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guy and his gf
this guy has a gf but he likes me 2. I lke him back and he wants to hookup and stuff and cheat on her with me. yah i no its wrong but i really lke him and were gonna go out anyway after they break up . BUt they might not breakup for a while. shes also a "friend of mine" but i dont rlly like her. idk what to do bc i like him alot and dont want to wait but if anyne finds out my life is ruined.thanks!
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Wow....Hooking up with him while he has a Gf isnt a good idea,,,If he likes you that much he'll break up with his Gf for you...if not than he jus wants a Play buddy.....Dont ruin your life for any guy no matter how much you like him...
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Yeah, no.
This guy sounds like a total jerk. If he really liked you, he'd break up with your "friend" already. Otherwise, you're really just "the girl on the side". I know it may sound harsh, but think about it. It's true. besides, even if you ignore YOUR role in this little mess, think about HIM: is this really the kinda guy you wanna be with?
If you don't care about that girl he's messing with, and you like him too much to see what a jerk he is, at least take a look at what you think about yourself. And if you STILL wanna get yourslef into this, go for it. But i think you already have an idea of how things would go, otherwise you'd've done it already=/
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Ok.
So,you want to date this guy whos going to cheat on his current with you, then date you once hes done with her (which may not be for a while)
What makes you think you're any more special than he is? Surely not the fact that he ISNT just going to break up with her for you. All he wants is some play on the side. Someone he can go to to get his rocks off when his girlfriend doesnt do it for him.
Congrats, you are nothing more than a piece of ass to him. He wants to sleep with more than one girl at a time and he thinks you're stupid enough to say yes because you like him.
Do yourself a favor and dont ever be that girl.
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Don't do it. Besides it being wrong, it's just not a good idea. If he thinks he can hook up with you while staying with his girlfriend, that's exactly what he'll continue to do... have his cake and eat it too. Sure, he may talk a good game and tell you he's planning to break up with her, but that's cuz he'll want to keep you strung along so he can have the best of both worlds. If he really likes you enough to break up with her, he will. But hooking up with him while he still has a girlfriend will pretty much guarantee that he'll continue to stay with her.
Oh, and another thing to think about. If he has no problem cheating on her with you, what makes you think he won't cheat on YOU once you're going out? Don't kid yourself into thinking that he only wants to cheat on her because he likes you sooo much. If he liked you that much, he'd be with you right now. He knows you like him and sees an opportunity to get some extra action. Don't let him use you like that.
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ok make sure he breaks up with her first then if he still likes you which im sure he will go for it dont let anyone get in your way you be happy with your man if any more questions come up feel free to leave a message my user name is peridot2486 ok hope it works out bye
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clearly you don't think him cheating on his girlfriend with you is wrong because you said that she a friend of your but you don't like her and you don't know if they will break up soon enough. You should nevere hook up with someone that has a boyfriend or girlfriend. its wrong in so many ways. If he will no tbreak up with his girlfriend for you then he doesn't really want you, face that. You should find someone else. go for the single guys..
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i know this may sound reallyy bad but keep your eyes on the prize. but dont do anything with him till he breaks up, girl code. haha. but if you dont like the girl dont be fake to her. tell her what you think about her wait for your man to break up with her and go in for the kill.
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