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ex-girlfriend
im 18 and my boyfriend is 20 years old we've been dating for one and a half month.well,im not sure how the topic about his ex girlfriend of 2 years came up and he said that he misses her we got in this whole big arguement now im not sure,if i should stay with him are not b/c i feel like he shouldnt be missing an ex .
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i think you should dumb his ass. that is fucked up how he is bringing up his ex-friend that he missed her. He is with you now, he shouldn't be worrying about his ex girlfriend. For me right now, i'm going out with this guy, and I miss my ex boyfriend to death...i'm inlove with him, but i would never ever bring that up to my boyfriend...why? because my boyfriend is my main priority. My ex is history. Your boyfriend needs to move on. You u should tell your boyfriend that he needs to decide who he wants, because you don't want to be played around with. you don't have time to waste. Then if he doesn't decide, dump his ass.Goodluck!
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im not sure if this is going to help you but i really wanted to post to your question. iv been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now almost 7. the first week we were dating he had sex with his ex girlfriend 2 times. but now there offcially over. not now but after we dated a whole month there officially over. he didn't cheat on me becuz it was like we got in a fight and broke up and then he hung out with her and he was horny so they had sex. but whatever he realized he loved me and what not. he still talks to her and im sure he misses some stuff there like best friends but i got over that i told him if im not enough for him or if he wants to be with her fine by me. im jealous when her name comes up and i really dont like her becuz she knew we were starting a relationship yet she still did that to me. he loves me were engaged already and we know we love eachother and im sure he loves you and just tell him and ask him if he doesn't want to be with you he doesn't have to its not like your making him be with you. he will feel releaved and really tell you how he feels for the good or the bad. but i hope that helped sweetie<3
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kristina
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i understand that you got mad but everyone sometimes misses something about an ex. but yo don't have to over-react and make a fight out of it. if you feel uncomfortable by his comments a good idea would be sitting with him and telling him how you feel and that it would be a great change if you both tell each other what is annoying both. it is a very important step in a relationship and it is a great help. if you still are not sure if you should stay with him the just follow your heart.
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To miss someone is natural, but if you feel that he has intentions of getting back with her, that's when you should be worried. You will care about people in your life even if the relationship is over (with exes and even old friends) because they were once important to you. But like I said, if it sounds like he wishes he could still be with her, then it would be best for you two to separate. If he hasn't moved on, then he isn't ready for another relationship.
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You can't tell other people what they should feel. That isn't fair or right.
If you don't like that he still has feeling for a girl he spend two years of his life when, then yes, you should dump him. But personally, I'd be worried about a guy who didn't miss a girl he spent two years with, that would just be cold and inhuman.
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2 years is a lot longer than a month and a half. It's natural for him to still have feelings and miss her. I'm madly in love with my boy of two years but there are still guys in my life that I miss, and that's just human nature.
Let it go. Give it time. He'll miss her less the longer he's with you.
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