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what shoudl i get my boi for valentines day?
he likes hockey and music
doent like chocolate
i rate high

you could get him a card and maybe a bear with a hockey stick or something like that, i'm sure there are little stuffed animals with a hockey theme.

good luck!

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what are some web sites i can go to for puberty...i know puberty101.com but what are some others?

theres gurl.com

and myjellybean.com

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ok, my abs are pretyy flabby and so are my theighs, what should i eat and not eat and what can i do (exercise wise) to get rid of them...i rate high thx...

to tighten your abs you should do about 30 sit ups each night before you go to bed and everynight as 30 sit ups gets easier, gradually increase the amount. for your thighs, i recommend leg lifts and running.

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OK, I'm starting swimming lessons in about two or so months and well...I have a HUGE ass. I'm talking massive. I know there's not much I can really do about that because none of the rest of me is fat so I'm guessing it's just the way I am. But I'm really self-conscious about it as I have super skinny legs and then this huge ass!! Sso has anyone got any good excersizes or tips for toning it up and improving my self-confidence?

you could maybe do butt lifts which are basically when you put ur knees on the floor and hands on the floor (like a dog) and lift your legs up so your butt feels tight. if you do about 30 of those each night on each leg your butt will become sore (a good thing) and maybe it will work.

good luck!

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Ok, so i have this guy friend and we're not close or anything, we're just friends but he always touches me and tries to hook up with me and stuff and it's really obvious that he wants to get with me. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. to be really honest, i have big boobs and I'm pretty sure thats why he wants me so bad. But I'm not sure.... He always puts his hands on my legs (really high) and around my waist and rubs my arms and like puts his arms on my stomachh and pretends like he's about to feel me up, (he thinks i think he's kidding but i know hes serious....) does he like me or not, and what should i do/don't do???

Well...if you want to know if he really likes you or not you should tell him to stop touching you all the time and then see if he still acts like he likes you without touching you.

and do you like him??

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ok. so there's this guy i really like but there are like 3 problems:
1) he likes some1 else
2) my best friend likes him too
3) he's not into me (i dont think)
i dont kno wat to do, because he's really hott.
HELP ME!

Well, if you only like him because he is hot than you are liking him for all the wrong reasons. are you friends with him? Would you still like him if we wasnt cute? would you still like him if he was really into you and he was available?
think about those questions and get back to me

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Ok, well I kinda like this kid Anthony at my school..but i don't really know him ..well liek we're not friends..but he's becoming friends with my friends. The other day when I wans't at school he was asking about me...and now my friend is trying to hook us up. She talked to him and he said, "i want to get to know her, before i ask her out." Well alot of people have gone up to him telling him I like him..when I told them to stay out of it...so i was thinkin what I would say is: Hey I know you've been hearin that I like you..but i dont really know you, so do you wanna go to the movies with sum people this weekend? so we can get to know eachother...Do you think that is a good idea.. my friends say he'll like the fact that I have ballz to talk to him and ask him to go to the movies. Do you have any other ideas of what I could say...please anything would help, b/c I dont wanna cum off as a total ass!! x0

I think what you are planning to say is perfect!

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ok well tonight I went to this party type thing not a big one but big enough...well there was this guy there and we started talking and he was helping me play pool and stuff and i dont know i thought we clicked...and i sorta started to like him but the problem is hes 19 and im 14 is that bad? Should I just stop before I get myself into trouble? Thanks

Ok, well i do not think you actually like him. i think you are dazzled by him. He is older, more mature, and possible cuter than the boys your age, and that is why you feel this way. I say give up the 19 year old and let him go. Find someone more your age. Best of luck!

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(I'm 13/f)There's this guy (lets call him M) and I thought I liked him so I told him I did and now he's my boyfriend. But the problem is I don't anymore. And I don't think I ever really did. He likes me a lot. Another problem is I like another guy (let's call him S) and I know he'll never like me back because he's really cute, and I'm, well, not. (He's into really pretty, really skinny girls)

So, what do I do?
1) How do I let M down easy and not hurt him too much?
2) Should I forget about S and move on?

(P.S. I know it said only to have 1 question per thing, but I thought maybe it'd be okay since it's the same topic?)

Well...this is tricky because you told M that you liked him before, so now he has got it in in his head that you really like him.
what you should do is just break up with him easily and nicely. say something like, "i thought i liked you a lot but i was just unsure about my feelings towards you. i hope we can still be friends" you will feel much better afterwards.
the thing about S, do not like him. you say he is only into really pretty and skinny girls, that just shows that he is an ass and really shallow. you should not like someone like that.

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What age do you think is the best for having a first boyfriend? :)

well, it depends what a "boyfriend" means to you. I think maybe about age 11 is the youngest. but it depends what you do with him.

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is there anyplace i can find a crochet bikini prefferebly in a brown and a black, olive green, and a hot pink

ps. i'd appreciate it if you didn't tell me online stores like victorias secret cause i ordered two things from there that didn't fit me and had to pay shipping and handling lol to sum it up please don't tell me online stores cause i don't know if they will fit

thanks ♥

Hey...try billabong or pac sun in the malls

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