hey yall if anyone has any questions i would love for you to ask me them! i know i just started my site but i was the advice columnist for my school paper so having it on the internet shouldn't be much different..... please do ask questions, i would really appreciate it! also, feel free to visit my quote site- www.xanga.com/xo_from_the_heart_ox thanks loves
lovelove, anne givings
Website: love from anne givings
E-mail: givings@earthlink.net
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Location: Texas
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i go to a school where sports mean alot..i have tried a bunch of differnet sports..but none of them work for me..i am tring to stay in shape..but i havent as much since i quit my last sport..i really want to try out for a sport this year..any ideas of which one i should pick..i'm not to good at sports ..but i'm detirmned to do this! (link)
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have you tried tennis or golf? golf isnt exactly a sport to keep you in shape, but if you arent very sporty, it is something to do, and you can always just go to the gym and work out.... i dont know about sports up north, but sports in texas mean ALOT (especially football) so its always nice to know there's somebody doing something different! if ya have hockey or something or lacross (do they have that in new england?) than you oughta try out for that! hope ya find something ya like!
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you see iv liked this girl for a few weeks and she means the world to me..she knows i like her A LOT but i mean iv never felt this way about someone but the problem is like i dont really think we EVER have a chance going out because shes like more a friend and she doesnt like me anymore than a friend can someone tell me what to do ? (link)
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i think its sweet that you asked for advice! you oughta tell her because even though she might not LIKE you like you she wont stop talking to you or start acting weird, only if you do. i would be so flattered if a guy said he liked me, but i wouldnt be rude to him or anything. most girls would love to hear that from a guy. if you tell her and nothing happens, just become a better friend because best friends learn to love eachother anyway!
hope i helped!
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okay i think i have pink eye my eyes really icth and
there swellen i were contacts if thats any help but is there any way i can stop the ichin or anything it might be other than pink eye? i rate 5s (link)
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use eye drops (not for contacts- just regular stuff) it doesnt always make it less red but it gets rid of most itching and makes it heal quicker! try wearing your glasses and NOT itching it. that should help
i hope you feel better,
anne givings
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I'm going to be a junior in high school this coming year. I'm starting to search for colleges. I plan on majoring in psychology and I'd like to find a college in Virginia or around D.C. How to I find the right college for me? What sort of things do I look for? Thanks in advance! (link)
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my friends brother was looking for a college and found a book of colleges at barnes and nobles or something.... those books are really supposed to help when looking! hope i helped
anne givings
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Hey! Right now I have a Revlon hair straightener but it doesn't work that well. I want to get a new one that works really good but I have no clue what I should look for. Can you please tell me what kind of straighteners works good, the price range of these straighteners, and where I can buy them. Thanks in advance. I will rate you.
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definately get a chi straightener! i got one and i have to frizziest hair in the world i swear. i got it professionally straightened and its still really curly and frizzy. i tried my friends revlon but it didnt work. chis are usually over a hundred, but sometimes target and walmart have better prices! chis are the absolute best i swear!
hope it works out!
anne givings
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I'm having a party soon. Dose any one know any good truth and dare questions. I need more truth questions cause thats the one ppl pick more, and if we play dubble dare i need 2 part dares ThAnKs were 13 so ya know but some ppl will get naked!
I rate high!
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buy "jenga truth or dare" my friend had it and we never used the blocks, but some of the questions were good. especially the truths!
hope i helped,
anne givings
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Last year I was a sophmore and I am skipping a grade so next year I'll be a senior. I tend to have REALLY atrocious study habits. Actually I guess I can't really say that because I don't have any study habits at all. It's gotten me by so far, even through the PAP, AP, and Honors courses I've taken. I'm worried, however, that it won't be enough next year. I'll be taking Duel Credit English 4, US Hist AP, AP Government, AP Economics, Academic Decathalon, and a few other courses. I'm really worried that I won't be able to keep my GPA above 3.8 like I have been and I'm looking for some organizational skills, sources of motivation, and ANYTHING else yall can provide me with. Since I'm graduating early, I have to work extra hard to get accepted to the colleges I am concidering and REALLY NEED HELP. If it helps, my habits include not studying, never doing homework, and if I do, I do it the class period before, etc. I always develope relationships with my teachers, which usually gets me out of a jam or two, and the few I don't always tell me I'm just lazy and that I could do my work I just choose not to and then they get mad at me when I don't care. Ugh...sorry this is soooo long, but I need alot of help! (link)
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if you never study, i can understand that. i do my best NOT to study just because my parents say i HAVE to. first of all, when you DO choose to study, work the hardest on the AP and honors courses, because they can get you 5's if you make a's and that will DEFINATELY raise your GPA. if you have a job or your parents are willing to pay, try getting a tutor, because when its one on one you tend to pay more attention. maybe take thirty minutes out of your weekend (instead of watching a TV show you dont even LIKE) to study. im not saying every day, just once a week. Also, when i was on the verge of making an A in my science class i made mini-quizzes, because thats SOOO much easier than just reading out of a dumb text book. I actually did more making the quizzes than taking them, but i made copies for my friends. I ended up making a 92.8.
sadly, on the next test i was so mad that i only had an 89.4 (on more decimal point and i could have an A) even with all my hard work that i completely blew it off and only got a 68. sometimes, just knowing im working hard and that its paying off makes me work harder. i might only be a freshman, but im taking an SAT prep course and just sitting through that, i already know i will do well in geometry. plus, i found a lot of subjects i enjoy, like i am taking geometry, algebra two, and trig ALL in my freshman year because i like math. it sorta looks like you like history, so try your HARDEST in there because you can make 5's in those classes and it might seem easier. also, there are board games you can play to improve your smarts like scrabble and online games to help on SATs.
hope i helped!
anne givings
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this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is? (link)
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i had that same problem about a month before i actually started my period (when i was thirteen) so if its getting close to that time of month, i would say thats probably it. try wearing a really light pad to keep it fom staining your panties!
hope i helped,
anne givings
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I just dumped my boyfriend, and I feel really bad about it, but I had to. I never see him because Im so busy with things this summer, and he got his computer and cell phone taken away. I dont have time for him and I knew it was time to let it all go. My problem now is, I think im in love with my ex boyfriend again. Sometimes I can tell that his feelings for me are mutual (my first ex) and I dont know if theres a way I can be with my first ex, without making my new ex entirely too jealous. Part of me dumped my boyfriend because I still have feelings for the other one. Now I dont know how to go about being with him, without the other one being extremely mad at me. (link)
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you shouldnt worry about making another guy jealous, just be honest. if you still like him then dont lie about it. and if it doesnt come up in conversation, all the better!!!
hope i helped,
anne givings
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I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too (link)
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i had that same problem last year and i told him i liked him and then he switched schools. Hes still lives next door but we dont talk anymore cuase there is always this weird tension. if you are shy like me, i would suggest NOT telling him, and maybe someday he will like you. dont ignore him or anything but maybe talk about another guy and see if he acts jealous. ;) good luck and i hope i helped!
anne givings
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I just got back from a two 1/2 week vacation to california. Me and my best friend hung out so much before I left. When I got home I called her immeaditly and she was like Hi. I told her i wus home and i missed her and she said Uh-Huh. *not in a sarcastic way* Shes busy hangin out with all of her other friends right now, i dont mind that she hangs out with them, but Ive been home for a week and she never calls me or anything and she didnt act like she cared I came home! Whats going on? (link)
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its okay if she has other friends she likes to hang out with because you probably have other friends you like to hang out with too, but you should try inviting her to go shopping or something so you can talk and be around her. maybe she just doesnt have much to say, and you shouldnt be mad at her for not calling you unless she promised she would. if you still feel tension you ought to confront her about it! let her know you still want to be friends!
hope i helped!
anne givings
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hey i been friends with Ashely for about 6 years and we are best friends and we were going out to dinner and a movie with group of friends and i pick here up and i walk in and i show her cuting her self and her dad and mom was not home i dont want Ashely to get her or i know some times u can die from cutting your self do u think i should tell some one or just keep it to myself? (link)
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i think you need to talk to HER about it first and try to find out what the problem is. if she is upset for some reason you can try to help her fix it. if she is stubborn and does not want to talk about it you should tell an adult you trust or let her know you are going to tell an adult. That might let her know how much you care, and possibly even make her stop or tell an adult herself! but you sound like a great friend to care that much about her.
anne givings
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I plan on waiting till i get married to have sex. But why is it so hard to find a guy that feels the same? Like on TV, all the guys seem like pigs, and that they only love women to get sex out of them. I want a guy who feels the same why i do, but why r they so hard to find? (link)
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sadly, the best suggestion i have would be to go out with a really nerdy guy. loves
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I am 13 and I have already had sex twice with my bf who is 15....people always say I am a huge slut and whore...stuff like that...but i dont think I am that much...i meen i thought I was ready so I had sex...what do you think?
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maybe you are just a little insecure and feel as though you need to have sex to BE somebody. if you are comfortable with it it's okay and you should be able to ignore what other people say. i havent ever REALLY kissed a guy so im not able to put myself in your shoes, but do you have sex because you LOVE him or because you think its what people do? i hope i helped!
anne givings
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my boyfriend of a few months says that whenever he tries to get 'close' to me... i back away, or .. idk, i just seem like i dont want to. Ill admit that i do that sometimes.. and i have no idea why.. hes so amazing and i dont want him to think i dont appreciate and like him because of my insecurities or whatever's wrong with me... i need advice on how to fix the way i do things... and not be so unafectionate.. thanks (link)
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do you talk or get physical more? i hope its talk because if you are more physical then he might not actually like you, he may just be using you. This probably isnt the case, but you should still make sure he loves you for you and not how you look or any of that crap. Is it just in public? it may not be something you did wrong, it may be him! hope i helped!
anne givings
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I like someone but I am not sure if he likes me or if i should ask him out? (link)
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try just being friends with him first, im sure it will come up in conversation some time!
anne givings
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Ever since I was a baby, my face has always been chubby, even though the rest of me isn't. Not that Nicole Richie had a fat face before, but I've noticed her face has become a lot slimmer after she lost all of that weight. So i was wondering, how much weight would i need to lose for my face to be noticebly slimmer as well? (I'm 16, 5'6", and 125 lbs)
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I have a kind of chubby face but i'm not going to try and loose weight to fix it, and neither should you. You shouldnt look to someone famous to try and relate yourself to, because chances are that they had surgery or lost TOO MUCH weight to fix their problem. Try different hair styles. I found that my face looks slimmer when i DONT straighten my hair or when i just leave it down and curly (although your hair may be naturally straight) Dont try to loose weight to fix your problem. Thats not the answer.
hope i could help!
anne givings
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