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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
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Is god real im confused
id say read the bible- and form your own opinion. all people on here are going to do is feed you their opinion. as bad as i want to- i think you should just read the bible, and discover for yourself- your own beliefs.
This is strictly for the women on advicenators to answer. i am a male (21 years old) and I know it is typical of a guy to ask the question i have (in the title), and even more typical to be worried about it. i am not huge, nor am i claiming to be asking for a friend. i am average, maybe more, but i am thick. to make up for the lack of size, i give amazing oral until whomever i'm with reaches orgasm. my question is this; would a girl prefer a guy who is average but can really 'eat', or a guy who is well above average and only 'eats' about average? ( for those women who don't know, average length for a man is from 6-7" )
it all depends strictly on the girl, man.
i have a mole in my pubic area and i want to get it removed but i dont know what to tell my mom does it really mattter if i get it removed?
jsut tell her straight up wht the problem is- theres really only one way to tell anyone. lol. but no, its more of a personal opinion of you want to get it removed. nobody else's opiion should matter except yours. do what you feel comfortable doing. good luck!
How many days after you are late for your period should you take a pregnancy test for it to be affective?
it depends. but usually a week is good. just make sure you buy the tests that state they detect the pregnancy hormone first- or sumthn of that level.
good luck.
Sorry if this is the wronge category.
Okay, my boyfriend of over a year is turning 21 soon. Problem is, I have no idea what to get him. He is really into the punk/goth stuff. Any ideas?
buy him a gift certificate to get a tattoo or a piercing. if thats his thing. if not- get him a gift certificate to hot topic- or spencers or sumthn like that. you can nevr go wrng with gift certificates
im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.
mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.
This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.
what about breast enlargement?
are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?
is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?
i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!
Please HELP ME!
first off- your breast size doesnt destroy a person's life!- and i dubt that you havent had a boyfriend because of your breast size. im a 36A- and ive had a handful of boyfriends- believe it or not- the majority of them all wanted me for the way i looked- so im guessing my breast size didnt turn them away!- guys are jerks- but honestly- it takes a REAL jerk to be with a girl because her boobs are big. i believethat if you are wanting to make them bigger so that you can attract guys- then you will never be truly happy- becuase guys will be all over you for the wrong reasons. jsut keep searching. your body is still developing- and still will be until youre about 18. so youve still got a aways to go. and plus, even if your mother told you you could get enlargement- (which would be really hard to convinve her of that) doctors wouldnt let youdo it becuase youre a minor. the only way they would consider enlargement with the consent of a parent for a minor would be if there was a birth defect or disease involved. some kind of health issue. i know from experience because my sister had an undeveloping breast, and they told her she could only get it fixed with an adult's consent- and all they would do is fix the one that doesnt grow- so its not for cosmetic purposes. doctors are real professional about stuff like that. so just keep on goin, girl - things cant be tht bad for you if me and you are the same cup size, and everything's goin alright for me! good luck.
Hi Im A 21 year old female. and im stressing. I Have a 24 year old boyfriend i have been with for the past 2years and a half. in this relationship i have bin cheated on,beaten up i have practically been abused mentally physically and emotinally. he say he love , i guess in his own ways.but i have been dealing with him and his baby mama to much. dont get me wrong i do love him. but i felt he stopped my life completly. i wanted to go to college or to the military and he didnt want me to go. but i was dumb. anyways i went away for training which i had to beg him to let me go, eventually he did. before i left i found out he cheated on me with his baby mama again. so when i went away i found someone.A 25 year old firefighter. someone who treated me like i have never been treated before, he respects me, he loves me, hes offering me the world, my mom spoke to him and she like him, so i had plan to leave my boyfriend to go to live with this guys now. i would love to be with this guy so much but my boyfriend refuses to let me go. now these days he all of a sudden want me and promises me to treat me good, but he promised that before.everytime i speak to my baby i smile he makes me feel happy something i havent been feeling in a long time, this is my story i dont know what do do, im a Virgo In Distress and i just cant figure out what to do. please help me, this is my future.
definetely go for where you can be happy. dating is just a process that involves weeding through the bad guys till you get the one you want- if theres any inkling inside you that you would like to try being with another man- then go for it, girl! yuove got nothnig to lose, and everything to gain!
I have cracks on the ends of my lips/mouth. how do i get rid of them?
vaseline. itll cure it in a day or two as long as you keep your mouth coated.
Two weeks ago I got into a fight with a man that was a close friend of mine. The fight was over msn messanger. I told him I would never have an affair with a married man but that I still wanted to be his friend. Now he wants nothing to do with me and has even blocked me off his contact list. It hurts so bad because he had been a friend of mine for the last 4 years- I was beginning to think that he was hoping I would have an affair with him because he isnt happy in his marriage- I would only ever be intimate with him IF he left his wife. I can't believe what a jerk he is being- It's kind of stupid to end a four year friendship over that. Does anyone have any advice for how I can feel better? And don't you think he is being a jerk?
he is definetely being a jerk, and to me, it seems like hes acting this way becuse you sed you wouldnt have an affair with him. maybe thats what he had wanted, and becuse you told him straight up that you would never do that- he used that as an excuse to not want to talk to you anymore. very big jerk.
I have a friend (we actually went on a few dates but nothing more) that has a little girl (he's 18 and she's 3). He takes no responsibility for her and doesn't live with her. She lives with his mom. Our families actually know each other as well.
Today I had a dentist appt. and I saw his mom there. She was with her other son and this little girl that I never met. I figured she just had another kid since I didn't see her for so long.
So later on when I was home, I told my mom that I ran into her and asked when she had the little girl. My mom told me that it wasn't hers; it was my friend's daughter. I was so incredibly surprised because that thought never entered my mind. And the little girl is so unbelievably adorable. She was even sitting in my lap the whole time I was talking to her mom.
Well I'm gonna see my friend next weekend (I haven't seen him in a month) and I was wondering if I should mention his daughter and tell him that I met her or not considering he never even sees her. What do you guys think? I mean I don't want to make him feel bad or anything.
why should you stop yuorself from telling him you saw his daughter just because he has nothing to do with her? last time i checked that would mean that HES the one with the problem- right?
im 23 now and i still havent had sex. ive been waiting to have sex, but now i want to have sex and no one wants to now. is 23 too long to wait?
you could be eighty- three and still not ready for it. it all depends on if you as a person are ready for it- and any thing that might happen as a result.
i really want to get my driving permit over the summer and i've already studied some of drivers manual. i just dont know what kind of questions or situations they will ask. i have tried lookin for stuff online and i just hate guessing on the questions and not knowing the actual answer. please if u know any questions can you also provide an answer. please and thank you
go to your local DMV and they can give you a free manual of the questions gone over in the test for your state. just study them. alot of the questions are honestly no- brainers- and half the test is knowing your signs- so definetely study them. other than that- you should be perfectly fine. good luck!
If you have sex with a condom are you still considered a virgin or does it have to be unprotected sex? Just curious.
penetration is penetration- condom or not.
Okay so. I'm going to another state for vacation. I want to call my friend but does it cost for long distance? Like who pays? The caller? Because I'm going to call them on their cellphone.. You have to put in the area code too, right?
yepperes- you have to 1+ area code, and the person who dials the call pays. i would suggest having them call you when thir minutes start at night- that way they get free minutes and long distance- and no one will have to suffer!
What exactly is dry sex? Like i know its sex with your clothes on but how many clothes? what articles of clothing? what else are you doing? what else is it involve? I just dont get it. a detailed response gets 5!
also. what base is it when you put like whip cream on your chest and a guy licks it off?
Thanks!
i do not believe that you need to know the answer to your first question because of the childlike second question. 'bases' dont mean a thing unless you are in it with a person just for saying you 'did'. it seems to me like you are not ready for any kind of sex with a person- mature a little bit, and then im sure people will be more than willing to answer your questions!
Is mastrubation a sin? (religiously)
its hugely controversial- i can guarantee you that. now wether or not it is a sin- i think it fully depends on your religion- and even your personal beliefs combined. i am pentecostal- but ican tell you that that subject is not one normally discussed in a service- - althoguh some people have found scripture to try and prove that wrong. some say that there is no harm in it unles it is perverted ad with another person of the same sex, or if it is with a person of the opposite sex before marriag.e others say tht your body is s temple of christ- (which is stated in the bible)- and that it doesnt in fact belong to you- but to God, and that by masturbating it is defiling property that is not yours. its all in how you see it.
hello! i hope someone can help me..
ok, last april 30 and may 1, my boyfriend and i had dry sex. there was no penetration because i was wearing my undies. but accidentally, mine and his had contact but it was very quick and no penetration.
i'm not sure if i have irregular period. i got my period last may 15.
the problem is that, i haven't gotten my period up to this day, june 23. is it possible that i am pregnant? please help. i've read that some women still have their period even they're pregnant.. thank you so much..
chances are- that youre not- BUT- if he came at all before y'all 'came in contact'- there is still a chance that semen could have gotten the chance to enter you. id say go buy a pregnancy test- you can buy the chep ones from walgreens (they stil give accurate results)- but get the ones that say ' detect the pregnancy hormone before your missed period'- or sumthn along those lines. just be careful next time- and i wish you the best of luck in whic h ever direction things go for you.
should i date a guy that's somewhat in the military? i like him, but i'm afraid to ..
all depends on what you can and cannot tolerate. in my opinion- i would never do it because you never know if they will need him in iraq, and i know mentally i could not deal with the stress that would come with worrying about my man all the time like that. but its a personal opinion. go with your heart, and go where you feel God is leading you. you can never go wrong.
Well, I love the guy. I watched his recent show on MTV & just fell in love with him. He is so genuinely sweet & has worked so hard to get where he is & he deserves every single bit of it! Problem is: None of my friends like him. Half of them make fun of the fact that I like him/his music. Some of the comments include, "That pussy from O-Town?", "Oh, the boy with a girl name?" Yeah, umm so what. Honestly, I'm getting fed up with it. I can't prove to every single one of them how down to earth & nice he is, so what am I to do? Do I say something to them about it, or just let it go? It's getting irritating now. I've never liked O-Town, but since Ashley came out solo I've just loved his work. My friends, and basically everyone in my school dislike him. But it sucks cause when I go to his concert/meet and greets I have to take my mom, which I'd much rather go to with a friend, but I can't..cause none of my friends like him! Ahh, what to do!?
short and sweet: stay true to what you like- no matter how good of friends you are with them- chances are- by the time youre out of school- you probably wont ever talk to them or see them. theyre opinion should mean diddly- squat to you.
Okay so were reviewing exponents and I'm not very good at them so how without a calculator do you solve the following
2^3.5
2^-3
2^-15
< p>2^30
2^-1.5
None of this is doing my homework for me i just dont understand how to do these w/o a calculator. Thanks so much!
I will rate for any help!
wow. i know you are gonig to hate me- because im not much of a help to you at all- because i have a question of my own to ask you- what the heck are you doing in school?- dont you have summer break?