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Think i may have fell for a pregnant girl!!
This girl and i have been hanging out for awhile and she is pregnant and we are just friends but now we are alittle more than friends but she has mood swings bad and makes me want to cut and run but i dont want to be like the other guys in her life i like her but im lost. i mean its not like she has a kid thats easy to deal with but she has one in her belly which makes everything complicated. im just not sure if its worth sticking around i want to but not sure if she's actually ready to have another guy in her life.
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Well, it's all up to you as to whether or not you want to have a relationship with her and a baby. You can't have one with just her.
Personally, I say to just wait it out as friends and see where things go later. Right now, her hormones are all going insane. The bad mood swings are due to that. Most every pregnant woman goes through that. I know I did, because I was an outright bear at times.
Also, because her hormones are the way they are, you don't want her to decide that she wants to be with you on a hormonal whim, just to have her turn around and decide the relationship won't work once her mind and body returns to it's normal state. (Well, as normal as it gets after she becomes a mother...)
Be there, be her friend, don't cut and run on the friendship when she has those mood swings. She can't help it, and right now she needs real friends in her life. Let her have the baby and get adjusted to the fact that her life will never be the same again before you try to become the man in her life.
But that's my opinion.
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This really depends on your age.
Kids can be awesome. But a baby takes work. Things are never going to be the same for her no matter what you choose. As of now (I am assuming the baby isn't yours) you have no responsibilities, so you have to make the choice.
If you are worried about her mood swings, ask yourself if that is the same with every girl, or just her.
The fact is, she is going to need someone to lean on real soon. Whether it's a lover or a friend. You can be the stand up guy and prove to her you are THE man for her if you want, but be warned, you will take the role of a father figure at some point. Ask yourself if you are ready for that.
Kids are great. They throw shit, make you laugh, and make life bearable... but they also make you lose sleep. Some people think that is worth it.
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