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I have 16 fat, ugly pimples on my face. I wash my face 3 times a day but nothing works. Anyone have suggestions? (link)
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Hey I know how you feel! When I was in Florida my face got sooo broken out (especially my forehead) and thats the only time i've ever been embarrassed by acne in my life!! Ok but yea it felt like nothing worked, but when i came back, my friend let me use a Biore Self-Heating mask i think and it worked!!! But I also used Clearasil--it a small tube thats a tinted formula (adult formula) and rub it in all over the break out spots. Also try proactive lol its kinda expensive so Wal-mart makes a brand called Acnefree and it works!!! Ok well hope I helped! Love yah!
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Hey, i need help!!! Im going to highschool in about 2 months, and I want to look good! I Know i dress really tomboyish, like with all my band shirts and dickies and stuff, but that stuff looks cute on other girls...My hair is black because I died it and its starting to get brown hilights in it from my natural hair color. It looks kool if i straighten it. I am overweight and I am extremly determined to lose weight.
I really like this guy who is going to my school and would like to impress him. Please help.
I rate 5's Only and if you wanna leave a mean comment go ahead, you'll just be wasting your time. (link)
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Hey! Well I think maybe you should go shopping for more "preppy" clothes, like at Old Navy, Express, Abercrombie, Hollister, and those type of places. And to lose weight, eat healthier, start walking or running outside-its more fun w/ a friend, and lift weights and stuff to tone down. But if this guy doesn't like you for you then he's just not the one for you! Thats my favorite Usher quote haha! Ok, well hope i kinda helped! love yah!
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How do you make yourself less shy? When i'm in big groups i barely talk at all. i am painfully shy. how do i become more outgoing? (link)
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Hey babe! I'm kinda shy too until you get to know me but when you're in groups stick w/ people you know and then you have more to talk about! And I think in general to become more outgoing you just need to believe in yourself and realize that people will like you if you just be yourself! kk well hope i helped! Love yah!
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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but he's so shy!! he barely talks online to anyone even his friends! i want him to open up cause the only time he talked a lot was at school in class but schools out now so we never see eachother! he's never even had a gf before so that might be why he's so shy but i really want him to open up so how can i do that! (link)
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Well online, just ask him about himself like what did you do today and what kind of things he likes and stuff like that. Then if he talks more ask him if he wants to go to the pool w/ you one day or something if he's not too busy! Ok well hope i helped! love yah!
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im 15 male and theres a girl i like but i don't know what to say to her (link)
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Ask her to hang out and if she doesn't want to then don't tell her how u feel, but if she says yes then see how things go and ask if she has a bf or not and if she's lookin for someone then ask her out if she says she's looking! Hope I helped!
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at my school theres some people that think im hot but they are more like the losers and the popular people ignore me and tell me im ugly.. why is this? but people outside my school think im pretty good looking ..why do people do this (link)
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Wow you sound just like me haha! Although the popular people aren't that mean to my face!!! Ok but i don't really know why it is bc i've been wondering the same thing for sooo long! But i think it's just bc people at school want to appear better than they actually are and they put you down to make them look cool but its not. And you're prolly one of those people thats just nice to everyone like I am so thats why all the losers like you bc your nice to them? Just a guess! haha! love yah!
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well now i really got myself into a mess i've been talking to a guy i use to like and im gettin feelings back for him but i have a bf and i like him so much id say love if i could but its not love yet..wut do i do..i really wanna stay with my bf and im sure i will but i like dont wanna hurt the other guy and ya..but me and my bf live 45 minutes apart so i dont see him much and the other guy lives in the same town as me ..HELP! (link)
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Ok well, its not your fault. You can't control your feelings. But does this guy you have feelings for like you as more than a friend? And if he doesn't, then stay w/ your bf bc it will help you get over your feelings for him. But if he likes you too then you need to think about how much you really care about your bf and if you care about him more than the other guy. ok well, hope i helped! love yah!
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ok so i have this realy good who lives like a couple states away. our families are pretty close and we used to be joined at the hip. she moved a couple years ago and now we like never see eachother, except once or twice a year. i (link)
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KAIIII!!!! YOU'RE FRIKIN HILARIOUS!!!! Haha! I love ya soooo much!! But anyways...i think that if you break it off just bc she lives a couple states away then you need to go to a mental institution bc this friend would be heartbroken that she didn't have anyone to beat her ass at monopoly anymore!!! And she misses you LOTS too! You owe me Enrico's & Graeter's for my excellent advice!!! haha!!! Love ya tons, Kai!! Bffeaeaeaeaeaeaeaeaeaeae!
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I like my school and the people in it and stuff, but im always, like depressed because my Friends who are the people who I hang out with the most dont seem to likke me anymore. I was wondering if I should go to a private school for freshman year next year. I mean everyone else will be new, too its just im afraid to start over again. And afraid ill miss something in my towns' highschool - i know ill miss my friends but they were like, "Oh," they werent sad at ALL..they laughed at me. I dont know what to do, should i go to a new high school ( a private one bc i cant move) ??? or just stay where i am and be pretty sad. People say things are better with friends in high school, is that true. I want your H0NEST T0 G0D Opinion. (link)
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Hey babe! I went thru the same thing last summer so I know how you feel! But I made soooo many wonderful new friends last yr and they mean the world to me!! My parents wouldnt ever let me switch schools tho. But yea everything is better in high school!!! And if you start hanging out w/ older people it helps too!! Ok well hope I helped! Love yah!
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Well... I have this thing tomorrow night and I am getting my hair done. Its pretty formal... and I have a really pretty dress. The problem is... I have no idea how to do my hair! I've looked everywhere to find some hairstyle that would look cute... but evertyhing looks so weird. I have long hair and I know I want it in curls and I don't want all my hair up. If anyone can help me that would be awesome! :-) (link)
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Hey babe!! When you go to the place to get your hair done they usually have books w/ hairstyles in them so look at those! But what i think might be cute is to curl your hair and put it in a 1/2 pony tail then leave 2 strands of hair (like bangs if they're grown out) and curl those around your face!!! it's simple but elegant! Ok well hope i helped! Love yah!
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Is wearing a blue jean jacket with jeans too much denim like if i have like a colorful shirt under it? like if the jacket and jeans are close to the same color? (link)
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YES DEFINATELY!!! Denim jackets and jeans DO NOT work together!!! It looks country haha! But i think it would be ok if you were like a long silk cami under a denim jacket and a denim skirt!! Love yah!
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When I was younger I used to be really skinny because I stayed with my cousins a lot and we were always swimming, running around, or riding bikes. Since then I've gained a lot of weight cause I haven't exercised much. My stomach is flabby and my thighs are kind of big. I want to tone down before school starts up again in August.. so does anyone know any exercises I could do? I'm not saying I'm fat or anything but I've gained about 20 pounds in the past year and I just wanted to tone down some. Thanks. :)
I also have another question about this. I love to dance & I have about four movies that have dancing in them. Does dancing help tone you down any? (link)
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Hey babe!! Yea dancing helps a LOT!!! But you could also start lifting weights and running on the treadmill or outside or swimming! and watch what you eat!! Buy Fitness magazine...theres a lot of good exersizes in there too! haha! well hope i helped! love yah!
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ok my prob is that i act the right way around the wrong girl. in other words the ugly girls always likes me. and i act the wrong around the right. the hotties hate me wat do i do (link)
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Um well, don't judge people if they're ugly or not bc thats really mean haha! But around the "hotties" just act like you do around the other girls and don't be nervous bc it sounds like you get that way! And if you get nervous, just ask them about themselves bc I can garentee they'll never shut up so then you won't have to worry about what you'll say! haha! Hope i helped!
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Well, there is this girl that I'm okay friends with, but now don't really like her that much anymore. My boyfriend is starting to hang out with her more and talk to her more. Sometimes talking to her more on AOL than me. While I was away for two weeks my boyfriend went on a choir trip to Six Flags. Ashley (the girl that I'm okay friends with) and my boyfriend hung out the whole time. IE. Rode rides together, walked together, got food and ate it together. That doesn't make you're girlfriend feel very good, but now she's in his info. It's an inside joke with her, but surprisingly it's about the same lenght as me in his info. Well, my whole info is about him. Am I being stupid to be mad, that's what he said. (link)
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Hey babe! I know how you feel I'm goin thru something similar right now myself! haha! And you have every right to be pissed off and everything bc I would be too! But if your bf really likes you he wouldn't be acting like that behind your back, and if your friend is a true friend then you should definately talk to her about it and tell her you're upset. If she doesn't listen then she's not a very good friend!! and if you're bf isn't sorry that he hurt your feelings then dump him bc there are a TON of better guys out there that wouldn't do that to you and you deserve better! Ok well hope i helped! Love yah!
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there's this guy at my church that i like and he likes me too, but we've agreed to wait to go out until one of us can drive. However, his best friend likes me too. He won't leave me alone and now says that he "loves" me. I'm not sure what to do about the best friend. He's going through a really rough time with his family and i don't want him to scarred for life or anything. What should i do? (link)
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Well, do you like his best friend? And if you don't like him like he likes you then you need to let him know what you'll always be there for him whenever he needs you and don't go out w/ him just bc you feel bad for him! But I personally wouldn't go out w/ him right now even if you wanted to just bc he seems needy and even though he "loves" you, maybe its just bc of the thing w/ his family...well I hope everything works out for you babe! IM me if you need to talk some more!! I love you!!!
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i weight about 195, i was wondering if i do pushups for 3 sets of 20, would that be better then 3 sets of bench pressing with 140 weights. cuz i heard its better bc the push ups builds muscle bc i'm heavy and it tones muscle bc i'm doing alot. thanks (link)
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Well i think you need to do a lot more pushups than that to quit benching! Pushups really do work though! So try both!
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I'm going to summer school so i have to pack my lunches once again. They don't sell any lunches, unfortunately because i would sometimes buy my lunch so i didn't really face this problem.
?- are there any good substitues to the boring sandwich that i can easily prepare for sack lunches?
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Well, Lunchables are easy to bring lol!! But how old are you? bc if you're too old people might laugh but if you like lunchables then bring them and don't worry about what people might think (i like the pizza ones myself) haha! But also, bring like salads and fruit salads that are already made at the grocery store or something!! I love those haha! Just remember to pack a fork! Love yah!
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i havent had my period yet
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well when were you supposed to get it? And if you're only a few days late i wouldn't worry about it. But if you've been w/ someone wait a few more days before you freak out and if you think you could be pregnant then take a home pregnancy test. Yea well, just don't worry about it i'm sure its nothing serious! Ok, well hope i helped! love yah babe!
Or do you mean you haven't had it ever in your life? haha!
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ok, so my school is going ona frield trip to a place where there is a pool. I am realy nervous about going becaus ei am self concious of my thighs and stomach. see, we are going in four days, any quick tips to look better!? i rate high. (link)
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Hey babe! I hate my abs and thighs too!! haha! Do crunches, and watch what you eat until then---not too much fat, and maybe run on the treadmil and do some squat jumps if you know what they are bc they work wonders i swear!! And wear a tankini if you're really self conscious!!! but I'm sure you're gorgeous and have nothing to worry about! Well, hope I helped! Love yah!
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yo right my SUPOSE to be BESTFRIEND i think is hiding from me that she goes out with one of my ex boyfriends and im really pissed....like me and the boy and me were REAL serious and it would hurt me to see her with him...I think this cause she be walkin wit him in the hallway he be over her house and they be on the phone and she said she wont tell me who she go wit..oh and plz dont say no lil smart comments cause its not cute people come on here for advice not smart comments well thanx in advance i rate high (link)
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Ok wow. Yea i'm in a similar situation so I know how you feel...I think you need to cool off and think about what this boy means to you and what you mean to him and if its worth being this upset over. Also, if your best friend realizes she's hurting you, then she's not being a friend and you need to tell her about this and see if what you think is true or not. Just tell her how you feel and how much it hurts to think it might be true and I'm sure she'll understand! Hope I helped!
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