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Yeah, you said she wants him because i want him. But she always says how 'I only like him because she does.' But really, i actually like him more than ive liked any guy in a while,
grrrr ?
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did you like him first? or did she start liking him first?
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14/f
So I've liked this guy for awhile now. Recently he found out I liked him. He still talks to me and acts all nicer and stuff. Before he use to tease me and stuff. Well this last week he has gone back to teasing me again. I can't act normal around guys when they find out I like them. Maybe thats why I don't get a boyfriend or whatever. I just want to know how to talk to this guy like I use to before he knew. I can act completely normal if I like a guy as long as they don't know I do. I just can't get it out of my head. "Act as if none of that never happened" Thats what people tell me to do. I can't do it! Its so hard. He says to me, "how come you never talk to me anymore" I don't think he likes me like that but I just can't act like I usually would. I mean I don't act weird but I act as if he isn't there anymore. So please help! Thanks! (link)
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honestly, you are so lucky. there are so many girls who tell guys that they like them, and then they stop talking to them. for you, this is good because he talks to you and acts the same with you. i don't kno but there is this thing that maybe he could like you too because he is concerned about you not talking to him. don't pretend that nothing ever happend because reality is that something did happen. and you just have to face the fact that he knows by trying your hardest to act like you. you don't have to be normal because i honestly in my opinion think that things will probably never be how you remmeber.....its a good change, so just try to be yourself. Act like you and think about the positive sides to him knowing that you like him. instead of stepping away. You want him, so just show it! i hope this helped.
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How long does it take to get an. And. How long do they last?orgasm
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well..lol. it depends on who the person is i think, because everyone's bodies are differnt...so we all react in different ways. for me personally, wen i masterbate, it takes me like 7venish minutes and then i'l start to explode...yeah. so it takes like 10 minutes, and the orgasm for me lasts only like 10 seconds....its short...and if you want to last longer, you can go for another round. watching porn can get you a better orgasm whle you masturbate. i hope this helped!lol!goodluck.
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okay, about a year ago i dated this boy and when we broke up we didnt talk about it or anything. it was basically done. then like june we started talking again then started dating, we only dated for like a week because he did something stupid and i didnt wanna deal with it. well that was the end of june. after that we still talked everyday, from when we woke up til we fell asleep. we talked ALL the time. i told him everything, he told me pretty much everything. all summer it was like that. at the end of the summer he started dating someone who used to be my best friend, we werent enemies at the time, just werent as close. he pretty much stopped talking to me then. not in a mean way, just idk..we became distant. i was so upset, because i thought i really liked him. i just couldnt tell him and have what happened before happen again. well him and that girl broke up, and like i told him i liked him.. and then we talked about everything and he told me that he was sorry but not like reaching out and talking to me and wanted it to go back to how it used to be.. i was so happy. but then i got thinking..whenever i date him, i dont like him as much as i did before. but whenever he doesnt talk to me for a while i am hurt. i think that i like having him as like a best friend or whatever. idk what im really asking, just asking what you guys think. oh im 15/f btw =] (link)
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I think you like him. You know that saying "you don't know what you have until its gone/you've lost it." something like that. I think its the same as what you are going through. You like this guy, but you don't feel the same way when you are going out, then you lose him, and you see exactly how much you really love and care about him. you miss his as more than a friend.
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my boyfriend broke up with his ex five months ago and they dated for 2 years. one night he admitted to me that he misses her somethimes.well im worried that im the rebound chick he says that he cares about me and wouldnt hurt me well im not sure i can fully believe that.me and him has only been together for a month.im not sure what to do. (link)
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he does care about you. Its always gonna be hard for people to get over their exes, but they he does care. It will probably take a while for him to get over his ex, but he is willing to move on and focus it all on you because you are his main focus right now. You just have to trust and know that. I hope this helped. goodluck!
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Okay So i have two other best friends, T and L ( T is a guy L is a girl)
SO right, anyways we hang out all the time,( T is my cousin) and it's usually me in the middle, me and T usually hang out together and L gets so jelous!
Sometimes she misses like two or three days of school for now apperent reason so when she comes back T will make a big deal. I AM SO SICK OF HER>
she claims i like T. HE"S MY COUSIN. OMG .
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honestly, to me it sounds like you like your cousin. if you didn't like your u cousin, you wouldn't care about him making a big deal about L not coming to school. i know i might be wrong, but i think it bugs you because deep down you know you like him. you don't want T giving her attention, thats why when T makes a big deal about L missing school it bugs you.I have a friend who likes thier cousin so if you do like him, it would totally be understandable. You want T's attention because you like him. I think that if you do really don't like him. Just tell her that he's your cousin, omg. Tell her you like some other guy. maybe you can take her mind off the fact that she thinks you like your cousin by constantly talking about another guy. and tell her things you "love" about tht guy. anyways, i hope this helps. goodluck!
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17/f
me and this guy who is also my best friend have liked each other on and off for the past 5 years but he's had this complicated and rediculous relationship thats been on and off so i was afraid to get involved with him and then have him go back to this girl who he broke up with nine times. well he finally broke up with her for good. their parents refuse to let them date anymore because now they've broken up ten times.
its been a week since the break up.
now is our time. i've slept at his house before but never when he was single. we always joke about sex and making out so when i slept over at his house this past weekend i was nervous about what he'd want to do. i thought he'd at least try to kiss me but since then i've found out that he was hesitant to do anything because he respects me so much he didn't want to do anything unless i said i wanted to do it.
personally...i dont think its romantic when you talk about kissing before actually doing it. i like it to be spontaneous. but we talked about it and then he kissed me...and somehow i missed. then he says we're going to try it again so we kissed 3 more times. three times that seemed pretty damn good to me but hes "not counting it" because it lacked passion and "i just sat there". i was laying down and he was on top of me..there wasn't a whole lot of moving room.
so he said the rest of the night he felt weird because it wasn't what he was expecting and then the next morning i didn't feel good because i have blood glucose problems and occationally just dont feel good so the next morning it was just really quiet. we didn't speak to each other until i had to go.
so that was that...next day (today) he drove me home from school. and we had a very long conversation about it. we drove around the block, stopped at random places...it took 40minutes to drive 8miles. i told him that as much as i appreciated his respect for me i would like it better if he just did what he wanted to do my exact words were "ya gotta just be a man and go for the gold!!" so he starts slowing the car down again and i ask what he was doing and he says "im gonna be a man...as soon as i find somewhere to pull over" so he found a spot to pull over, he unbuckled his seatbelt leaned over and kissed me. and then he kept leaning in futher and further...he was smooshing my face. so once again he said i wasn't putting anything into it..but how can i when hes smooshing my face in! and it was so rediculous i started laughing in the middle of it.
so basically we're just gonna keep doing this until we get it right but i dont know how to make this better!! eventually we're going to go out and this can't happen!
help me please. i have a feeling this is going to be a daily problem if i cant fix it.
oh by the way. the last boyfriend i had was 3years ago and i haven't kissed since so its kind of all new to me again. (link)
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the question for me is what are you doing while he is kissing you? all you have to do is kiss him back...other things you can do while kissing him back is to touch the back of his neck while kissing him...touch his body....put your hand up his shirt and explore.if you want to, you can take it a step further and go down his pants! it will turn him on in a snap, and don't be shy.just do whatever you feel like doing to him....oh yeah...one good thing that can be yummy while kissing a guy, pop his lip kinda.pretend you are biting it, and then let go,and he will love you forevr lol......and everytime you guys make out, do something different, so that he runs back asking for more...don't throw it all out on him at once.....sometimes planning things can be really awkward...so try not to plan wen you are gonna kiss. its better not to plan, just do. even when he is not man enough u to do it, once in a while you should go for it and just blow him away....show him how you like it done!lol...but anyway. goodluck!i hope this helps.:)
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Well, if you read my other questions, you know me and my "bestfriend" both 'like' the same guy, although i don't think she ilkes him. .. but whatever.
So now she's being a complete witch(if you know what i mean) to me. And she doesn't think so. But i know so, everyone says she treats me bad, but she thinks opposite, that I treat her bad.
We've been bestfriends since second grade, and I don't want that to end. But i don't know if i can handle how rude and witchy* she's been to me. I tell her about it, but all she does is 'backfire' it, and say it back to me. HELP! What should i do ? :/ (link)
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i'm in the ending process of what you are going through right now. My best friend liked the same guy i liked too, but i actually am going out with him. Your best friend is not your best friend. she doesn't know who she is, that is why she is wanting what you want. she needs to figure out what she wants. I would give up being best friends with her, and just be friends. because it will be hard for you to just drop her like that. Just distance yourself slowly form her by not telling her everything. If something happens between you and the guy, don't tell her. Keep it all to yourself. try your hardest. That way you can end your friendship in a way that won't hurt you as much.
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im 18 and my boyfriend is 20 years old we've been dating for one and a half month.well,im not sure how the topic about his ex girlfriend of 2 years came up and he said that he misses her we got in this whole big arguement now im not sure,if i should stay with him are not b/c i feel like he shouldnt be missing an ex . (link)
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i think you should dumb his ass. that is fucked up how he is bringing up his ex-friend that he missed her. He is with you now, he shouldn't be worrying about his ex girlfriend. For me right now, i'm going out with this guy, and I miss my ex boyfriend to death...i'm inlove with him, but i would never ever bring that up to my boyfriend...why? because my boyfriend is my main priority. My ex is history. Your boyfriend needs to move on. You u should tell your boyfriend that he needs to decide who he wants, because you don't want to be played around with. you don't have time to waste. Then if he doesn't decide, dump his ass.Goodluck!
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14/f
ok so i just started high school and theres this one guy i like A LOT like you dont even know dude!
but i only see him in the halls and i have zero classes with him. i want a boyfriends really really bad. the only problem is im fat like majorly but not like a big bubble...and i wear glasses the only thing i like about my self is my eyes. i have NEVER had a boyfriend and i've NEVER kissed a guy. but i really want a boyfriend. so so bad.
what do i do?
i know this may sound stupid and u may say focus on school blah blah blah but i can multitask. (link)
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One thing is gain confidence to get out of the quiet/shyness. i mean you don't have to lose all of yoru shyness though....because that is what makes you you. But to get a rid of a little bit of it is to just go on a diet. go on a veggie fruit diet. Don't eat anthing else though. everyday just eat veggies and fruit, just low fat, no bread or pasta stuff or junk food. you will lose like 18 pounds in 3 weeks. I promise. My best friend was fat, and i stayed with her at her house for 3 weeks to help her lose weight. I watched her and everything she was eating. You can also get contacts and get a new harstyle or a new look. that way youu can get the attention you deserve.
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ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months and im soo happy with him. we havent said "i love you" yet because we both want to really mean it when we do. and we're moving kind of slow, which i like and im not complaining. i was just wondering how long does it usually take before couples get sexual? (not actually having sex just like feeling up and all of that) we're moving the way we want but i just want to get an idea of what other couples are like so any stories or experiences would be appreciated =)
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wel....you just start doing touchy feely stuff fromt he beginning. sex for us was after like 9 months..yep....but we started out with a i love you, a kiss, makingout, the makeout-touchy, makeout-touchy ( touching each other there), then sex! yep.......i mean...it does go by your pace. The thing is if you want to do something or you feel like doing something, just do it. don't hold back, don't be shy. Everytime you get feely, do something different, that way you can keep him coming back for more. I hope this helped. goodluck!
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Ok, me and my boyfriend are both 15, almost 16. I'm a virgin, and he's not. I really want to have sex with him, but dont know how to bring it up with him without seeming like a slut. Any ideas? (link)
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ok. don't bring it up with him. it will be weird. let it happen naturally. you can do all the planning, but don't let him into it. hang out with with him, and just come on to him. i've had this happen to me so i kno exactly where you are coming from. when you are sitting just watching a movie at his house, cuddle with him. start making out with him, and touch his body ( touch his thighs and rub his dangler)lol...it sounds nasty but it works. don't be shy. he will want you so badly you next thing you know you will be getting down and dirty. I hope this helped...gooodluck! the key is don't tell him you want to, because it will be awkward....just seduce him into it.
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okay theres a guy that i used to like.....we dated for over 2 months and i was happy to end the relationship b/c we was constantly in argument....this was over 4 months ago....and i am still thinking about him even tho i dont want him back....im confused???why am i thinking about him every day???? (link)
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because you still want him! you still like him, but you are in denial. You don't want to have to admit to yourself that you truly honestly deep down still like him.
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Ok, lately whenever i talk to tyler (my bf) on the phone he says things that make me so jealous! Last night, he told me that his ex girlfriend keeps calling him. He also told me that my bestfriend called and asked him if he was going to this one party that someone had last night. Normally, i wouldn't think anything about my friend calling him like this. The reason i am being like this is because she has been known to flirt with some of my other crushes before. All the other times she has done this to my other crushes i have cofronted her about it and she just says "We are just friends, he's just like a big brother to me!" Blah blah blah. Then, the other day i was walking to my second period class and they were walking together in the hall and when he went into his class, she "playfully" pushed him. She has a flirty personality and it gets on my nerves. I don't want to say anything to her about it because she would probably tell him and i definatly(sp) don't want him to know i am worrying about this. We have been going out for about 2 weeks now. Also, on the phone he's always like "so does kasey(my friend) like ??" She always keeps me up to date with what he says about different things since they "talk so much." It just gets on my nerves. I know they are friends and i am fine with that but she jutst makes me mad sometimes. I always tell myself "he picked me, not her."
What should i do to be less jealous?
Should i have a reason to worry?
Am i over reacting?
What do you think of this situation?
Please help!
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Your friend is honestly a bitch...she is not your friend. To me it honestly sounds like what i'm going through too. She u obviously doesn't know what she wants in life because she flirts with the other guys you have had in the past. It looks like to me she is using you to get to guys. she's is trying to compete with you. You are not over reacting. Its normal. the next time he asks you about kasey, you should ask why he cares so much....because he shouldn't be talking about your friend, it should always be about you and him....i don't want to hurt your feelings, but it sounds like he likes you and her. The thing about him making so jealous could be maybe he wants you to show more you like him. Like he wants to make you jealous so you can show that you really want him. Flirt with him and show him more that you like him. He did pick you, not her. If he has a friend, do the same thing to him! it will get him.
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15/f
My boyfriend wants me to come over to his house and i have never been to a guys house before that i have dated and i am REALLY nervous. At school, i don't get to see him that much so i'm not that nervous. What do i do? How do i not be nervous? Please help! (link)
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Just be yourself. Be like how you are in school, but be more yourself because you will be at a place where its not school. Its good/normal to be a little nervous in situations like this.
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okay so im 17 my boyfriend is 21 weve been together for going on 9 months now but the whole time during our relationship ive meet his parents once is there something wrong with that???i dont think it would bother me as much if i didnt know how him and his ex were like they broke up when he went off to college 2!! years ago...and he has had other relationships since then and before me but i found myself the other day on his moms myspace and seen comment form his ex then i got on his and ive never took the time to read his stuff because its the past it shouldnt bother me but there was so many over n over n over again and its like im tryin to compete with her and ive never even meet her n theyve had nothing to do with each other in over 2 years ..why is this upsetting me and i feel as im not as good as her to him??? (link)
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I don't think there's anything wrong with meeting the parents once at all. You are trying to compete with her, because you feel that he doesn't like you as much as he did her. He is with you now. Don't worry about his ex because she is history. I think that you should just ask questions more about his family. that way you can know them, then maybe you can see if you can go to one of their family gatherings or something. There you can interact with the mom to the fullest. I hiope this helps...goodluck!
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We've been dating for about a month now, and I really really like him. I may even love him. We were friends before hand for about a year, so we're already pretty close. We've talked about having sex, and we were planning on doing it on his birthday. I really wanted him, and he wanted me, but, something didn't feel right, so I told him we should wait a little longer. He kept on going, so finally, I just walked out and went home. It's been 3 days since then, and he's still pretty mad. Anyon know why? Or what I should do? (link)
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I think your boyfriend is mad because you prosponed when to have sex with him. that is why I think. A lot of times, planning intimate things like sex with each other is weird. It gives you that awkward feeling. I think its best that you guys just go with the flow. Whatever happens happens. Let things happen naturally, that way you know that you are for sure ready. Your boyfriend should be willing to wait for whenever you are ready if he's carring. He shouldn't be mad for that long. I would talk to him, or write him telling him that he only wants me for sex. Even if that is not the case, it will make it so that you guys can get ur issue fixed fast. He will feel really bad that you think that,maybe, and then he will call you. I've done that before, and it worked with my boyfriend. Anyways....i hope this helps!
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i need to lose like 15 pounds in like 2 weeks..any good tips or diet secrets:)
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ok...so my ex best friend is fat...i was helping her lose weight. I think chubbier people tend to lose weight faster than smaller people, but I hope that this can help you. Just eat veggies like salad everyday. They will help you burn a lot of calories so fast. And Run or jog around your neighborhood every evening. You can even walk or speed walk. Just as long as if its something active. My friend lost 18 pounds in 3 weeks. But make sure you eat veggies and fruit only. That is how I do it. And it works really well. Example of her menu everyday was.
Breakfast: Big bowl of fruit yogurt with fresh strawberries, and drink water too!lots of water. the amount or serving depends on how much you yourself can take in. not too much though.
Lunch: she had tuna salad freshly made with lettuce, cucumbers, tomatoes, and Italian dressing, not ranch tho.
Dinner: She would have salad but use chicken or fish instead of tuna and the same ingredients.
Anyway...i hope this helps give you an idea! fruit and veggies and some walking or running....goodluck!!!:)
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Okay so i developed real early and im very mature. i'm 14 but i honestly do looke atleast 17 or 18 & act this way to. well theres this real sweet hot kid who is 19..and he always says "i wish you weren't so young" blah blah. i know it is against the law to do anything with him, but it's like my body/personality dont go with my age. it's like im in the wrong time zoneish haha. well me and him have been thinking about it and always talk about hooking up. i just don't see why it's such a big deal. but if i were to do anything with him, how would anyone find out? i don't see how he could get in trouble. so my question really is, is it wrong to be in love with someone who is 5 years older then you? (link)
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Honestly. I don't think there is anything wrong with being inlove with someone who is 5 years older, when you are 20. Right now, you are 14 and he is 19. Think about it. This guy has been with so many girls. He is older and smarter obviously. He knows how to play his game. The reason why in my opinion he is going after you is because he knows he can take advantage of you. Because you are still very young. You will end up getting hurt if you go with this guy. I'm just being true and honest with you. How would anyone find out?..well...you would probably feel like shit after anything happened between you guys, and then you would tell someone, or go to someone for support, then that is how someone or even more would find out. I'm only telling you this because this guy is too old for you right now. Forget about him.
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how is babby formed?
how girl get pragnent? (link)
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a man and a woman get together by having sex. The boy puts his penus into the girl's vagina. The sperm comes out of the boy's penus and travels through the vagina, fertilizing an egg. If you like to know where the eggs are located, they are in the overy thingy majigies. there is an overy on the left and an overy on the right. that is how a baby is formed..basically through sex....if you are thinking of forming one, you can easily through unprotected sex. I hope this helped you a lot!goodluck!
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