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sry if this is long but ok so like the thing is my parents got divoreced 3 years ago and now i have a step bro and step sis. All of a sudden i think i am to fat even though i no i am way skinny and i want to become belimic. Also i just dont see a point in living i mean u always go to school and work what is the point in it? please help me what should i do?
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you think your fat: so does like every person on the plantent don't worry about it you know your skinny and that's all that matters. but if you are seriously thinking about being bellimic don't i mean its kinda gross and actually would make you gian wieght. instead try exerscieing or go on a <b>healty</b> diet like cut down on snacks you would lose wieght or not gain any.
and step brother and step sister: it sucks but now you have a bigger family and more peopole too look out for you and look out for them. you may not realize it now but they will always look out for you even if they're like five now they'll grow up eventually. and look on the positives of haveing them like if their nice or funny or fun to be with instead of negatives it helps get past on the little annoying things they do.
and about life: make everyday have a purpose. see a good movie or something. make you life a living motion picture movie lol. it sounds wierd but you should try to make youe life interesting go out find someone to love, or just do the dumbest things with your friends. your young people exoect you to do dumb things. but don;t take it personally when they say how annoying teenagers are trust me or if you get in trouble trust me because the truth is they want to be like that agian. you wil l never grow out of adolesence if you don't enjoy it. rest up on the weekends when you can and the ntry to make every little thing as fun as possible.
and about divorce: hey now you have a bigger family and more presents for b-days lol. you will stay in touch wit hboth parents.
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The point of living is to mature and learn how to make your own choices and be in life on your own. School is a very huge part that will lead you to your new life with your new family and house. Sometimes, a lot of kids do think that school is pointless, but if you look way deeper, school is your key into college, and college is your key to a very big successful job that you enjoy, and that leads to how much money you make to support your family and children. If you know that you're a skinny girl, why ruin that by going belimic? I don't know if you say that your parents are divorced and you have two step siblings is a bad thing, but even if it were really bad, that doesn't mean that there isn't a way out of misery. Thats half of why you eventually move out and get your own life started, so that you can be in control, and so that you can make that misery go away and make it your past. Learn from this and set standards for your own life later on. If you see a child getting abused, you say to yourself, "Oh my god, I'm never doing that, no matter how upset I get with my child" or you say, "now thats a way of discipline." Thats learning from a situation and thinking about how you'd do things if it were you. Decisions like anorexia, drugs, belimia effect your life and those decisions, and it will make things harder on you. So think about what this decision can do to you when you think of wanting to do it.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ok, I understand how you feeli about the same old thing everyday..sometimes I feel that way, but you should try making a plan with your friends to do something every weekend that way you have soemthing to look forward too... Really you shouldn't become belimic...it's so0o0o unhealthy and feeling depressed isn't a good reason to do that! If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here..just im me at angleyezxo21xo! good luck! ♥
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If you know you are skinny you shouldn't feel like your fat an if this is the case you should probably talk to a doctor your parents or a councilor even if your nervous about it. As for the point of living set some goals like to get and A in history or set asides some time to go have fun and mabey you'll start to see the point, everyone's perspecitve on that is different. I know divorces are hard but rember your parent's didn't break up because of you and they still love you and are there for you even if your not currently living with them.
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No, you do not want to be a belimic. Making yourself throw up HURTS, and you do not want that pain. Even if you'll lose a few pounds, the weight loss does not offset the hurt. Many people have damaged the lining of their throats, stomach, and mouth by doing it. AKA, you'd probably have permanent problems, possibly lose a tooth. There are much healthier ways to diet than that. You should aim to around 5 pounds lost a month, for those diets are easier to keep. You can find one to use in the bookstore. Remember to exercise, that is what burns the calories.
As to not wanting to live, remember that there is more to life than just school and work. Work usually lasts from 8-4. You still have the rest of the day to rest and do whatever you want. Plus weekends. And, you strive towards retirement, which can come really early if you work hard enough. You also will have a family soon enough, and they will be another part of the good in your life. And work is not like school at all. You do something you enjoy all day long. And you get paid for it. Like I enjoy giving advice, so I may become a psychologist, and I enjoy playing trombone, so I may become of band teacher. You pick what you want to do, and you can have fun with it.
Trust me, life can be fun if you make it to be. It just needs to be lived to the fullest.
-Steven
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Aww hunny you are having a mid-life crisis waaayyyy too early. What you need to do is see that you are beautiful, and that you know you are skinny. Pick someone you admire. Go ahead, I'll wait..........................Do you like them just because they are skinny? I thought not.
You may not see the point of living, but that is because you havent taken a look at the bigger picture. If you look at history it should tell you a lot. Do you think the world would be the same if Christopher Columbus, George Washington, or Hitler had never lived? No, it would be so different. The reason to live is to help the world be a better place. Change the world. If you cant see the point of living then you are not going to want to live.
You are a special unique person. Dont be bulemic, dont commit suicide, but try to take the world on. Do something good to get you into a history book somewhere.
Hope it Helps!
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Melanie
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You need to get help right away. Dont go belimic thats very dangerous you can die from that..it bruises your stomach.
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You dont have to work. You know that right?
Sure, get born, go to school, study, do your homework, pass, go to college, pass, get a job, die.
It sure is dumb. But what's worse than that is idiot kids who want to kill themselves and drive the plaster school bus everyday.
Stop taking everything so seriously.
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Not being funny or anything but i personally think you need to talk to somebody before this gets out of hand.. sounds like it might already be.. anytime you need anything leave it in my inbox.. ♥ Dez
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