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16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
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"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants
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Dear Advicenators,
I want to get my belly button pierced so bad (for my 8th grade graduation) but my mom says no. I don't know what I can say to convence her that I really want this, and will do anything to get it.
What can I tell her to convince her to let me get it peirced? My dad will accept if she accepts, but I already brought up thae fact of good grades, good friends, and I dont' know what else to say! Thanks for the advive.
-Krys
tell her if you dont let you get it done that youl do it yourself. which means ul get an infection and whatnot, so she'll have to take you. theres also ways to get it done without your moms permission..
Does anyone know where you can get a custom belly button ring? like on it, you can say what you want? an example: I love_____ ?
thanks!
http://www.tribalectic.com/Custom_PictureBarbells.asp
THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH
I have considered myself asnostic for a few years now. I have faith more in the people I know and everyone, then some silly religion with it's own agenda. I also believe in a greater god, but mostly for comfort, to hate, and to thank. Anywho, this coming fall I am going to have to make a decision of getting confirmed by the Catholic Church. I am not so sure that I should do it. I know that it would make my mom happy, but I feel like I am just flat out disrespecting Catholicism to follow their ways even though I don't believe it. I don't really care if I am found out, I am not like an in-your-face religion hater, but still, it would kill my mom. So, my question is, should go through with it for my mom, or not?
THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH, I DON'T BELIEVE IN CHRISTIANITY, PLEASE TO NOT TELL ME OF THE GLORIES OF HEAVAN, JESUS, AND WHAT NOT
i'm agnostic also, and i definitely know that i wouldnt get confirmed by the catholic church cause it would be a lie to myself, and to catholics. but thats just me. do what you please. my recomendation is just dont do something you dont believe in..
I'm not quite exactly sure this is under the right category, but i don't think it would fit under anything else.
Well i'm 14 and my breasts have stretch marks on them, they have been there for a long time. I mean i know they are growing, but they don't seem to be changing size.
Is there any other reason i could have the marks?
and if there is a way, how to get rid of them?
thanks in advance.
http://health.learninginfo.org/stretch_marks.htm
That should heLp!
I share a bathroom with my 10 yearold sister and we keep our waste basket in the closet so my dog doesn't get to it. Everytime I get my period, i make sure i push my trash all the way to the bottom and close the closet door. BUT m sister always leaves the door open. My dog gets bloody tampons and the drags them around the house. My dad is getting disgusted and so am I! He blames it on me because of course its mine, not my moms. He says things like "You know the only thing that disgusts me is your bloody tampons" Its so embarassing!! How can I deal with this? My sister is an effin lazy ass.
hahaahahaha.
higher shelf i guess,.
hahah
Ok so im 14/f n i've been getting my period for a while now. I'm going on a school trip soon and I'm pretty sure i'm gonna have my period then. I've never used a tampon before but there is no way i can wear a pad with my bathing suit on this trip. The problem is i'm afriad to use a tampon and i don't know how. Anyone wanna help!?!
dont put no vaseline or crap on it.
i know my bf loves me, but he's always getting mad at me, things always escalate into fights all the time!and they arise out of nothing! it;s like he gets mad, then realizes there's nothing to be mad at, then he LOOKS for something to get mad at that happens during the stupid fight, then as soon as i say something that he doesn;t like, he turns THAT into the thing he's going to get mad at me for. It drives me nuts. How can I get through to him? How can I avoid these stupid arguments? What can I do so he'll see that all this fighting has no purpose? that he is in control, as much as me, and he has a choice of how he wants to act, so he doesn't have to choose to be mad, why can't he be nice?
dont fight back or argue. tell him one thing like "this fighting doesnt help anything", so that he cant look for little things to get mad about during the fight!
is a tomato a fruit or veggie i need to know now !!!!
vegetable.
haha kidding.DRTUFGHJKLGT:
I've been having suicidel thoughts leatly, I think it's because I came to a conclusion that I'm a worthless nobody, I'm not good at anything and that I really have no reason to live ,no goal in life or will living.
Please give me some advice how to get this thoughts out of my head...
18 year old male
nobodys worthless. theres a reason for everybodys life and you should try to find yours. ive been down that suicidal road and its not a good one. be optimistic. Instant messageme on AIM if u ever need neone to talk to ..but i'm sometimes away haha. But anyways just stop thinking that stuff and spend timewith friends and whatnot. if it gets really bad, go see a psyciatrist. ive been through all this shit before and its horrible, just change the way you think.
i once thought i had a yeast infection becuase of the cottage cheese like discharge i was getting. so i got the three day kit and i noticed that it didnt really make a difference. this was about a month ago. so then i noticed that this white, cottage-cheese like discharge is coming out of .. my little peehole. And this has been going on for about a year. I cant share this with my mom because i dont even talk to her..at all. literally. and we have no insurance to go to a gyno. So what is this, and what do i do?!
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How bad do nose piercings hurt? What's the procedure/etc....it would help if you have an actual experience. thanks.
Not bad at all. But i'm getting kinda annoyed by how many girls have it. I was happy when i got my nose pierced..but i dont know about it now. I see more and more girls walking around with crooked piercing jobs on their noses and nose rings the size of a rock. Well the procedure normally goes like:
1) Piercing shop. signing blah blah..
2) You'll get your nostril cleaned with a little wipe, and make sure you clean out your nose, becuase sometimes they...will 'pick' your nose, haha.
3) you can, or the piercer will, pick the placement of where the stud is going to be.
4) He gets the needle, you breathe in, wen youre ready to breathe out, he pierces it. the pain is very little.
5) he slides the jewelry in, and there you go!
hel probably tell you and/or give you an instruction sheet on piercing care.
any other piercing related questions-ask me. piercings=
on myspace to get the page to be private do you have to set your age to 14 or younger or is there another way to get it completely private?
14 or younger is the only way i know of, and thats what I do.
we dont need no crazzy old perverts now do we?
ok so me and this guy had an amazing time last night...this guy i reallly like was wrappin his arms around me, puttin his chin on my sholder, starin me in the eyes, we were layin down and he was gettin closer and closer, hugged me goodnight, and just doin all this stuff that made me think that maybe he really likes me. But i hear tonight that he doesn't like me and thinks i'm annoying and w/e. what do ya'll think is the truth? he's 20/m and i'm 17/f
From his body language it sounds like his pretty into you last night, but i don't think you should be be "hearing" what other people say. If he thinks something about you, he can tell you HIMself. Just maybe try talkng to him that will maybe work.
what time do clubs open? like the drinking and dancing type.. and how can i get guys to notice me there, without appearing to be slutty?
it depends on the club but around 10 pm to like 4 am. You can dance really good, but make sure you don't dress too whorrey. You could also dress cute, but not slutty. ALSO do something wild/crazy but cute with your hair! Guys will notice you and it wont be slutty! Yay for clubs and being a girl!
I know, I know, it's just another stupid mySpace question. I know you're all sick of it, but there's no where else I can get my answer.
How do you put pictures on your profile? I don't mean like add to the photo index, I mean put the picture in the actual profile?
If you have a photobucket, just go there and put a checkmark in all the boxes next to the pictures you want on your myspace. Then towards the bottom of the photobucket page there should be alot of options. Click "generate html code" and then it should give u some codes to put into the edit "about me" section on stupid ol myspace.
ok... im 14 and i am 5'10... is that too tall? i am taller than most guys my age and although i have never really had a problem with it this year i do... im sure most girls would kill to be taller but i seriously want to cut my feet off i hate it so much... like i said... i am 14 but i truly look like i am 25... the other night i was havong dinner with my dad and i got his beer... i am sick of older guys hitting on me... and i am sick and tired of being around a guy i like (including my bf) and feeling like this huge mass... i really do WANT to look my age... is there ne way i can get over this?? and if not... there arnt ne special short pills are there??
...cle
i'm 15 and the same height! being tall is awesome
ppl wont mess with you
and you can call everyone a midget
being tall is beautiful
ppl will believe that youre older so that way you can get privelges that older people have (but i wouldnt reccomend it lol)
come to chicago we'll hang out and kick the short poeple lol jk youre tall you cant really change it with pills you should love bein tall!!
-connie
Hi. I have a 3 day weekend and I was wondering what are some fun things I can do with my two friends this weekend. My parents work on Monday so we can't do anything at my house. Any ideas?
Fun!
Well..theres always walking around outside if the weather is good,
and the mall even if ya dont have money you can look at stuff! you cannn put on makeup and cool clothes and take pictures to remember for a LoNg timee! be silly maybe bike riding or rollerblading i dont know how old you are or your interests but i loove volleyball and sports and working out you can do that too! you can make even the boringest thing fun when youre with friends!!
So I'll try to keep this short--
I'm a freshman this year. In November, me, this guy Seth, a junior, and a few other people went bowling. After, it was dark and we were walking around. It was like the group in front of us, and then Seth and me. In the middle of December, we were both at a party. It wasn't hardcore, but it was like a get-together. At like 10:15 he was like, "At least there are still SOME hot girls here." He said this to me. In the past couple days, more and more people have been saying, "Hey, I think Seth likes you. He said you were really hot." or "Seth said there was only one hot girl in (a club we're in), and that's you." Today, I gave a presentation to our school, he was sitting on the floor (I was on stage) under me and was staring at me the whole time. He has been staring at me a lot lately, and I think he likes me.
I wonder if he likes me, or just thinks I'm hot. What do you think? Also, what do you think about a freshman dating a junior? I've never had any romantic relationship. Do you have any advice to help me get him? I like him, too (well, duh)...
Any other dating advice (not those tip websites) would be appreciated.
Oh, and I don't see him very often, but we do go to the same school.
Well I see it as, he's only been saying that you're hott. Is that what youre looking for in a guy? A guy who likes girls only becuase of their looks??
Its up to you. I dont think the age difference is gross. Just start talking to him more i guess.
hope i help.
I am 17 years old and have never had a bf. People in my senior class make fun of me behind my back because of this. I even heard one rumour that I was a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian, I do like guys but I'm really shy and most of the guys in my class are really immature and just want sex, not a meaningful relationship. I've also made the decision not to have sex, or make love until I get married. Some of the girls in my class have slept with over 14 guys, and act like it's no big deal. Sometimes I get so depressed I feel like crying. The fact that tomorrows Valentines day is just going to make me feel worse. Do things ever get any easier for girls like me? Or does it just get worse when I go to college and into the work force? I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only person left with values.
i know its weird but this is a good thing. Its sooo great that you have respect for your body, unlike all these other girls that think they have to spread their legs to get some attention. And the lesbain thing, yeah i know girls are weird and i dont know why they make up stuff, but the best advice i can give you is DONT GIVE A SHIT!! F*CK ALL THOSE GIRLS!! THEY SUCK!! tomorrow valentines day, yeah im single, but its not gonna be that bad cuz im not gonna let it get to be, *besides its my half birthday*! YAY! BUt be careful when you get to college, those guys are crazy, and if they find out youre a virgin theyre gonna go after you like crazy! Guys like virgins, so you'll find one, just make sure hes not trying to use you. You'll find the right guy in your life, and youl be really happy that you waited so long and didnt ruin it with some guy who treated you and your body like shit. I'm also keeping my values as well and im really proud of myself, even sometimes my friends pick on me because of my virginity hahaha poeple these days, gotta love making fun of them. Any who i hope my random rambling helped you..in some way.
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hey! you know i can understand you and what you say you have been through.im 13 and i have no insecurity i like a guy in my school he knows me and i know he feels something for me but he is sooooooooooooooo shy! why are guys like that?why cant they just come up to me and say hi or something and anyway i look like a blend of carmen electra and beyonce for my age i think the guys in my grade cant handle it.im not sure whats there prob and im a little shy to ask the guy i like out to this dance do u no wat should i do or wat kind of clues should i give him?
life's complicated sometimes. You just gotta grab it by its little bunny ears and just...umm..ahem sorry, well, its really great that you have no insecuritites i wish i didnt haha but make sure that you dont feel TOO comfortable with your body sometimes aaand when guys are shy i think that that shows that they like you =) and i can never really understand guys. theyre weird but you gotta love em. well judging by the way you say you look (which is pretty damn nice if i may say(no im not a lesbo hahaha)) then you should have no problem asking a guy to a dance! It'l be worth it trust me just ask him to the dance you know like a friend dont make it seem all akward just you know bring it up. not like...ugh iduno!! I hope you know what im saying!! ANYwho i just think that if you like him and youre serious, but are too shy to just go up to him and tell him, have one of your friends ask him .. that usually works. Unless sometimes when the plan backfires and he says something crazy like "HEY you know what crazy thing your friend told me the other day?!?..." yeah thats not good. as for clues you can lead him on like "i wanna go to this dance but i have no date" etc..things like that. Also being 13 its hard to find a guy thats right becuase you guys are still young and some havent even hit puberty yet hahaha and theyre still shy and immature. buttt i wish the best of luck to you and hope you go to the dance and have a good time!!