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my friends are always asking me to do stuff but not together like they all want me to do something with them sepratley. i never no witch one to choose i just want to hang out with all of them but they kinda don't get along wat do i do?
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maybe you need to take the initiative to ask them to do something. maybe if you have both of them over at the same time, they'll be able to work out their differences and then it wont be so hard to get all of you together. also, dont favor one over the other. the other person will get depressed, but they might not tell you about it right away, and you might not notice, but thats usually what happens. i know from first hand expirience...
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Hang out with them at different times? It's not that big of a deal. Whoever asks you first go with them. If the other calls then just explain to them the situation. You could even invite them to come along.
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i say you get all your friends together and talk with all of them about it and see if they really do wanna be friends and hang out all together because if you have friends that dont get along that could be pretty bad so try to talk with them from kristen
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well if they don't get along then you can't force them to hang out together even though that's what you want. just make plans with them seperately and hang out with one of them each weekend.
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Plan it out like have one on sat. one of fri. and have one on sun.-trix
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Rotate around. Go from one friend to the other, but don't keep it a secret that you are hanging out with one and not the other because they will find out. Just tell them that you haven't hung out with the other person in awhile, but you'll go somewhere with them next time. Make it fair so that you're seeing all of them equally. Some of your friends might still get mad, but its the fairest thing to do.
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have them take turns really quite simple. or try to work soemthing out that you can all do togher
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