My back hurts really bad. I mean when I sit at my desk it hurts right in the spine of it! What can i do to make it stop hurting?? Thanks!
Hmm, I have that too. There are a few possible causes of this...
*On your period? About to be? It can cause back pains. An Advil/Tylonal or Midol can fix that.
*Strain on your back can cause soreness. If you have been using your back muscles a lot lately (most likely your backpack since school started recently)then it is probably sore just like muscles.
*I have a minor case of scholiosis. It is a disease that involves "curvature of the spine". It is probably not that, but sometimes my back gets sore easier than my friends for that reason.
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This guy and I were going out and he gave me 3 chances but I messed up and now he left me with no sympathy! If I try and talk with him about it, he doesn't listen. How do I get over him?
I know it sounds easy and hard. Try to forget about him. I know you have friends who are girls, indulge in their friendship. Tell them you are having trouble getting over him and they might take you out to dinner and a movie, or have a sleepover or have a spa day! That is what do when I am tryin to get over a guy.
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Hey everyone, I got a myspace but like i have no friends, my friends have them but only like 6 of them do!! I see people with like 1000 friends HOW DO U GET THAT MANY PEOPLE I have no one!
just request poeple you know. most likely they wont care who is requesting just so they have all those friends :)
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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me...
dont do that. just tell them the truth and say that it isnt like you gyus are gonna have sex or something (DUH!) so they shouldnt worry. If they say no, see if you can go over till 1130 or something then come home. :)
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My 9th grade math teacher is so sweet! I am in 10th grade now, and my teacher for Geometry is not a good teacher, so I go to my 9th grade teacher for help! and last year she helped so much, and this year she is helping a lot too! I want to get a picture frame, and on the outside put a wooden ruler and a wooden protractor and a crayon and a pencil. She is from Texas, and proud, so I want to add something from that, but I dont know what. For the picture inside of the frame, she nominated me for student of the month in 9th grade and I won, so I will use the picture of us from that. I am also going to give her some candy and her all-time-favorite soda, Diet-Coke! Anything else?
5's and feedback! :)
-Kelsey
haha, im from texas. on the frame put some thing with blue bonnents, big tex, or a texas shaped dealie bopper.
:)
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well... my life is great and i know that but like sometimes i just cant help feeling really sad...like i want to cry all the time and i over-analyze everything around me making everything scarry and bad...and like i started cutting a while ago and recently its gotten worse...like its gotten deep to the point where ill pass out and wake up w/tons of blood all over..and like sometimes ill just take some pills to knock myself out and get away from it all..and like i cant sleep.. i havent in about a week...and i wont eat...i refuse to...i have food and it will make me even more fat than i am right now... but like sometimes ill just sit in my room and ill be real calm and just crying for hours...then suddenly ill like flip and like i will start screaming and throwing things and like i will hate every 1 and everything around me...ill just like loose coltrol and start fighting with myself and slicing open my arm while doing so and like its just gotten so far and so bad that everyone thinks im crazy...even though i make sure not to loose it in front of other ppl...but like my arms are covered in scars...like after one of my episodes the other day i finaly calmed down but couting them and i couted 367 on my arms and 68 on my ankles...like where i live its cool all the time so i can wear hoodies and stuff but its still like omg...i wanna stop so bad but its turned into an obsession and like ill jsut find myself doing it...im scarred that one of these days im gonna go too far and die...even though many many times i have thought about suiside...well there really isnt much n e one can do for me but if you do have any non-cocky non-smart ass answers its much appriciated!
p s ill rate high for really good answers!! thx
♥ rrenef ♥
Sorry this answer might be smart-ass
Ok, take a breath. You have already done the "first step" realizing that you have a problem. Now you need to see that people arent perfect. You wont get fat by eating a little morsel of food muchless a whole meal. And being fat isnt bad.
I know it is hard to stop cutting, but if you want to enough you can. Throw out your razors! No one will know if you have hairy legs if it is cool enough. Get into a hobby so you dont have so much time to self-analyze.
Dont think so negatively about yourself. Everyday look in the mirror and tell yourself two good things about yourself. I have to do it. It will help. If this continues though, professional help might be best.
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This sounds like a really childish question to ask but..thongs.
My mom thinks they give the wrong message across when a 14 year old wears them.
But I still want to wear them because I hate it when you can see the panty lines. They're just so ugly!
They make me feel weird knowing that you can see them! I hate it. There's probably nothing wrong with it, but I still don't like it.
I don't know what to do though. I wear boy shorts alot, they don't show as many lines but I don't really like them. I wanna feel comfortable.
My friend told me to just confront my mom and tell her that I don't like the lines I get with regular panties but I can't do that, LOL. I don't know why.
Any suggestions?
Its ok. Your mom will understand if you tell her that it isnt for sex appeal and it isnt like you are showing off your thong to anybody, so it shouldnt matter.
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heyy okay well i have these 3 BEST friends and they're really cool and everything but .. they're always going out and doing things without me .. i'm always secluded from whatever they do but whenever i'm with them they're really nice ! and plus they are all really pretty and always have great guys in their life and i really don't have many .. what am i supposed to do ?? i'll rate you HiGH if you help me out here !
Oh man. It is like you are telling me the story of my freshman year. (Actually am a freshman so I guess it is the story if this year?) What I try to do is let them go. When you do, they wont like it and come back to you. Put yourself in a power position, dont let them make you want them. That is what they want. Make other friends, try to flirt with guys, be your own person. Seperate yourself from them.
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does prude mean that you never kissed anyone or that you dont like too?
prude means your stuck up..www.dictionary.com
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ok i am 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now. i want to trust him but its hard b/c there are so many girls after him and he has a myspace right.....1 of his comments even says from this girl i know that she had FUN with him LAST NIGHT! whats that supposed to mean. he says he loves me and stuff but i dont know what to believe. i rate 5s!!!!! help...
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Dont worry, two years is a really, really long time. If he didnt want to go out with you, he would have dumped you by now. He might have just gone to the movies with some friends or bowling or something. Dont worry. And when you have been dating a guy for 2 years and he says he loves you, he probably means it.
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OK im 13/f i got my period for the 1st time on sunday and i do not have a mother or any brothers or sisters to talk to ..... just my dad.... i dont wanna tlk to him about this .. i have some supplies that i got from the talk but they are runnimg out very quickly... how can i bring this subject up with my dad without making him freak out...... thanks a million ill rate u a 5 no matter what!!!!
tell him you need feminine products. he wont ask any more questions. lol. Guys get pretty scared about that kind of thing.
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(16/f) One of my good guy friends and I are starting to like hang out more and he's told like the whole world he likes me.. but that's not the point. One day at tennis practice I was telling one of my really good friends that he liked me and since then she's been like all over him and it's really annoying! This isn't even the first time that she's done this! Ok and by "all over him" she's really just flirting with him. But she didn't used to. A year ago she had a SMALL crush on him but since then she's had like a zillion crushes *let's be honest she's a little boy crazy*. What should I dooo?!
I'm really liking this guy but I don't want her to be mad at me or something
thnks!
Tell her you like him. Ask her to please understand that you really like this guy. "Look (person), I know that you like a lot of guys, but I only like one and he is so special to me. I would really appriciate it if you could please stop flirting with him. I am afraid that he will start liking you and not want to ask me out." If she is a real friend she will understand and move aside.
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sry if this is long but ok so like the thing is my parents got divoreced 3 years ago and now i have a step bro and step sis. All of a sudden i think i am to fat even though i no i am way skinny and i want to become belimic. Also i just dont see a point in living i mean u always go to school and work what is the point in it? please help me what should i do?
Aww hunny you are having a mid-life crisis waaayyyy too early. What you need to do is see that you are beautiful, and that you know you are skinny. Pick someone you admire. Go ahead, I'll wait..........................Do you like them just because they are skinny? I thought not.
You may not see the point of living, but that is because you havent taken a look at the bigger picture. If you look at history it should tell you a lot. Do you think the world would be the same if Christopher Columbus, George Washington, or Hitler had never lived? No, it would be so different. The reason to live is to help the world be a better place. Change the world. If you cant see the point of living then you are not going to want to live.
You are a special unique person. Dont be bulemic, dont commit suicide, but try to take the world on. Do something good to get you into a history book somewhere.
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kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok???
It is ok if you still like the guy. Dont use him for revenge. The best thing you can do to get back at your ex-friend is to act like it didnt bother you, but dont be her friend.If she wants to go do something, say you are tired. If she is talking about the guy, don't talk about HIM talk about other guys!
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i never had a date or gone out with any body. i am not ugly and i no that. a guy i like is tring to hit it off with my best friend. he knows both of us like him. Can you believe he asked if iam alright if he make out with her. i feel like crap csn some one help me???????????
Ugh I can't beleive you havent seen this...HE ISNT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU. If you are feeling bad because you havent gone out with anyone then you are probably liking this guy because he is a guy and he is right in front of you. It is ok if you havent gone out with anyone. You dont have to have a whole string of bf's, just one right guy!
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hey im 16/m and there is this girl i really really like... we have already had some really kick ass times as friends but i want her to be more than that... she likes me too but at the moment im grounded and i don't think i would make a very good bf... cept at like school... im and excellent lover if i do say so myself, but the opportunities would be the only thing that i wouldn't have... any advice helps... i'll rate or w/e if u want... thanx peeps!
Aww thats sweet! But I cant tel lyou right now that if she likes you and you like her she probably has an idea of whether or not you like her. So try to look at this from her point of view: You like a person. You know they like you back. But they arent asking you out. See? She is probably typing a question right now going "WHY ISNT THIS GUY ASKIN ME OUT???" Tell her what you are saying. "I really like you, and I hope that you will be my girlfriend. But see, right now Im groudned so I dont know if I can take you on any dates for a while. When I am done being groudned I promise to make up for lost time"
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13/m Hey all, I've got the longest story in the world to tell, but nobody wants to hear that. Basically, over the summer I realized that I loved one of my best friends, I told her, she's not sureherself how she thinks of me. And I'm not talking about any of that crap teenage infatuation. I know infatuation. I know love. This is love. Well, last night, I dreamt about her =D The last time I dreamt about her, I dreamt that I asked her out. I asked her out the next day but to no avail. Of course, I've been thinking about her and only her for months, ever since I discovered my true feelings. It's been making me fail my classes---like for example we just got our progress reports, and normally, I'm really really smart, I'm in all the advanced courses, but I got an F in science...
Last night I dreamt about her. It was in the middle of French class, which is weird because she takes Spanish, and her ex was there, as were my parents... anyway, at random when Madame (insert her name here) was in the bathroom, she told me how she felt: "Hey, (my name), I've been thinking, and I realized that I actually do like you as more than a friend." And she smiled, and we hugged, and I danced around the room. I made an idiot of myself, but I was too happy to care! She finally loved me back!
Well, the dream ended as we were about to kiss, because I don't think you're supposed to know what that feels like until you actually experience it. Now, why am I so obsessed with this dream? I'm not very religious, and I'm not superstitious in the least. I don't even believe in luck, with drawing cards from a deck or flipping a coin---there are variable factors that affect the outcome. So why should I be asking a question to 10,000 columnists about some stupid dream? The one supernatural belief that I have is in telekinetics, telepathy, and psychics. Especially between twins (it's a proven fact) or in dreams. Dreams frequently predict the future in my experiences, and my sister's, and my friends', and everyone's. So why should this be any different?
It feels like I'm writing a persuasive essay right now... Another reason why is because last time something like this happened, it was when I e-mailed her how I felt (I'm way too shy) not knowing that she was on vacation with no internet connection. Well, about five minutes after I went outside to play basketball, I started thinking about her a LOT. When I came in, I checked my e-mail, and one of them was from that exact time as when I was thinking about her so much!
But I guess the biggest reason of all... is because I love her so much and I just really want her to love me back, and my mind will do anything to make me believe that there's hope when there actually isn't. For all you DnD fans out there, if you have the Unearthed Arcana book, flip to the part about the sanity points. Well, it feels like I just lost all my sanity points. In a nutshell, it sucks to be me. What should I do???
P.S. I already started keeping a diary of stuff, as of 3 days ago... not really helping...
Im sorry, but that dream means nothing. It means that phycologically your mind can't stop thinking about her even when you sleep. Since you have already asked her out and she said no, it probably means she doesnt love you back. Since I AM a girl I know that if the guy I love asks me out I'm sayin yes. Find someone who can love you for you.
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my best friend has a friend she likes him so do i. she knows this. so i IM him all the time.he knows to. today he asked me if i would be mad at Steph my best friend if she madeout with him i am upset i told him no wat does this mean?????????????
help me
Awww Im sorry that happened. The first thing you need to do is calm down. Do something relaxing (I take a bath and go underwater and listen to the quiet). You don't want to do something just because you are mad that you are going to regret later.
Then you need to ask him what he meant by that. Don't ask him over IM so you can look at his body language when he answers. Decide if he made out with her or not.
If he did then dont be mad at just one of them. Neither your friend nor this guy treated you with much respect when they did that.
If they didn't, then consider this guy a weirdo and move on because no one normal would ask that randomly.
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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(
Im sorry to tell you, but he is giving you the wrong e-mail because he doesnt want to hear from you. Find a guy that can repsect you and love you. He has moved on, you should too.
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Hey, I get bored at school super easy and my boyfirned isn't in anyone of my classes! Anything I could do to help the go by after my work is done? Thanks.
*Write cute and colorful decorated notes to your friends.
*Bring a snack if it is allowed.
*Ask the teacher for extra credit.
*Write a cute and colorful decorated note to your boyfriend.
*Count ceiling tiles.
*Write a movie script.
*Pretend that you aren't there.
Haha
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