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Suicidel Thoughts
I've been having suicidel thoughts leatly, I think it's because I came to a conclusion that I'm a worthless nobody, I'm not good at anything and that I really have no reason to live ,no goal in life or will living.
Please give me some advice how to get this thoughts out of my head...
18 year old male
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Get your self some Niacin you can get it at any GNC or vitamin shop.
It is why suicidal patients get better. Look it up.
Its your only option Most people will be totally cured from depression im a matter of weeks.
I have tried every thing there is and this is the only thing that works.
Dont stop taking it. With out Niacin it is impossible to get better.
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Hun, no one on this earth is worthless. You were specially made by God! He loves you even if you think no one does.
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Lets put it this way... I've been there and im only 15. I know that suicide is PERMANENT. irreverseable. I was stressed out at the time when i had thoughts like this. my boyfriend was in the process of moving, my parents were pressuring me to do my best in school (i had just started high school), they wanted me to get a job, i failed at everything... I had no dreams for the future. pretty much i was in the same situation you are in. and you know how i releaved the pressure? I decided to start cutting. when i did, it was like getting high. The thoughts of what was going on would dissappear from my mind. but they would come back a few hours later when the bleeding and pain stopped. I would tell myself that i deserved every second of it. And i didnt. i attempted suicide a couple of times. But, one day it just clicked.. I didnt want my life to be that way. So, i confided in close friends and this site. People left me webpages to go to...(sorry, i dont remember them at the moment. I'll have to go look them up for you.)My friend gave me this idea. She gave me a picture of her and told me to carry it in my back pants pocket and whenever i felt like cutting, suicide etc. to take it out and look at it. On the back, she had written me a note that says "Whatever you do, you know I love you and am here for you. I would die witthout you." Everytime i felt horrible and depressed, i would read that and know that someone loves me and that i was worth at least a little to her. She has stuck by me thru everything. She helped me keep my hopes up. I showed her the marks on my wrists from cutting. I could confide in her. I could call her at 2:00 on the morning and talk about whatever was on my mind. It sounds like you need someone like this. For guys, this is harder to find someone like this. I suggest you find a female to talk to because they are more sympathetic. Whatever you do, remember that suicide is permanent. you can always talk to me about it. Been there done that. If anything remember, graduation is comming up... then you wont have to worry about sschool... unless you are going to college and then it will be fun. My bro is there now. He loves it. you have many things to look forward to. Start making yourself a portfolio. Put everything that you did good on in this folder. that will help. YOu will begin to see that you are good at stuff. You are not worthless. you do have a reason to live. Your reason is to love. Friends, family, teachers, counselors, gf maybe and people you will meet. Another reason is the future. like i said, graduation is coming up. look forward to that. Your friends dont want to come into school one day and hear from the principal that you commited suicide. They would think it was all their fault. I don't want to hear that either. I would beat myself up for it. and i barely know you. think of how your friends would feel. To get rid of thoughts, you should get out and do things with friends. call them, talk to them, IM them, go to the movies, go to dinner, bowling, theme parks. there is so much that you can do. (i'm sure of it) find a job if you dont have one. That way you are earning money and feel like you are worth something. if you wanna talk, im here for you. Like i said, been there. I can help you more if you need it. Sorry this is so long...
Good Luck,
Smichele427
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i think once in awhile everyone has a period of time where they feel worthless, even me! you feel like all problems are casued by you and the world would be better without you...but heres the fact! thats not tre whenever i feel like that i say to myself is it really worth killing myself? think of all you wil leave behind and what you can't get back! try talking to someone and no it dosn't have to bea counselor a friend even your parents!
good luck
-lee
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A lot of people have thought about suicide because they don't know where else to turn, but I am here to tell you it's not a solution to what you are feeling. It's normal to think about it, but it's not normal to act on it.
There's other things that you can do to feel better. And since you posted on this board, you are asking for help and that is a very positive sign. Please call one of the numbers on the site that I gave you. These people are very well trained to help you and will know exactly what to say.
We are all here for a reason, you just haven't found that reason yet, but you will someday...if you just stick around. You deserve to feel better and you are important!
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well, first off, im sorry you're thinking those things.
as for you being a "worthless nobody" i dont think thats true. everybody is put on the earth for a reason albeit they know it or not.
heres an example.
lets say your walking into a store, and a woman thats had a very bad day is carrying a lot of bags, and you hold open the door for her. that might spark, for even an instant, a sign of happiness in her, and make her day feel better. then maybe on her way home shes driving and sees someone stranded on the road with a kid in teh car, and for some reason decides to stop over and help them. the mother and the child being thankful get help and go home. on their way home being towed in the AAA truck, they might see someone holding out a cup, for extra change, and drop a couple dollars in.
im sorry if this is boring, but basically my point is that God put everybody on the earth for a reason. he's not expecting you to go out and invent some new fuel that cars can use instead of gas, or find a cure for cancer. you can do the tiniest thing and it might make somebodys day better.
as for that you're not good at anything, i can understand, because i've felt like that before. i focused on something that i really loved to do, no matter how silly it might seem, and realized thats what im good at! so sit yourself down, and think about something you love, whether it be your pet, a hobby, or your charasmatic conversations with someone. chances are you're good at something but your mood is keeping you down.
try to hang in there and stay positive! i hate the thought of anyone feeling worthless, and if you ever need anything at all, or just want someone to talk to about something, feel free to ask me.
:) have a nice day
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My friend used to have the same thoughts. She had these thoughts because at the time (we didnt know) she had depression. She was getting ready to hang herself until we finally realized that she needed help. I think thats what you should do, get help and dont kill yourself at all!!
much ♥
LiLA
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I could tell you the same corny stuff everyone is about to pour from their keyboard into this box where they give you an answer, or I could tell you it a different way.
You're most certainly overlooking this whole situation. Just take a look around you, look really hard and you'll notice everything you just said is false. You're always harder on yourself than others are on you. Ask your friends if you are 'not good at anything'
You're also an 18 year old male, of course you have no idea what you want to do in life! Stop worrying about it, just because you have no 'goal' doesn't mean you should kill yourself. Ask any guy you know what they want to do, ask some older people, or ask your father what he knew he wanted to do at your age. Chances are he'll say "I had no idea"
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DONT KILL YOURSELF! I have been through the same things and had the same thoughts but then I realized alot of people do love me and care for me. I realized I am a somebody I am me and im fine with that. Just realize people do care about you are somebody.
XoXoLexiXoXo
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nobodys worthless. theres a reason for everybodys life and you should try to find yours. ive been down that suicidal road and its not a good one. be optimistic. Instant messageme on AIM if u ever need neone to talk to ..but i'm sometimes away haha. But anyways just stop thinking that stuff and spend timewith friends and whatnot. if it gets really bad, go see a psyciatrist. ive been through all this shit before and its horrible, just change the way you think.
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