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There's this girl named Maria. She's a good friend of mine, and today she got in deep trouble with our Health teacher because she gave answers to someone else, and hes failing her for the marking period with a 50. She said she's tried to commit suicide before, and she's going to do it again. Should I tell somebody? Thanks. =] (link)
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Always tell someone. Even if you think it's minor. Have you not been listening in health class? That's what they've been telling us. Anyway if you didn't tell anyone, would you like to know that you could have stopped her from killing herself? Just go ahead tell an adult.
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hi, ok i like this guy alot and we used to go out a long time ago but i still like him. he sometimes hints to me he likes me but most of the time he doesnt even talk to me...but im gona see him this weekend. and i hope somthing happens but i wana make sure he likes me..how can i tell? and also....should i tell him?
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Well, he could be nervous that you don't feel the same way about him hence the hot and cold attitude. Just try to feel him out this weekend to see, but if you really like him then you should tell him how you feel. What's the worst that could happen? Besides, wouldn't you rather tell him and it not be too late. You can't always tell if a guy likes you, just little signs of flirting and the normal touching and trying to get close. The only definate way to know is ask him though. Hope everything works out well.
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Okay...I'm 15/f and I'm going to the Sweetheart Dance at my school on Saturday and I'm bringing my bf (he goes to a different school)...would it be wrong if I dance with other guys (friends) at the dance too? (link)
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Well, it'd be kind of rude because you're bringing your boyfriend and he probably won't know anyone besides you since he goes to a different school. You can ask him to see if he cares, but I think it'd be kind of mean. Would you care if he danced with someone else there? If you wouldn't and he doesn't care, then I guess go ahead and it doesn't matter.
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hey,Im 14 I have a Bory friend right. And there's this guy at school who likes me,but I have a BF but I wanna get to know him better. I mean incase me and my Bf break up maybe I can go out with him. Should I give him my phone number, whould people think it the wrong way. Cause I dont want people thinking that Im cheating on my Bf. (link)
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Your allowed to be friends with another guy, but it's the whole thing about you talking to him just in case you and your boyfriend break up. If you're only talking to him as a back-up, then it is kind of wrong. If you just want to be friends and whatever, then go for it because there's nothing wrong with that.
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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do? (link)
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You should start off with something simple like a question about history or maybe when you pass by him just kind of smile. Eventually, he'll either talk to you (because he sees your interested) or you'll find something to talk about. Truthfully, if you give him signs that you're interested, he will most likely say something to you.
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What do you do if you like this one guy lets say his name is Brian but he has a girlfriend and at lunch time he comes and sits next to me and talks to me when he could talk to 5 other grls and he always is flirting with me.Do i tell him i like him? Help!!!!!!! E-mail me at TexashotT04@aol.com if you would like!! thanks (link)
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Well, if he has a girlfriend it's probably not the smartest thing to tell him you like him. That's asking for drama. Just let it lie low until him and his girlfriend break up. Besides, he could just have a flirty personality and he might just think that you guys have a flirty friendship.
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my friends are always asking me to do stuff but not together like they all want me to do something with them sepratley. i never no witch one to choose i just want to hang out with all of them but they kinda don't get along wat do i do? (link)
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Rotate around. Go from one friend to the other, but don't keep it a secret that you are hanging out with one and not the other because they will find out. Just tell them that you haven't hung out with the other person in awhile, but you'll go somewhere with them next time. Make it fair so that you're seeing all of them equally. Some of your friends might still get mad, but its the fairest thing to do.
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hey kiah! u give superific advice! lol well i have this teeny weeny little problem. valentines day is coming up, i dont have a bf but i have this major crush on an ex-...i dont no how to tell him wiht out scaring him and him not talking to me anymore. hes very attitudinal to. urg! help please!
SIGNED,
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You really have two choices, risk it and tell him how you feel or take it safe and let it be and always wondering the famous "what ifs". If you want to risk it, subtly clue him in. Don't tell him about it too suddenly because that will definately throw him off. Let him have time to think about it all and make sure that he knows you guys don't have to be together or anything, but that you want him to know how you feel. Also, let him know that you don't want him to be weird around you because it doesn't really change your relationship with him if he does/doesn't like you. Basically, just make sure that he knows that nothing has to happen and that there is no need to freak out. If you do choose to play it safe, then make sure you are ok with the fact that he could always go with someone else (leading you to be jealous) and you might later regret it. In the end, know that things could turn out bad if you tell him (he could freak out) and you might just have to wait it out or things could be the same, but you still wishing. I know this didn't really help because truthfully I can't tell you what to do. I can only tell you the different point of views. Pick the one you feel most comfortable with (that includes the consequences) and just go with your heart. I hope everything turns out ok and I'm sorry that I didn't really help.
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ok there is this guy he is my friend and he won't stop touching me or saying all this sexual stuff. He's really making me mad i don't know how to tell him because he's my friend, plz help. (link)
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Just tell him straight out and he should respect your feelings. If he doesn't, then you don't want him as a friend anyways.
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I have a friend that graduated last year, I dont see him much, would it be too akward for me to call him now even though I havent seen hime but once in the last 4 months?
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No, it wouldn't be weird at all. It would just kind of be a hey how are you doing check-up kind of call. I think he might appreciate it.
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I asked this girl out once before and she turned me down for another guy, but she said that she really liked me she just wanted to see if there was anything between them. They just broke up recently. I still like her. Should i give it a try? (link)
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Try and feel out the situation again just to see if she was just saying that she liked you so she wouldn't hurt your feelings. Girls tend to make up excuses because they don't like to see people hurt. If it seems like she really does like you, then go for it.
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Can someone help me translate a few things into spanish for me? (link)
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Free-translation only works half the time truthfully, so don't be dependent on that website.
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I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her? (link)
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The two week plan sounds really cute. I think you should stick with that. I know as a girl that secret notes in the locker are the sweetest things we could get. I don't know a single girl who wouldn't like something like that.
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respected advicenators,
i went thru this site and found small kids of 13 to 16years of age having sex! well i have one question? are americans very desperate about sex are american girls so horny and slutty? and are american boys very careless about their future and career as they show in hollywood movies and sitcoms???????? please enlighten me, i don't mean to hurt u all at all. i have deep respect for this country america, which has welcomed everyone from the world. but if a girl loves one guy and has sex with that guy and then breaks off with him and then sees some one and again indulge in sex then again break off and again see someone........ isn't he or she acting slutty. well please i am confused b'coz kids here in india are blindly copying this culture of cheating and sex.american friends enlighten me about the situation.
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Truthfully, yeah that is slutty, but you must remember we are not all slutty. People here feel the need to be grown-ups and do grown-up things, so they do things without thinking. I'm sorry that people over there are copying our culture because I don't think it is a culture that should be copied. I'm not proud of it and that is for sure. Some girls and guys here just have nothing else to do with their time. Also, I think some of these people have issues at home and want to feel loved, so they respond to that by having sex. It's not exactly the right way to go in my opinion, but that's what they end up doing. Some other people just have sex because everyone else is (kind of like what is happening in India). It's really a confusing thing and each person's reason is different, but all in all not every American is slutty and careless.
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my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him? (link)
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Well, I doubt it's love because you're probably not old enough to be in love since you can't spell stalk right, but he probably likes you. If he stands up for you, you might as well thank him. That's the polite thing to do.
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hi i have a friend that is WAyy to prideful of her backround. she like, bases her life on it. il use an example, say if she were spanish, shed make a sn that would be like spanishbaby or cutie spanishgirl and she has nicknames, real nicknames that are words in spanish like guapa or buena chichi chicana etc or some crap like that, and her whole family speaks it n shes always singing songs in it, and talking it to me. shel say something and then il be like what?? and shel say it in english, like "it means im so cool in spanish". and always wearing clothes that represent it, and rarely does she have friends that dont speak it. and her whole room is decorated in it, and she wears jewelry representing it, and shes always like "you cant speak it stupid" or she always like "oh shutup you cant even speak it" if i try to say a word, and shel just go up to random people and be like haha she cant read spanish. im not saying i dont like her i maen its just getting SO annoying, i wouldnt be so annoyed if maybe i spoke it too, but im just getting terribly sick of it. shes always talking it to people behind my back..laughing at me with another person, what do you think i should do? (link)
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Well, she has the right to feel proud about her heritage. A whole bunch of Americans wear American shirts and have American screen names and it isn't really different. I think you are just bothered that you don't always understand what she's saying and you don't like feeling out in the dark. In that case, just tell her. Say hey I don't like you talking about me behind my back or making fun of me because I don't always understand what you say. Just make her realize that it's a problem for her to be making fun of you just because you're not exactly like her and know everything she does.
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ight here it goes
the woman i love is a DIME but shes a senior and im a freshmen and she has a man, i dont know how to handle it.....shes my world, i know that sounds weird because i never had any relation ship but we were friends i dont know if we are anymore. HELP ME OUT PLEASE! (link)
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I'm sorry to say, but you can't do anything. The only thing you can try to do is stay friends. If she's already got a man and she is happy, then she won't want to change that. I doubt that the age thing makes a difference. It's not weird that you love her so much and haven't had a relationship with her. That's how it normally happens. Someone gets to know another really well and their feelings change, but you might just not be what she's looking for, especially if she believes she already has it. It's going to hurt for awhile, but you'll just have to try to move on to someone else. I'm sorry that it isn't what you wanted to hear and I didn't really help or change anything, but it's the truth.
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Is it wrong to have a crush on one of your good "guy" friend?
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No, it's not wrong. It makes the most sense to have a crush on someone you know really well actually.
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(sorry for the length, in advance, but i really want advice :)) hey! ok here's the thing. i like love this guy that i know and all ithink about is him. well until like a month ago i thought he liked me (he knows i like him, he asked me, so i told him) because he had all the signs like would sit next to me and like look at me, you know the whole "flirting" type of thing and all my friends thought he liked me and i thought so, too, i have to admit it and i'm very, uh, what's the word oh yeah modest. but then my friends told him i liked him and then he asked me so i told him and he, too, is modest so he wondered WHY i liked him (what's there to like?) so then from then on i was very shy and like a chicken to talk (i still am lol) and so we kind of drifted from talking even though i saw him everyday. ok well everyone thinks he's trying to get to know me more b/c he knows i like him. he said that youc ant like someone unless you know them well so i think hes trying to get to know me,to see what would happen. well, he started now tosit and talk like during a class and sat close. well my friend thinks that he likes me, and that he's trying to get to know me. well, she and i and everyone were wrong before and i just don'tto do. id on't know if i should believe it or what to do. please help! ANY advice of anything. even if its just simple!
(sorry about the length!)
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He probably does like you, but wants to talk to you to make sure. Just keep getting to know him and him you and time will tell what will come of it. He doesn't seem like the type to lead anyone on, so if he likes you (or doesn't like you), he will tell you eventually. Good luck.
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What do you look for in guys? Forgive me for bein nosey but you are really pretty and i was just curious. (link)
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Aww thanks. I don't know, I like guys who know how to treat girls the way they are supposed to be treated and have a sense of humor. They need to be a friendly person and someone I feel comfortable around. They also have to be able to talk to me about anything... music, school, friends. I like guys who I can talk to for hours and not have awkward silences or have to really look for something to talk about. The last thing that I absolutely LOVE is when a guy will compliment me or say something sweet and it is completely sincere. I don't like the corny stuff, but the comments that I know came from the heart.
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