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this kid i like has gotten a blowjob from a girl. i know that all boys only think about is SEX and alla that. obviously haha! but yeah i dont know what to do? because i feel like i have to do something sexual just for him to like me. and i know "yeah then blow him off" just because he would want something from me..but its not that easy! i mean i wouldnt mind makin out with him ;) i wouldnt feel very comfortable doing anything else tho..
what if he asked me? what do you think i should say if i wasnt ready..

noo! dont do anything your not comfortable with a guy.. that will just screw up things and if this guy really lieks you he will wait. if he askes you just be straight up and say not now or not yet or anything because you dont wanna get used! if he dumps you or doesnt talk to you any more because of it, its his loss, and then you woudlnt have to waste your time on a asshole like that. but if he really does like you he wont rush you into anything
so good luck!

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well i havent done much with a guy..just madeout once haha. but i loved it! and i really wanna do someting else again..but i dont know! like im scared that if a really cute guy i just meet wants to finger me or something..that i will do it because he is a freakin hottie! ..and i dont know if i would want to but it would be hard to turn that down you know?

this is really personal so its okay if you dont wanna answer..
but how far have you gone with a guy..

thanks babes.

hey
yeah i know how it is haha its hard to turn down a guy but if you dont wanna go that far then dont give him the signals that you do.. and if you like this kid dontlet him do too much so you know hes likes you and isnt just using you

umm the farthest ive gone witha guy well haha ive done a lot with my x boyfriend who i went out with for 6 months.. but ive never had sex soo yeah lol
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Hey babes.
Okay.. soo my friend kinda likes this kid. but she also likes another kid too haha its kinda confusing. and like ive seen one of the guys she likes and he is super HOTT and seems really funny. and i wanna meet him but my friend is wayyy to shy and i dont wanna be like yeah lets hang out with him and she'll be like why? and i'll be like i dunno..i mean she knows i think he is cute! but she wont have the nerve to hang out with him. i dont wanna wait to meet this kid he is sucha cutie! and then i will feel bad if i do meet him that we will start to flirt or something or he will look at me (sorry i dont wanna sound like selfish or anything) but then IF he does do that what do i do? i would sooo wanna flirt back but then i dont want her to get mad..but ugh i dont want to wait for her forever to make a move you know? i dont even know if she would get mad! and i dont wanna ask her..like what if he flirts with me or something because i dont wanna sound conceited. well i hope you know where im coming from
xoxo

hey there, well i think that if your friend likes him then you shouldnt really do anything with him untill your for sure she doesnt any more because you dont wanna ruin a friendship over a guy. buuut, you could ask her to like hang out with a bunch of girls and guys and then you could get a chance to see this guy or even meet some new ones. and you could ask her if she would pick one guy who would it be and tell her she should really just pick one or something but dont make it so you go right to the guy if she doesnt pick him because she could still have feelings for him. if he does flirt with you, you dont have to completely blow him off but dont be realy flirty with him other wise you could upset your friend. hope i helped!
erica

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ok well im 15 and im pretty tall maybe 5'7ish maybe a lil shorteR?!
anyways..
i havent weighed myself in awhile but im guessing i weigh about 120 pounds. i mean i feel FAT tho. i know im not but i always feel like i have to be working out or something..or like i shouldnt eat alot!! i feel really bad about doin this because i know im not fat! even people think i should gain weight but i dont want to - my stomach already seems to be gettin a lil chubbier but i dont know if its just me?!
ahhh im really messed up right now.. =[

hey, my friend has that same problem and shes like perfect and thinks shes 'fat' but really shes tiny. you could eat more healthy foods if you think you need to eat less. working out is fine just dont do it too much and dont overdue yourself otherwise itll cause serious problems. go for a run itll make you feel better with everything and it wont overdue your workout.. i serisouly wouldnt worry though because you are normal and if people are saying you should gain weight theres deff not a problem. i hope everything works out for you!!

xoxo erica

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4 more days of school left till x-mas break :) haha yay! but i dont think i can handle it seriously..me and school do NOT get along and lately we have been doin really hard things like we've been workin on this really hard and confusing essay in english and we're gonna have to work on it over break..DRABB! but i dont know if i can go thru with this 4 days it seems like forever! AND i know we are going to have a ton of test on thursday because thats just how our teachers are--having tests all on the same day. its just really stressful and school is sooo boring im gettin really sick of it and the people! any helpful ways to get thru this?
thanks gorgeous.

hey OMG i know i get out on wendsday and im so pumped
school can really suck ass im with you on that one
i wish i knew what to do but i just have some ideas.. when im stressed and in a bad mood i usually just take a nap it just helps all my problems go away haha and homework sucks but it feels better to get it done earlier than really late at night so your not packed with everything. and is it possible if you could work on your essay and try and get it done before break? if not try and do it when you have nothing else to do
about the teachers having tests all on the same day there really isnt too much you can do besides study a whole lot :-\... start studying now and just go from there and youll have it
dont get involved with the people your sick of just try to ignore and hvae fun with your friends! that was really long and confusing but let me know how everything goes, and if you need any thing else

♥ , erica

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hi um well i need help. im a girl age 15 and i weigh 100 and 5 pounds, i know that is not alot but im only 4,11. and i look very big not in my tummy area but my theighs. I wanna know how to lose weight and keep it off. i also need to grow! any ideas' people alwAys say _ _ _ _ _ _ _ you need to grow or they will look at me and say wow your short. i get really upset about this. i like being short but i want to grow a little bit! thank u

hey
a good way to work out is pilaties i dont know if its spelled right do you know what those are? but i guess they work really good... im not positive how you could grow but what you could do is wear heels! they dont have to be super tall and uncomfortable just pick any kind. well sorry i didnt help much, but if you need anything else leave it in my inbox!

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What can I do to get my hair curly/spiraled mixed? Like, what should I use?

hey, my friend did my hair really curly and i liked it its on my pic if you wanna see but she did it layer by layer starting from the bottom and sprayed ALOT of hairspray on each layer and she used a curling iron and curled the whole piece of hair and did that all over. it took like 45 minutes to a hour so it depends on how much time you have

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oh k well..i never kissed a guy before and im in 9th(i know) and like this kid it 11th and he always wants me to go over and i wanna go im just a little nervous cause i dont wanna mess up with him tho.. ya know?

~confuesd

i think your question is you wanna go over there but you dont wanna like 'screw up' with kissing him? well my advice would just be to let it happen that might not be the answer your looking for but trust me i was really nervious for my first kiss but once we just kissed and started making out everything just went normal and just happend with out any effort so go over there but dont go too far haha

erica

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Maybe this sounds stupid but....
..Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? Tell me! I getting sick of it! please help! X'O

hey no i dont really have a problem with it unless its like really big or something haha... look for some at walgreens or something like that and find some good ones that dont have any metal on it if you get what im saying
hope i helped!

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I moved to a new school about 2 months ago. I met this guy during my third week and we started fooling around. He doesn't want another relationship (like a bf\gf) thing because he's scared of getting his heart broken again. I haave also had my heart broken but i really like him and want us to be more than just friends with benefits. I want us to have some commitment to each other. He tells me that he cares about me all the time and always tells me how much he likes me and stuff like that, but hewon't commit to me. How should I talk to him about this? and if he isn't ready for another relationship, should i continue to do friends with benefits with him?

ive done that and yeah it was fun and ii was happy but then the guy would still be like 'hmm were not going out so i can still do this and that' and it really sucked because i ended up being used and it hurt... he told me he loved me and stuff too... but i dono just be careful and i would suggest saying you dont feel like getting used and dont do too much with him

good luck
erica ♥

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Does anyone know any songs about lost friendships? I'm kinda going through something right now, and I'd like a song to relate. Thanks!

hey i dont know if youll like this because its old but i thought id give it a shot...

carole king - you've got a friend

i like it haha hope i helped you out

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hey, first off your really pretty, I thought you should know.

Second, the curls you have in your picture are really cute. Is that your natural hair, or did you curl it? I would like for my hair to be curly but I don't like scrunching it, it usually doesn't work anyway.

However, my hair is naturally a little curly.
Any suggestions?

hey! aww thanks! but no, my friend curled my hair for me... but i know what you mean because mines like semi curly but when i scrunch it, it like doesnt work so i usually just straighten it.

but anyway, it took her a while to curl it but it probobly depends on your hair...mines really thick. she split my hair into sections and curled from the bottom to the top. every layer she sprayed a shit load of hair spray so they would all stay for the whole night. (it worked!) but yeah it took like a hour for her to curl it... and i have no idea if she did it some special way or anything because whenever i try to curl my hair i suck at it haha

you could try having your mom or sister if you have one curl it for you in the morning that would take a while & if you want like loose curls im sure you could do it yourself with a curling iron

sorry that was really long and probobly confusing! if you need anything else just ask! ♥

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What are some cute Christmas songs? Like--author/singer/band & song name please? I'm in a Christmas kind of mood =) Thanks

a cute one i really like is
jessica simpson - baby its cold outside hope i helped!

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Okay so I love leg warmers.
Where can you find some cute ones (I live in Arizona so it's kinda hard to find cold-weather clothes)

abercrombie has a bunch of cute ones or H&M

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I was just wondering if anyone had any cute ideas for a hairstyle for a Christmas dance? Pictures would be helpful.

And if you need to know brown hair, down to about mid back?, angled a very small amount in the front.

Thanks!

hey! for homecoming i had my hair curly like cascading down and it was really cute i liked it, i dont know how to put it on here i think we have semi the same hair... if your getting it done ask if they can like make it cascading down... if your doing it yourself just i dono make a ton of curls! that would be so cute... okay well rate! ♥

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My Best friend in the whole entire world might be moving. I mean FAR away. Like I live in Ky and she might be moving back to Michagan. I don't have any other friends. And it really hurts me cause I am afraid that she will move and I will never see her again. The same thing happend with my old friend Allison. She moved and I haven't herd from her in a year. I don't know what I am going to do. I have no friends but her. Please guys help me. Cause I am so hurt... 13/F

hey its weird cuz i live in michigan and my best friend moved to kansas where in michigan is she moving? haha okay but you need to look into some new friends. does your friend that is moving have other friends? if so you should have her introuduce you to them. open up to people too.. and give your number and adress to her so you can still talk. she mite make new friends and stuff but if u guys are bffs she will always care about you and dont get mad at her if she doesnt call you for a while just talk to her about it. hope i helped leave some in my inbox if you need anything else! erica ♥

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Okay.. I have contacts and you kno how the doctor says that your supposed to look away when you put them it. I dont i look directly at the pupil and put it right on the pupil. will that do anything to you eye?

I;ll rate five

i do it that way too and its fine and nothing will happen!

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should girls shave thier pubes? and if so how much? and how are you saposed to get the hair wwaayy down there.. since its pretty much.. surrounded..?

i think you should, either all of it or trim it if your not confertable with getting it all off. just use a razor and be very careful.. also guys like it more when its shaved soo yeah haha

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I'm starting to throw up my dinner each night. I know this isn't good, but i cant stop myself. What should i do?

that happened to one of my friends and it wasnt too good.. just go to the doctor and find out whats wrong.. dont worry & everything will turn out fine!

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So, those sexy new black Ipods....is the back just like a mirror like those white classic ones? I like black but I always used my friends' ipods as mirrors so I wanna know if this can have yet ANOTHER wonderful advantage..hahaha thank you. And if you're wondering, this is my first ipod and I saved up for it and I am NOT a daddy's girl because I refused them buying it for me....yeah.

yeah haha, the back of the black i pods have the mirror thing!

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