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military guy. should i date a guy that's somewhat in the military? i like him, but i'm afraid to ..
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YES. yes. yes yes yes. He's serving our country, risking his life for people he doesn't know. My sister is dating a guy in the National Guard, and he's at bootcamp right now. He's the most respectful kid I know, and he's funny and smart and he treats my sister great. How can you NOT want to date a guy like that? (I don't, of course, but the general you) Your military guy deserves a great girlfriend, though. Someone who'll love him and respect that he won't always be there, and will treat him right when he is (provided he treats her right, of course) So, yes. Military guys are up there with fat guys on who I want to end up with. :) ]
My sister's husband is in the military and I think he is great. Military guys are cute and tough, but senstive inside.....perfect! he he! Just try it? What have you got to lose?
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Going out as friends would be probably the best thing to begin with;;Yeah you can call it a date or whatever but perosnally i think go for what you feel is right.. Him being in the military shouldn`t matter but i can see why you`d be worried..If starting out slow helps then do it;;
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Dont be afraid to date a guy that is in the military. If you like him dont be afraid to date him just because hes in the military. So yes you should date him if you like him how he is then yes date him and have fun. Hope it goes well.
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my sister is sort of in this situation - if you love him that much you should give him a chance but if you are not sure about the relationship then hold off. hope the advice was helpful. ]
all depends on what you can and cannot tolerate. in my opinion- i would never do it because you never know if they will need him in iraq, and i know mentally i could not deal with the stress that would come with worrying about my man all the time like that. but its a personal opinion. go with your heart, and go where you feel God is leading you. you can never go wrong. ]
what do you mean by somewhat?And yeah if you know he wont die and you will get to see him and talk to him decently yeah then go for it! ]
maybe you should get to know him better before rushing to conclusions. whatever you think about military people does not have to be true for him. people join the military for many different reasons, and the military is made up of all kinds of people. some of them are not so bright, and some are geniuses, some like violence and some might even be pacifists (unlikely, but possible), so you should really try to find out what he's like before rejecting him automatically because of what he does. ask him why he joined the military, find out what his beliefs are... just talk to him. ]
you should always follow your heart. no matter what it leads you to. i fell that is the best way to live. dont let anyone or anything stnd in the way of how your heart feels. ]
If you like him, yeah! Why not? ]
What do you mean SOMEWHAT in the Military? If you like him why not date him? I'm married to a Marine and wouldn't have it any other way. These people posses a courage unlike no other. There willing to die for what they believe in. In my eyes, they are... THE BEST OF THE BEST. Also, why are you afraid to? It's kinda hard to answer your question without knowing more...but I tired. Hope it helps. ]
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