He'll be happy just to get there. As long as it's not "outta control" you'll be fine.


The stigma these days is to shave it bald, but I'm telling you, if there was any va-jay-jay in the room with me right now, I wouldn't be answering questions on a website no matter what the hairstyle.

You may be overreacting a little too much, it's natural because it is quite possible you have been hurt before in a similar relationship (or know someone who has)

Here's the deal... if he has something to hide, he would hide it, not leave it on his myspace page. That means he would want to get caught. So it is very possible he thought nothing of it. Don't take too much bad mojo if girls leave comments on his page, just be comfortable in knowing he's with you and not the other skanks.

That being said, don't be afraid to check his page (its public knowledge and other people obviously go there) and really talk about the people in both of your lives. If he's with you for the long haul, you should both know the people in each other's lives.

But remember, there are some things you should NEVER look at unless he lets you... those are: his bank account, his personal email, his cell phone, a journal (if he keeps one), and his mail. Looking at these without asking is a huge trust issue, but the myspace is just sitting for everyone to see, so go ahead and look, ask questions, and don't worry.

(PS you either trust someone or you don't, so if you cant shake that feeling after a while, you may want to consider dropping it altogether and save you both the hassle)

If you suspect she is, then she probably is. (Tough break, but it's the truth)

So here's the deal, you say you trust her, but you went through her stuff, that is a huge breech of trust. But she obviously is hiding something anyway, so unless it's texting a slew of strippers to suprise you for an upcoming birthday, it's probably something sinister.

If she is telling you to drop it, she obviously isnt comfortable with sharing her life with you, and you have your own reasons for suspicion.
Relationships are built on trust. Someone isnt being honest.

Here's my take... your 19, you got her you can get another one.

I would drop her, because chances are other people know what's up and the longer this goes on, the more of a chance you end up looking like the fool. And bro... you are a super spy detective with razor sharp insticts... you ain't no fool...

drop her like a bad habit, and find a dame worth your time.

Yes.. of course we do. Men are more sight oriented than anything, and very visceral. And of course, girls do too.
It is strange isn't it?

I once met an old man who said, "the day I stop looking at pretty ladies is the day you can pull the sheet over my eyes, 'cause I don't want to live."

It doesnt mean he's not faithful, it just means he's normal. You can use this to your advantage though, by finding out what he finds attractive in other females and using that on your own list of talents... (rowr)

There is no good answer for this.
Your friend is a teenage boy, and believe it or not, his girlfriends reputation probably has him kind of excited.
Sometimes we just pick the wrong people to date when we are young. But that's what youth is for, if she does hurt him, he will learn what to look out for in the future, his heart scars will make him a better boyfriend for someone else, and you will be the good friend to always lend him an ear.

Here's my opinion. You don't list an age, so I will assume you are of age to do the deed.

#1 you say sometimes you really don't want to wait. Then don't...

BUT...
he cheated on you with his ex, it doesn't matter if he was drunk, he still cheated. That means he gets no say so in what YOU want.

If you want to have sex, go for it, send us pictures (jk), but dont do it on account of him because he lost favor with you when he cheated, the truth is, you might be better off with someone else. There are tons of guys out there who would be faithful to a girl who is hot to trot.

You didn't leave too much information, but just by reading this I will make a guess.

#1 Just because he doesn't call you as much as he likes, doesn't mean he's not interested. Does he have other interests he was into before he got with you? A band, sports, an unhealty UFC addiction?

#2 How long have you guys been going out? Remember that if you just started, it is often difficult for single people to get into a new routine of adjusting to a partner, all of a sudden, their independence is being shared.

#3 I usually put people in two categories. Dog people and cat people. This doesn't mean you like one or the other, it means that some people behave like dogs (loyal, always want you around, love you no matter what) and some behave like cats (nice enough, but also like to do their own thing, often lost in their own world) It doesnt mean anything bad, you just have to learn what type he may be and adjust to it (remember you cant change people, so you have to decide if thats what you want)

Lastly if you want to tell him, just say something like, "Hey why dont you call me at 7 tonight? I'd like to hear how your day went and I'm usually stressed out by that time, it would be nice to talk with you"
In truth, you guys probably shouldnt call each other more than once a day. Communication is key to any relationship, but smothering can kill it

We love boobs. We are definitely getting something out of it. Since we were kids, We are taught that boobs are for girls, it's kind of like Pandora's box. And we always want what we are not supposed to have.

Let those girls fly

"cant seem to get it right today"- Joe Purdy

It's heartbreak and you have a right to feel the way you do, dont let anyone tell you different. But here is how to make it better...
#1
People have a habit of remembering only the good times, but whenever you start missing him in that way, think of all the shitty things in your relationship, (there were some, you were dating for more than a year so there had to be some things that bugged you) Whenever you feel like you miss him, remember that time he insulted your friend or picked a fight with you.

#2
You are free. Being single isnt the worst thing in the world. You can flirt, stay out late, not check in with him, you can try new things, clubs, classes... hang out with your friends and not worry about what "he" thinks.

#3
The best way to cope is to live well. Think about how shitty you would feel if you ran into him in a few weeks and saw him doing well with another girl on his arm. Now turn the tables and picture what he will think when you are looking good living life possibly with someone else on your arm

#4
Don't worry about the loneliness. That is just your brain trying to fill the void. Give it time. Don't worry... you got him, you can get another one.

"Girl Afraid" by the Smiths... fits your question PERFECT

Watch the way he talks to other girls.

If he flirts with you and no one else, talks to you, etc... it's a good chance he likes you.

If he flirts and talks to everyone, it might just be his personality.

If he is shy and aloof with everyone, he may still like you, but you may have to initiate conversation.

If he skips over you in a group of people conversing, keeps his answers polite but short, and excuses himself quickly from your presence, then you have a pretty good chance of him not being interested

make a list of everything you ever wanted to do.

100 things.
Do them. Don't even consider suicide until you do. After you do those things, you will have made your world a better place for yourself and others. It will help you find purpose and meaning.

And please see a profesional about this. No one on this site is really qualified to help

He wanted sex.

He's a guy, and even though we have the best intentions (he probably thinks you really are a cool chick) There is just something about a girl with no parents home a teenage boy always thinks about.

That doesnt mean he's a jerk. That means he's a normal teenage boy. When he gets older he will be able to be more sauve about it, but for now, he will just throw it out there and then backtrack his suggestion when you shoot him down.

This really depends on your age.

Kids can be awesome. But a baby takes work. Things are never going to be the same for her no matter what you choose. As of now (I am assuming the baby isn't yours) you have no responsibilities, so you have to make the choice.

If you are worried about her mood swings, ask yourself if that is the same with every girl, or just her.

The fact is, she is going to need someone to lean on real soon. Whether it's a lover or a friend. You can be the stand up guy and prove to her you are THE man for her if you want, but be warned, you will take the role of a father figure at some point. Ask yourself if you are ready for that.
Kids are great. They throw shit, make you laugh, and make life bearable... but they also make you lose sleep. Some people think that is worth it.

That's not all they want.
But remember, this was an experiment on myspace which is totally a superficial gig.

The reason they are obsessed is because something caught there eye right away. (This fake picture) But the more they talk to her, the more they like the personality, so she has more substance.

My advice? Not to look for dudes on myspace. IT's a meat market anyway. You already know you have the personality to make them dig you, so go look for them in real life. (Go to places that you like, record stores, book stores, clubs, etc and wow them with yourself.) Then you both now what you're getting into

He's playing you. He wants his cake and to eat it too.
If he was looking for a reason to break up with his girlfriend, he should just break up with her.
You don't want to be with a guy who will cheat on his girl to be with you, because the day may come when you are the girl getting cheated on.

Hell no, when I was a freshmen back in the day, a Junior chick asked me out, it catapulted me to stardom, and we had a good time.

It means he likes you.
He is toying with the idea of being with you.
He still flirts and talks to you, he has dropped you hints...
You have to decide what you want to do with that though.
If you offer to teach him to snowboard, make sure you ask him if his girlfriend doesn't mind.
Your goal is to keep being the cool cute girl he keeps talking to.

Here's the situation. Right now you are in the friend zone. The next time he mentions that he would ask you out, drop the hint that you would defintiely say yes if he were single.
That puts the power of desicion in his hands.

You will want him to break up with her BEFORE the two of you get romantic. Because if he shows the will to see you on the side, that means he is not capable of making a choice.

Your totally cool, your 15 so no worries.
Continue not being socially awkward, continue to hang out with groups of friends, don't live life in front of a TV or a computer and you will meet tons of people and eventually fall into this little relationship dance everyone is getting in.

Dont worry, your first date is like killing a man, the first one is awkward, but it gets easier

Full time Jerk. Part time writer, adventurer.

I get drunk and answer your questions with the cold truth.

It saves lives.

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