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i love my boyfrined so much but i feel that he doesn't call me much ,doesn't this mean he's not much interested in me ? jelp me please how can i tell him that this is making me crazy
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You didn't leave too much information, but just by reading this I will make a guess.
#1 Just because he doesn't call you as much as he likes, doesn't mean he's not interested. Does he have other interests he was into before he got with you? A band, sports, an unhealty UFC addiction?
#2 How long have you guys been going out? Remember that if you just started, it is often difficult for single people to get into a new routine of adjusting to a partner, all of a sudden, their independence is being shared.
#3 I usually put people in two categories. Dog people and cat people. This doesn't mean you like one or the other, it means that some people behave like dogs (loyal, always want you around, love you no matter what) and some behave like cats (nice enough, but also like to do their own thing, often lost in their own world) It doesnt mean anything bad, you just have to learn what type he may be and adjust to it (remember you cant change people, so you have to decide if thats what you want)
Lastly if you want to tell him, just say something like, "Hey why dont you call me at 7 tonight? I'd like to hear how your day went and I'm usually stressed out by that time, it would be nice to talk with you"
In truth, you guys probably shouldnt call each other more than once a day. Communication is key to any relationship, but smothering can kill it
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