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Hi All, My name is Tara, 22 yrs breathing, and living in Houston, TX. BORN AND RAISED... I am currently a Junior at UH, and work at a school. I am an education major... so as you can see my life is devoted to service and I love watching my students grow in character and learning abilities.... I will try to answer advice honestly and to the best of my abilities....

I've been through alot of ups and downs, but they have yet to stop me... I was that go to friend when my friends had problems as well...

Feel free to contact me via AIM or YAHOO IM if you have anything you would like to ask me personally.




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My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month and we don't really live close to each other like a 40 min. drive to get to his house.. but I can't drive so.. I haven't seen him as much as I have wanted to but we talk on the phone alot.. (except for one night when i got totally blown off so he could go and play card with his friends.. which was deff not cool..) but now one of my guy friends is all like joking about stuff loving me and flirting with me and idk I feel bad cause he's a good friend but I know I like my boyfriend so much more.. yet the less I see of him and the more I see of my guy friend it gets really hard to handle sometimes and it's crossed my mind to dump my boyfriend but really think I might be starting to have stong feelings tords him... how do I get myself out of the situation with my guy friend without ruining our friendship?

I used to be in one of those long distance relationships and it only lasted 6 months for me, till he jux stopped accepcting my callz. I know that they are hard, and to me, it really isn't worth the pain. I think you should give your other friend a chance. But if you have stong feelings for him, I guess stay him. But it wouldn't be long before he completely ignores you. Well I hoped this kinda helped. Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!

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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

I think you should tell him! I think there's a great possibility that he likes you too! Tell him that you like him, don't be afraid! If you really think about it, what's the worse that can happen? Your not gonna lose your life over this.....if it was meant to be somthing will happen! God Bless and good luck! Beebyes!

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ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors

- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black

p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL

Anggie

pink or blue I think any one of those two colors would be nice.....

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Hey does any1 know where i can make a page... sum place doesnt charge... like xprofile or sumthing?

www.hometown.aol.com or www.geocities.com (I perfer Hometown, that's where myne is....)

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If your a freshman in High School.. what is the homework load for someone in ALL honors courses?

From what I heard IT IS ALOT! But they say it is worth it!

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Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do

Of cours you should stay her friend, Tell her staight up that you dun want no realtionship with her or thingz like that.... hope this helpz! Beebyes! God Bless!

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i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.

Doctor Time! I had somthing similar to that, but I wasn't having a fever....but you could be pulling on one of the 4 month period things. I suggest you go to the doctor big time! I think they may put you on birth control.... I hope you feel better soon. God Bless! Beebyes!

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If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?

TELL HIM! I mean if you think about it for real, what's the worst that can happen? Are you gonna lose your life? NO! So tell him, you don't what the outcome can be! Keep your faith and trust in the Lord! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!

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ok so i like this guy and he likes me but we arent going out. so he tells me he loves me and i say it back, and it becomes a regular thing. so then today, hes leaving and i say i love you and he doesnt say it back. i want to talk to him about it but i dont want to come right out and say why didnt you say i love you too like you always do...any ideas to hint to him?
thanks

I think you should jux be very honest with him... and he could possibly conisder yall dating... ask him if there's someone else or somthing like that. And of course you can talk to him, if you can talk to girls, you can talk to guys. If he rejects you (which I doubt) then he's missing out, and your not really losing anything, so you can find someone better... I hope this helpz and makes some kind of sense! And I also hope you make the right decision! God Bless & Good Luck! Beebyes!

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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx

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I mean it is ur life do what you want, but you are WAYYYYYYYYYYY TO YOUNG! I'm still a virgin and 16 yrs old! But it dosen't matter if younger pplz than you have done it...so what! You don't have to do it cause everyone else is doing it, do it when you feel ready, but also take into consideration that you are young so plz wait! It only takes 1 time to get pregnant with/out a condom...if you wait, life will be sooooo much easier in the future! I promise you that! Well I hope you make the right decision! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~

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okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again????

No! No! No! No! No! He dosen't love you! When you get to in a relationship, they bf should ALWAYS respect you! ALWAYS! I dun care what the situation was. They hit you now, they'll hit you later, I promise you that. He dosen't love you cause if he did he would have never laid his hand on you to begin with! I say no, no, no! Yeah you already did the right thing but you forgot something else, to kick him in the ballz cause he honestly deserves that. I would have hurt a person.... but no don't take him back, he'll hurt you again, and i am sure you can find someone better!..... I hope this helps! God Bless! And Good Luck! Beebyes! ~1ne~

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i have a friend that has a major crush on this boi but he doesnt pay much attention to her at this tyme cause he's goin through alot but my friend is tryin to get close to him but how with lots of pain goin tjrough his heart?

Let her know that he's goin through things right now, and right now may not be the time to ask him about relationships... but if they are friends, I think she should be there to console him and be there for him becuase of what he's going. But right now I wanna say for her not to tell him she likes him, but he may say yes.... so I dunno.... It think she jux needs to be a friend and be there for him right now.... Hope this help! God Bless! Tell her i said good luck and thankz for askin meeh! Beebyes! ~1ne~

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okay i need help there is thiiis super fine gurl and she flirts with me i mean bendin over huggin kissin and were good friends. im scared to make the move cause she might say no and end our friendship or she might say yes and that would be great wat do i do

Tell Her! What's the worse that can happen? If you really think about it, your not gonna lose your life over this! And what do you know till you ask? She could say yes! Well I hope you make the right decision! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~

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Hey!I'm Casey(girl)and im 14.My friend is also 14 and she is in 6 month relationship with her b.f.They have had sex 8 times and whenever they are together they always do stuff(sex,BJ,makeout,HJ etc.)I sometimes start to think he is using her but then again they r in a serious relationship. Is that the way to go in a relationship? Do you think their realtionship will go far if thats all they do?If u have ne advice please write..thanx!;)

I think it is going wayyyyyy to fast! Well she is too young to begin with! And also since I don't know how their current relationship stats are , I dunno how far they are gonna go...But still I can't get across the fact that she's only 14 and having sex... next thing you know she's gonna get pregnant... and the babies daddi may leave... too much too young. And they are also too young too be soooo serious. But it's her life and she (I guess) can live it the way she wants.... Good Luck! and I hope she makes the right decision! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~

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I am a flyer on a cheerleading squad for the school.They make me twist out of mounts and i always get so nervous.I was dropped from a mount once and was rushed to the hospital and i got a concussion.How do i get confidence and feel confertable doing it?

It's a psychologicial thing, when you are ready to fly or do the twist outz, then do it, but do it if you can trust your stunt group and most importantly yourself! Hope This Helpz! Good Luck! God Bless! Beeyes! ~1ne~

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Is there something wrong with thinking Ariel from the little mermaid is soooo hot?

Nope. It's your opinion! ;)

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So i've been going out with this girl for almost 8 months now, right? Anyways, I love her a lot, I really do, I just dont know if I am really what she wants anymore. She teases me about other guys and stuff constantly, and she really gives me the impression that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. Can someone help me on what I should do?

Just ask her how she really really feels about you.... don't be shy, just let her know how concerned you are about your relationship! Good Luck! Hope you make the right decision! God Bless! Beeyes ~1ne~

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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?

Don't say nothing! (Well you don't need to keep repeating yourself) Tell him straight up, "HEY I'm NOT DOING IT ON THE FIRST DATE, you keep askin me I'mma kick you in the neck (lol j/k)!" But yeah, don't do anything you don't want to do. And if he can't accept the fact that you don't wanna do it on the first date, then I dun think he respects you, and you need to rethink about the kind of person you are with. Well Good Luck and I hope you make the right decision! God Bless! ~1ne~

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i really like this one guy. but for some reason he is always mad at me. like the other day i apoligized for whatever i did (i dont even know what i did). and he apoligized too.. but then the next day he blocked me. and i didnt even talk to him at all that day. then that night he just calls me to talk. and doesnt really talk on the phone and just says yeah to w.e i say. is there something going on with him or what? what should i do? i think there might be something wrong with him bczu he sounded like depressed but idk. what do you think i should do?

Tell him straight up, "WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM!" But dun be mean, cause he may be depressed. Also if he dosen't know if you like him, I think you shhoud tell him! What's the worst that can happen? Your not gonna lose your life? And also it might help him feel better about himself if his self esteem is low. So tell him what's on your mind and don't hold anything back! Good Luck! God Bless! ~1ne~

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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?

Don't do it! You should consider sex abstinance.... your too young. But if your a virgin, I think you should wait till it's someone special because then if you give it up to anyone, then they'll have bragging rights and you'll really be considered a slut. So I say jux wait, it's the best thing you can do. I promise if you wait, life will be a whole lot easier. Sex brings babies! So I jux say get ur education first. Pplz tease me about being a 16 yr old virgin, I COULD CARELESS! Cause I know I am going somewhere with my life. And I'm not sayin I am waiting till marrige but I am sayin when I get a lil older! And also you should have to do anything you don't want to do! Good Luck! And I hope you make the right decision! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~

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