have ever truly cared about??

question 2: how can i let him know, without being forward while he still has a gf, that i still love him? and that my parents are not a factor because i will do anything to be with him again if he just gives me the chance?

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is it normal for a guy friend to take you out to dinner on your birthday if he's romantically interested in someone else and you and this guy aren't dating?

btw we're both 16

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