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ok, well me and some of my friends are bi. i just found out that one of my friends who i like likes me too. but we dont want anyone to know about us being bi. so we sorta wanna go out but if we were to go out we agreed we wouldnt tell anyone. so we also agreed that we wouldnt be jealous if the other person went out with a guy or got with another girl or something. so my question is should we go out and just keep quiet or shoudl we just stay being friends with benefits?
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friends with benifits.you guys already are friends with benifits because yall arent telling anybody
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ok this guy likes me (two of my friends told me) and i sorta like him back but i dont know if its a joke does anyone know what i should do?? thanks!!
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ask his ass. you cant always trust your friends
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I'm 14/f.
I'm a freshman and I like a sophomore. Well, we're in a club together and we had a carwash today and it was a lot of fun. My crush and I started talking and it was really cool. Well, my friend filled up a bucket with water and dumped it over my head. I was already soaked enough but after that I was WET. My crush asked me why I didn't go change and I told him I didn't have anything to change into so he offered me his shirt. Well, that was really sweet of him but he then he started messing with me, like, I got him a little wet and he threatened to hit my butt and after that he threw a wet washcloth at me (not directly and not hard, just so I would get a little bit wet) and then he started smiling at me. Well, I also found out he has a girlfriend so what's the deal? I'm not trying to break them up, all I want to be is friends with him right now, but does he like me? (link)
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i think he might like you. you should ask him about his girlfriend or something.but if he keeps flirting then he likes you.you can try being friends or just go with him.and you cant be made if he breaks up with his girl cause he obviously likes you more
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Okay, I used to like this guy named Caleb, who was 2 and a half years older then me, and I thought that he liked me too. I kept staring at him at school, but we never really talked (I just thought he found me nice looking). Then, I found out he had a girlfriend. I thought we could've been friends, so I kept talking to him online and through email. I thought we were friends, but then he told my friend he didn't like me at all (probably because I came on too strongly). Now, his girlfriend has moved out of the country, and we talk and he considers us friends. All my friends tell me he likes me, and I REALLY think he does. I even had a dream about him last night... It was about him and I, and he asked me out (in the dream). I don't know what I should do, because he has a girlfriend, and sometimes he acts all jealous when I talk about other guys and stuff like that. And other times, he says he misses his girlfriend. Please help? Free five for decent answers. (link)
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maybe you should try asking him how he feels. his girlfriend is gone and you two are always talking and hanging out.plus he gets jealous when you talk about other boys.i think he like you. i thikn he says he misses his girlfriend cause he might want to make you jealous
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well. i went camping with my friend adam who brang his friend john with. we were walking in the woods and john was flirting with me and i finaly took his hand, forgetting he had a girlfriend already. so it got dark and the curfue was eleven. so we stayed out and i dont know how but me and john started to make out. and it was the first time i had ever made out in my life. so, we would always go on trails with adam and we would always make out. it was like me and john were together and that i was his girlfriend. they went home and we went home and when i got online, we started to talk. and i never liked his girlfriend. so me and her always talk now and now shes like my best friend. even tho she tells me sometimes to back away from john and stuff cuz he's hers. but i cant. finally, john promised me he would never hert me. i got online the next day, getting an IM from his girlfriend saying, omg. john purposed to me. so i got really pissed and started to cry. john still calls me cutie and still loves me. we're going camping in september again. what should i do??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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i think you need to talk to john.ask him if he really proposed.because i dont trust that girl.if he did propose ask him whats gonna happen between you 2 and why he did it.dont just let him get away with breaking your heart and cheating on his girlfriend.thats how men or should i say boys these days cheat and get away with it....because we let them..dont let him
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Ok, so here's the deal, I have this REALLY good guy friend, I mean he's like my best friend. Well, he just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and it looks like they aren't gonna get back together like he wants to.Well... I have started kinda liking him. Well, last night, me and two of my other friends went over to his house while one of his other friends was there. Well, he kept flirting withme, and like touching me and stuff,then I was like "Let's play truth or dare" and he goes "I dare myself to have 7 minutes in heaven with -my name-" so, I kinda just laughed.. but, he was serious, and so was everybody else in the room. So, we go in the closet, and they shut us in. Well, I didn't think he liked me, and I didn't think anything would happen. Then, he started touchingme, and like pullin me closer, and we starting kissing (this was my first kiss),then we started making out and he was like touching my butt and everything. Then, we get out of the closet, when our time is up, and a little while later he started talkin to his friend privately, and I found out that he told his friend that he was gonna ask me out. Then, we went back in the closet for a few more minutes.. and that was it. But, I'm so confused, cause this was last night, and he hasn't asked me out, and he has said a few things about his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to think.. and I feel so crappy cause I really dolike him alot.. and I just wish he would ask me out. Sorry this was so long, but if anybody has any advice it would be greatly appreciated, and I'll rate 5's. Thanks. (link)
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be patiant gurl.its only been 1 day.if he likes you then he's taking his time so he can have the right words to say.dont worry.its seems that he like you so it will happen
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Ok..This starts out back when i was 11, i'm 13, gunna be 14 in december now. i play soccer, and when i was 11 i played in a fall house league, it was co-ed..there was this guy on the team that was, i guess you could say really ugly. but i still kinda had feelings for him. we didn't necessarily get along, we always competed with eachother..and back then, i finally stopped this year, i was like really mean, i couldnt help it or anything..well after that season i didnt see him again until this year at the end of school. i joined his guys travel soccer team..there was one other girl on the team but no1 liked her to be honest..and this guy that i liked was going out with some girl but liked me, so he broke up with her for me and we were going out for like 10 days..but we didnt actually go anywhere..one day me and my bff had some guys over my house, while i was going out with him, he knew i had them over and i told him i wouldnt do anything, and i didnt..but my bff told him i did because she liked him too, but didnt even know him, she only saw a pic..btw--he is really hott now, but i dont like guys for how they look, only for their personality..so he broke up with me 10 days after we started going out and i still liked him. and i became really good friends with one of his bffs, a girl..and i can totally be myself around him, and since we broke up i hang out with him A LOT ! like once or twice a week, and we dont live near eachother or go to the same school so its kinda hard..i talk to him 24/7, usually once a day..and i know this is really hard to believe since im only 13, but i seriously think i might love him..we broke up june 30th..and i kept telling myself i would get over him, and still havent..and all i ever think about or talk about is him..and not to sound stuck up or anything cause im completely the opposite, but i can get almost any guy i want..and a lot of guys like me, and i feel really bad because the only guy i like is him..and i try to get to know other guys hoping ill fall for them, and i just cant, its really hard..i poured my heart out to him and told him how i felt and it didnt mean a thing to him..but he still likes me, and supposedly another girl too..idk who this girl is tho..i dont know what else i can do to show him how much i truly care for him..and to hopefully get him to ask me out..im prepared to get my heartbroken again, bc at least i would have the memories to look back on..right now i guess you could say were "friends with benefits" cause weve made out and done more shit before, when we werent going out..and he likes that idea, but i want more..if you need any more details instant message me on x SO iNNOC3NT 13..help please, because i really love him ! i rate high !
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i think what your so called bbf did was wrong.even if she does like him that was just plain wrong.i think you should go up to your love and tell him that what she said isnt true.if this is the main reason why he broke up with you then you should clear the air and let him no that she was lying.and if you madly, truly,deeply love him then you have to win him back.love is that important and you cant let it pass you by.fight for you heart.
Peace.Love.Unity.~.~.~.~.~.~.~Love.Live.Life
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Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse? (link)
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hell yea thats abuse.dont go near him cause you cant trust him.by te way are you a boy or girl cause this is more serious if your a girl
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well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
we weren't friends at the time when she went out with him but then we became friends but I've known my crush longer than her ,me and my crush are really really close not in the touchy feeling way.like I trust him an he trusts me (link)
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i dont think it would be wrong to go out with him since you did go out with him first.she should realize that ahe cant be mad since she went out with him right after you did.you and him seem to have a good strong relationship.if it feels right then go for it.
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Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?
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everyboy that i've dated was always 2 years older than me.tell your friend "age aint nothing but a number"
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I really am stumped on this one: Around 4 months ago, I met a really nice girl, *Maria*, through an out of school extracurricular activity. Then I met this really nice boy, *Alex* who I liked but I didn't talk to him much. Maria and Alex started going out and I was kinda disappointed but I didn't let it show because no one knew I had liked Alex. I started to become better friends with Maria and I started to become better friends with Alex. Now, they are broken up because Maria dumped Alex and I am in the same high school as them right now. I am still friends with Maria, but I really want to be friends with Alex (not like BF/GF). But all of my friends kinda make fun of him and they always always have because his teeth are kinda like a beaver's. And I don't want to make Maria mad. AND there is another problem: I am really really good friends with Alex's cousin *sarah* and she knows Maria too and I don't want to make anybody mad, but I want to be happy and flourish in high school. I am really sorry about the length but anybody's input would be great. Thanks. (link)
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if you want to continue to be friends with alex then i say you continue.maria shouldnt expect all her friends to forget about alex just because she broke up with him.if you stop hanging out with him just because of what other people think then that would be wrong.continue to be both there friends and if maria gets mad that your hanging out with alex just say "i wasnt the one who broke up with him.you cant force me to stop hanging out with him.he's my friend too".hopefully that works
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i recently meet this guy. hes great and i really like him but i cant stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend...i really wanna get back 2gether with him and at the same time i dont cuz he wuld always blow me off and never see me and the guy i met he likes me alot and i like him 2 and he wuld do anything for me.but everytime im with him i end upp think about muh ex...what should i doo? (link)
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i think its very natural to be thiknnig about your ex.you have to just deal. eventually you will be always thinking about your new boyfriend.it takes time.i think you should go for the new guy by the way.hope i helped
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My friend was forced to take a drug test by his mom and it he failed now shes callin his friends and tellin their parents to drug test their kids shes gonna call my dad soon and have my dad test me i want to know if its true that if you dont do marijuana often that it will clear out of your system faster than if you do it constantly? (link)
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once you stop smoking it talks exactly 30 day for weed to clear out of your system.no matter if you smoke a little or a lot.
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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if your able to you should call him at like 12:00am and say you wanted to be the first to say happy birthday to him. i think th cake and card idea is good.you could also get him something that means more then it cost.and explain you thought in buying it.i no this isnt alot but i hope i helped..
Peace.Love.Unity......Love.Live.Life
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I liked this one guy, weston. i thought he was a total sweetie and he always made me feel good about myself. he said he liked me too, but then i was over with him and some friends and i hugged my friend goodbye and he called me a whore but according to his friends hes just mad and still totally likes me. the thing is, im not big on forgiving people after they've just called me a whore so, yea. i still like him a little. then, there's this other guy, chris and he is also totally sweet and cute and i absolutley heart him. he made me feel a little better about the whole weston situation and he says he's starting to like me. well, i liked him a lot a little while ago but i never thought he would ever like me. so i also like him a little bit. so basically, my question is should i forget about weston and become closer to chris and who knows what might follow, since he DID call me a whore. or should i just wait til weston gets over his issue with me hugging other guys? im the kinda girl that just hugs all of her friends, ya know? so should i change who i am for weston or stay how i am and go for chris? (link)
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i think you should go for chris.he seems just ass good as weston except he didnt say any mean shit about you.plus you said it yourself that you like chris and your getting over weston.Chris seems like a better pick to me.and you heart him.
just follow your heart
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There was this guy that was 2 years older than me. He was my brothers best friend. I had a huge crush on him. He would always come over and snowboard with us afterschool. One night he spent the night.While we were all watching a movie he put his arm around me in my bed. He started to play with my belly button ring. Later int the night he was feeling me up. All over my boobs and my butt. He started biting my ear.He made me really nervous. THis was all in front of my brother. I had to go to bed he came and layed down with me. He thought he heard my mom and jumped up so he knew he was doing something he shouldnt of. The next day it was like nothing happend. Was I used??
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i dont think you were nesicerily used.obviously you liked it cause you didnt stop him..so if you were liking it then you werent used.and i think he played it off like nothing happened the next day cause he doesnt want the whole world to no.maybe he wants to be friends with benifits. or maybe your brother said something to him and told him to stop.but overall i dont think you were used cause you liked it as much as he did.
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ok i need help ok. I like this guy for a very long time and we went out for like 7 months. We broke up and are still really good friends, but i still have feelings for him. I tried really hard to get over him but its to hard. I have a boyfriend now but i still really like my old one. I think i should get over my ex and move on but im not sure. What should i do?? If u have any ways that can help me get over him please tell me. (link)
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Im going through the same situation right now. and truth be told i want my ex more. i think its because i love him and i havent fallen in love with my boyfriend yet.so you need to ask yourself which one do you love more and which one do you want to be with.if your having trouble getting over your ex chances are your not over him, you just think you should be because you have a perfect man in your life.i dont think there are any ways to get over him you just have to follow your heart.
hope i helped
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Alright well I have this ex boyfriend that i was with for over a year...im only 15 right now so thats pretty long in my eyes. Well we fought alot and broke up but still remained kind of friends. Well we had plans last week that we were going to get back to gether, than friday i called him because he wanted to hang out that night and this girl answers his cell phone..then she was mean to me and he was like "I dont wanna talk to you right now" then saturday i called him and hes like "I really like this girl and I want to be with her". Ive never cried as hard in my life as I did this weekend..Now last night he calls me saying that shes missing something that he needs, and then he says that he misses me. IM so confused right now. I dont mind him being with some one else as long as hes happy but I think that girl is into him for all of the wrong reasons..because my ex is rich, really rich, his parents drive hummers and corvettes..he has a camero and all these different cars. I just dont want him to get hurt..ya know? but then again im hurting because i love him and hes a great person...ughhhh i dont know what to do...please help me!!!
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if you both decided that you were going to get back together,then ask him has he changed his mind.from what im hearing it sounds like he still wants to be with you..so i think you should ask him what does he want to do cause your willing and ready to be with him. and about the other little girl..dont even worry about her. this boy only seems to be thinking about you. ooh by the way,maybe you should tell him to come to this sie to get advice cause he sounds pretty confused to me
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Theres this guy at my camp (teen) lol, and hes black, Im white. And hes really nice and sweet, funny, cute, hot, and i think its true love ive only known him for 3 weeks and i wont see him ever again after friday. I sad and confused i know its love not just a crush because you feel kinda sad and happy at the same time and you cant eat or sleep and you want to cry type deal. How do i get his email or IM (i cant call him) without sounding like an idiot and how can i tell if he likes me or not without sending a messanger to ask him? please help me im really sad that ill never see him again and ill never know how he feels about me.
He use to be mean to me and now hes nice and sorta quiet.
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if he thinks your friends then he wont think its weird for you to ask him for his screenname. if you really want to hook up with him and your too shy to tell you could get one of your friends to see if he likes you. then if he likes you getting his information wouldnt seem weird cause you bth like eachother. also when your shy in these situations just think...whats the worst tht could happen.plus this is a good sitution cause if he rejects you (which he wont) you wont see him again..i no this isnt alot of help but mabe you could im me so i could get somemore informaion about both of you guys..
screenname~denajah5
email~soclosebut2far@yahoo.com
hope i could be f some help
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I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all. (link)
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i think you hang out with more boys because girls have too much drama.even though i am a girl i would rather hang out with boys just like you because boys a laid back and chill.but girls talk too much,always about to fight,and like to argue.i think it doesnt matter who you hang out with as long as your comfortable and having fun
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