Me and my Bf just broke up on friday!!and i am 13 years old. and i really really really like him still and i want him back. now my friends say that he stil have feelings for me, but i am not sure if that is true?! how do i get him back?
Lov
~Sam
All you can do is talk to him, see how he's feeling. If he wants you back he'll tell you, then maybe you can work it out. But you can't get him back if he doesn't like you anymore, sorry to say. If that's the case, you just need to move on, there are a ton of guys out there, you're too young to be caught up with this one if he doesn't want you back. Good luck!
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?
what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx
It's only been a week.. I would wait a little longer, or until you have a little more confidence that it's the right decision. If you aren't 100% positive you want to, then wait. Hopefully he'll understand.
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ok i go to carroll middle school and i am 13 well anywas during the christmas break i forgot what the guy that i like looked like but wen i got back i notest that he got even hotter than he was before. if i forgot what he looks like during the christmas break but i think he is still hott and as cute as a baby do i really like him please help i am so comfused.
XxfluffyxX
You might like him, but in the most shallow way possible. You know it shouldn't be about the looks, so don't even focus on them. If that's the only thing you like about him then that's not good.
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My boyfriend live 1500 miles away. Weve been together what seems like forever, but its 8 months. We're so in love, even though its been a short time we really know each other and im close with his family. But everyone is like hes cheating on you. Hes a guy... I know hes a guy but im not stupid he did do stuff before me but not much and hes not like that. Hes so against cheating and would NEVER do that. But how do I get these people off my back? Even his losker room buddies say it. And I know they wouldnt know much bc he didnt really talk to them much. He never lied to me and I could easily find out. i know where he is at all times. Hes not cheating on me. How can I convince other people?
You don't need to convince them. It's a relationship between you, and your boyfriend, not you, your boyfriend, and everyone at your school. So just ignore them and move on, they don't matter in this situation.
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hey. i like this guy...but he likes my good friend. its kinda hard to see him flirt with her bcuz i like he so much. what should i do?
Tell him!!! Just say, upfront and blunt, that it bothers you that he has to flirt with your friend when you're around. I'd tell him how you feel too, that you like him, so he doesn't just think you're being immature and jealous. He'll understand after that and should hopefully stop.
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There's this guy that I like, and he know's it- cuz I wrote him a letter telling him. I kinda think he like's me too, but I'm not sure. He flirts with me and I catch him looking at me sometimes... how could I find out if he likes me or not without asking him- cuz it would kinda be weird and I couldn't just walk up to him and be like "do you like me" you know? I'm 15 and a freshman he's 17 and a Junior.
I really don't know how else you'd find out, honestly. You could just wait and see if he ever tells you, but I wouldn't just sit back and wait for that to happen. You just have to take action, suck it up, and ask. I know it sucks, but you're never gonna find out if you don't. I've never actually had to ask someone if they like me, cuz when I told them they said "yea I like you too," so I really don't know how to do it. Ask him by IM or something so it isn't so awkward, and that's really all I can tell you. Good luck!!
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i like my boyfriend alot but every time we talk he never seems to wanna talk and he always gets frustrated with me.. so i try not to call him anymore but i really wanan talk to him and then he says that he can never see me.. what should i do??
Why doesn't he wanna talk to you? Find out, just ask straight upfront. Is he just using you to have someone to make out with or something? You shouldn't be with someone who doesn't even want to talk to you, so either find out what's going on, or dump him for someone who will.
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i feel like im growing apart from some of my close friends..is there any way to prevent this??
Signed,
Missed Friend
You can't really prevent it, the same thing happened to me. People change.. it's inevitable, you have to expect it. And people grow apart. It's not always sad, just be happy you had a chance to be close with them. Or, it's just that you don't hang out enough anymore. Call them up, plan something, and maybe things will get going again. But if you guys have changed a lot, the latter thing might not work.
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i like one of my friends and wanna be more
and i dont know what to do can u please healp
oh yeha weve known each other for about 2 years
signed
i want him
Casually drop hints to him first, to see if he does anything. Like I sent this guy that song "hanging by a moment" by lifehouse, and the lyrics go "i'm falling even more in love with you.." so you could try that or something. But remember, guys don't take hints that well, somehow the one I did it for got it, but not all of them will. If the hints don't work, then you don't really have any other choice but to talk to him. If you've known each other for two years, it shouldn't be awkward. Or you can wait for him to say something.. But who wants to wait? Just talk to him, tell him how you feel, that you wanna be more than friends, and see how he reacts.
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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?
You should just be friends with him, if that. That's such a huge age gap, I honestly don't think it would work. First off, it's illegal, and secondly, he's so much older and has more experience than you. You both are at two very completely different parts of your lives right now. You're still a teenager, and he's an adult. You need to be with guys that are more your age, like 15 to 17. I really wouldn't try anything though, your parents would have heart attacks if they found out, you wouldn't want to lie to them, you wouldn't want this guy to end up in jail, and you're too far apart in age for it to work. Sorry!
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How do you do a messy bun? I've looked all over the web to try and figure this out. Maybe I'm just not seeing it, who knows. Can anyone help me?
For a TRUE messy bun, this is what you do. First you put your hair up in a ponytail, or the regular messy bun (which is when u go through like a normal ponytail but don't pull the hair out all the way, if u know what i mean), it doesn't matter which. Then, you get a second rubber band or whatever you use, scrunch your hair up, like press your hand against your hair and hold it to your head, and rubber band over that. It'll look messier and better than the normal messy bun, because there's more hairs sticking out and stuff. Sorry if that didn't make any sense.. it's hard to explain how I do it.
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i'm 13/f and i skateboard but like no other s in my school do... besides like this 6th grader, but thats it. and i wear "punk" cloths i guess, like skateboarding shoes and element shirts and hoodies and dickies skateboarding pants, but idk if thats like a turn off for guys that skateboard cuse thats kinda how they dress... i'm not like a tom-boy, god no, but i feel kind of weird around guys that are wearing the same stuff as me, if u know what i mean. help please!! thanks so much
I don't think it's a turnoff, it a guy that skateboards sees you in those clothes he probably thinks you're awesome for it. Not all guys like the preppy all pink clothes, so it's probably a nice change to see someone like you. I bet a ton of guys find it cool, so don't worry about it.
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theres this girl at my school who really likes me and this other guy. both us guys like her and where like best friends. if 1 of us ask her out she says she dosnt want to hurt the others feeling. so i want 2 know if i should wait or move on. i really like her.
ill rate good
thanks.
Move on. It sucks, but you'll have to. You can't be waiting around for a girl if she doesn't wanna hurt either of your feelings. Unless you want to risk your friendship, just let her go.
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how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?
You can't, people change. She might always wanna be with you, and she might quit liking you. There's no way to prevent it. All you can do is make sure you don't do anything to make her wanna leave, like cheat on her, or something dumb.
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Well, I have two best friends, and i feel like the third wheel. Although they say im not, I feel like it and my parents see it too. I dont know if I should split off from them, or hang on? And, theyre always sort of depressing, and i dont like that...but every1 else in my school has best friends...i feel like i have none
help?
Go get some new friends!! You don't need to feel like the third wheel, or put up with depressing people. Unless you wanna try to work it out, but I wouldn't personally. Who cares if everyone has a best friend but you? Find some new friends, and maybe they'll become best friends.
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isnt there a certain way to tell what bra size you are, i heard you take a measuring tape and find out the length all around your chest area but i dont know the rest about how to tell...cause every bra i try to wear never fits me right, please help!
You measure around the fullest part of your chest, and then measure the area right below your chest, like where they stop. Then u subtract those two numbers, and if they're one number apart it's an AA, two numbers apart it's an A cup, three numbers apart it's a B, and so on. And then the number that was around your chest is the number, so it'd be like 36A or something. Does that make sense? I think one number difference is an AA anyway, or it might be an A. I'm not sure where exactly it starts, but you have the idea. Sorry if I confused you!
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this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug?
Just talk to him!!! Ask him how he feels, or just tell him that you like him. If you don't, you could miss out on a lot. And I know you know that, I'm just telling you. If you want a hug, just hug him!! That's what I do, you can't wait for guys to do everything. They don't get hints very well, so just do it yourself. Trust me, he'll be happy you went for it. Oh and, of course it's a good thing that you make him laugh. If I met a guy that didn't make me laugh, I wouldn't be interested. That's probably why he likes you, a guy loves a girl with a sense of humor. Good luck with him!
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My boyfriend wants to go farther than i want to go and ya but i rele like him and hes soo cute and the only reason he wants to is because his brother makes fun of him and yay so should i have sex with him
Uh...no.
You aren't ready obviously, you just said "he wants to go further than i want to go."
If you aren't ready, you shouldn't be doing it. And if the only reason YOU would is because he's cute, that's just not enough to do it for. If he just wants to do it to show up his brother, that's wrong. It shouldn't be about that, it should be because you guys want to.
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okay I know this is random, but like I have really weird hair thats in between being curly or straight (but it doesnt look good lol) and I was wondering does anyone know anything that will make your hair straight or curly w/o too much use of a straightener or a curling iron? Thanks soo much! (Please dont delete!)
Why don't you just get it chemically straightened or get a perm? You don't have to mess with them that much, and you don't have to use a curling iron or straightener everyday. But other than that, I don't really know what to tell ya. I hear blowdrying your hair straight works.. don't ask me how though. Or you can use like mousse or something and scrunch it to make it a little curlier.
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if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.
I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do
Just because you look at... well nevermind what you're looking at, doesn't mean you're slipping away from the lord. It's not like you're a bad person, it's in a guy's nature to look at that stuff. But if you wouldn't want your parents knowing you do it, just as an example, then I wouldn't be doing it. Think of that for every situation you get involved in, would I want my parents knowing. God isn't going to hate you because you're curious, it's not a sin.
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