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bestfriend and his new girlfriend?
okay, so i've been the best of friends with this guy name Caleb for about three years now.
i've always had feelings for him, but that's besides the point. He's a virgin, never done anything and well, his girlfriend on the otherhand, is a differnt story.
She's done it all, with several guys and he doesn't seem to care. at first he was just like whatever about her; and now he's telling me he's inlove with her. He's adorable and i'm happy for him, but he could do a lot better. she's a major whore, and he just can't get that through his head. she's just going to hurt him and he won't undertstaand that. any suggestions of me trying to talk him into breaking up with her before she hurts him?
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There is no good answer for this.
Your friend is a teenage boy, and believe it or not, his girlfriends reputation probably has him kind of excited.
Sometimes we just pick the wrong people to date when we are young. But that's what youth is for, if she does hurt him, he will learn what to look out for in the future, his heart scars will make him a better boyfriend for someone else, and you will be the good friend to always lend him an ear.
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Well, I am sorry to tell you that a good friend will not break them up. Especially if he has that much feelings for her. She might be a little to free with her love for your liking, but your friend seems to like her and he also don't seem to mind.
I know that it is a hard thing to watch, especially when you see that someone that you care about might end up getting hurt. If you start calling her names and showing your disgust for her in front of him it may come across as jealousy. And it may also force him to have to choose, which might potentially make you loose your friend.
The best thing to do is to be there for him if she hurts him. Sorry to say, sometimes you have to let people make their own mistakes. Certain things are just out of your control.
I am sure that with you as a friend you guy pal will be fine!!! Good Luck!!!!!!
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