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Moving.......:'(
My Best friend in the whole entire world might be moving. I mean FAR away. Like I live in Ky and she might be moving back to Michagan. I don't have any other friends. And it really hurts me cause I am afraid that she will move and I will never see her again. The same thing happend with my old friend Allison. She moved and I haven't herd from her in a year. I don't know what I am going to do. I have no friends but her. Please guys help me. Cause I am so hurt... 13/F
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the same thing happend to me, only i was younger than you. theres not much you can do to stop her from moveing i mean you cant steal her from her parents and take her away but what you can do is get her address, phone number, and screen name for aim and you guys can talk there, and possibley meet up over the summer if its ok with your parents. as for having no friends, i know what you feel like there too, just try and meet new people i mean you dont have to become like soulmates with the people you meet but just saying hi or something could lead to you being friends.
hope i helped
<3ashley
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Make sure you get a phone number, address, and, if possible msn/e-mail/etc. Phone her, write her letters, and keep in touch any way you can. If you remain good friends, you might want to think about visiting her in her new home. I've found you can still remain friends with someone as long as you keep in touch, but it has to be fairly often.
Good luck.
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Hey don't worry about it you'll alwayz make new friends. It's not your friend's fault she's moving sometimes things just happen. I'm sure you'll find someone new, you met her after your first friend move didn't you? Think of all the fun times you have. Schedule to call every weekend, write letters, IM technolgy makes it so easy to communicate to people weather it's around the corner or across the country.
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Well at a point every one moves and just if she does move hen try to be very understanding cause think of how it would be for her leaving all her friends and your just losing one even thought you claim that you only have one im sure you have more than just her. well it seems to me your a very shy person and its hard for you to make new friends. you just need to get out there and be you and not every one is going to accept you but thats ok thats normall. you just need to try a bit (alot) harder for some more friends. and aways try to keep in contact with her. well i hopw i helped (goodluck)
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Pray that she doesn't move, keep in touch if she does move, and make new friends! I know you can do it! You'll survive.
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hey listen..i know how hard it is to have someone you care a lottt about move far away.its very touggh..i know i know..but this doesnt mean its the end! i know a girl who moved from ny to florida..and her 2 good friends still fly down to florida a couple times a year to spend time with her. between that, AIM/email, telephone, ..you will never ever lose her as a friend. things will be different..but people adjust to change. Change is something people of all ages must deal with for their whole lives. For now, live up the good times and enjoy all the time you have together..make photoalbums..take lots of pictures...spend time making memories. if she does move away..keep in touch and hopefully you can visit a few times a year. friends are forever remember that..even if she does move shes only a call away.
-melissa
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I know how it feels, my best friend might be moving to the other side of the country :(
You say you have no other friends? Talk to people. Get to know them. Don't be shy, it'll never work if you're shy! Just walk up to people and be like "Hey, I'm ________, what's up?". Then go from there =)
But about your best friend, once she moves, you can DEFINATELY see her again. I'm sure your parents would understand. Either she could come back and visit every once in awhile, or you could go there. Call eachother, IM eachother. Keep in touch.
Friends DO grow apart, and it sucks. But it's a part of life. You'll meet new friends, She'll meet new friends, and you may stop talking to eachother completely. You just grow apart. I KNOW it hurts, but it's the truth. I hope it works out =/ If you want to talk, or just need a friend, don't hesitate, I'll be here :)
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hey its weird cuz i live in michigan and my best friend moved to kansas where in michigan is she moving? haha okay but you need to look into some new friends. does your friend that is moving have other friends? if so you should have her introuduce you to them. open up to people too.. and give your number and adress to her so you can still talk. she mite make new friends and stuff but if u guys are bffs she will always care about you and dont get mad at her if she doesnt call you for a while just talk to her about it. hope i helped leave some in my inbox if you need anything else! erica ♥
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Losing a friend can hurt alot. The only advice i can give you. Is try and be more out-going talk to some of the girls in your school;;maybe get to kno them..you could be best friends.
good luck
♥britt
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