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i like him, he likes me, he also likes her...confused
Ok..This starts out back when i was 11, i'm 13, gunna be 14 in december now. i play soccer, and when i was 11 i played in a fall house league, it was co-ed..there was this guy on the team that was, i guess you could say really ugly. but i still kinda had feelings for him. we didn't necessarily get along, we always competed with eachother..and back then, i finally stopped this year, i was like really mean, i couldnt help it or anything..well after that season i didnt see him again until this year at the end of school. i joined his guys travel soccer team..there was one other girl on the team but no1 liked her to be honest..and this guy that i liked was going out with some girl but liked me, so he broke up with her for me and we were going out for like 10 days..but we didnt actually go anywhere..one day me and my bff had some guys over my house, while i was going out with him, he knew i had them over and i told him i wouldnt do anything, and i didnt..but my bff told him i did because she liked him too, but didnt even know him, she only saw a pic..btw--he is really hott now, but i dont like guys for how they look, only for their personality..so he broke up with me 10 days after we started going out and i still liked him. and i became really good friends with one of his bffs, a girl..and i can totally be myself around him, and since we broke up i hang out with him A LOT ! like once or twice a week, and we dont live near eachother or go to the same school so its kinda hard..i talk to him 24/7, usually once a day..and i know this is really hard to believe since im only 13, but i seriously think i might love him..we broke up june 30th..and i kept telling myself i would get over him, and still havent..and all i ever think about or talk about is him..and not to sound stuck up or anything cause im completely the opposite, but i can get almost any guy i want..and a lot of guys like me, and i feel really bad because the only guy i like is him..and i try to get to know other guys hoping ill fall for them, and i just cant, its really hard..i poured my heart out to him and told him how i felt and it didnt mean a thing to him..but he still likes me, and supposedly another girl too..idk who this girl is tho..i dont know what else i can do to show him how much i truly care for him..and to hopefully get him to ask me out..im prepared to get my heartbroken again, bc at least i would have the memories to look back on..right now i guess you could say were "friends with benefits" cause weve made out and done more shit before, when we werent going out..and he likes that idea, but i want more..if you need any more details instant message me on x SO iNNOC3NT 13..help please, because i really love him ! i rate high !
Yours Truly,
Sarah 13/F/NY
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You are 13. You have many more years to select the right guy for you. Don't chase him around, make him chase you. Boys can smell desperation from miles away. Just enjoy any time he spends with you, and be careful which benefits you partake of. Because sometimes "friends with benefits" means he is just using you for whatever you will give him.
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i think what your so called bbf did was wrong.even if she does like him that was just plain wrong.i think you should go up to your love and tell him that what she said isnt true.if this is the main reason why he broke up with you then you should clear the air and let him no that she was lying.and if you madly, truly,deeply love him then you have to win him back.love is that important and you cant let it pass you by.fight for you heart.
Peace.Love.Unity.~.~.~.~.~.~.~Love.Live.Life
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