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fighting with boyfriend
i know my bf loves me, but he's always getting mad at me, things always escalate into fights all the time!and they arise out of nothing! it;s like he gets mad, then realizes there's nothing to be mad at, then he LOOKS for something to get mad at that happens during the stupid fight, then as soon as i say something that he doesn;t like, he turns THAT into the thing he's going to get mad at me for. It drives me nuts. How can I get through to him? How can I avoid these stupid arguments? What can I do so he'll see that all this fighting has no purpose? that he is in control, as much as me, and he has a choice of how he wants to act, so he doesn't have to choose to be mad, why can't he be nice?
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ok well me and my boyfriend do the same thing! hes always picking stupid things to fight with me and when he realizes that its really nothing to fight over than finds something else!! its really dumb well what i do when he starts it just tell him that fighting really dont help anything and if he dont stop just start telling him you love him than start telling him things like " i love your eyes there so cute!!" or like "your body is really fit and its sexy" just out of nowere haha its kinda funny to listin to his remarks after hes trying to fight with you and you are complamenting him haha but it really works haha really!! rate me! and tell me if it works!!please!! (:
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hmm... i think we are in the same relationship. My ex-boyfriend and I were the exact same way and I actually broke up with him because of it.... I am NOT suggesting this. I actually regret doing it because I think we could have worked things out in the end by just taking things slower. I don't know how often you talk, but if it is everyday like I was, you should think about maybe cutting down the conversation time. That way you have more to talk about the next time you talk and you're less likely to fight about stupid things. I hope everything works out for you! Fighting is no fun.
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dont fight back or argue. tell him one thing like "this fighting doesnt help anything", so that he cant look for little things to get mad about during the fight!
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