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Im a really cool person who loves to talk and give advice.i love volley ball and soccer and im makin all As and Bs in school(finnaly)!!!i am currently single and supa excited to finnaly be in highschool!-anyway I am really good at writing and really want to wright a book but i know i dont have the patients for it. ive been through alot of stuff and im still here so im thankfull for that. i truelly hate people who constantly complain about the things they have because they want something better. Kids are much more fortunate than many people in other contries.they should be proud they have the freedom they enjoy and the beautiful life they live. i apprciate everybreath i have and every day that i am on this earth living the good life i live. heres some advice to people who need it now. if you have a problem always ask for help. dont think you can solve any problem on your own. youll just make the situation worse. also dont think less of yourself at all. some people dont understand that u are as powerful as the most powerfullest person in the world if you just beleive in yourself. feel free to ask a question because i will answer!!!!!!!!!!!! lots of luv ! peace!!!!!!!!!!

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Ok I was wondering what to say to "friend" like if he or she say things such as WHAT'S COOKIN GOOD LOOKIN & things like that. I don`t need advice on love i just want something that rhymes & that is cute just like the rhyme above.

Thanks in advanced! :)

ok dont laugh i jus made this 1 up on the spot-whats shakin hot bacon! i know i know very lame but i tried!hope this helps!TWEETY

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im really busy and typically have to clean my room alot.... i need some advice on how to keep it clean so it doesnt end up getting soo messy in the first place... any advice... also the same goes for my closet and bathroom

okay i have this problem to. first make sure everything is in order and in one place. in order to keep your room clean, after you take somthing from its place, after your done with it you have to put it rite back were it was! i know from experience your going to become lazy and not put it back because you just dont feel like it but you have to if you want to keep your room spick and span.also if you make a mess you have to clean it up rite away and not wait till later!and that will also go for your closet and bathroom. hope this helps!good luck!TWEETY

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hey, well im thinking about starting to wear eyeliner. so i have a few questions about it. the first one is when you apply eyeliner do you apply it on both the top and the bottom? what looks btter? another question i have is when you apply eyeliner do you apply it above or below your eyelashes. also what color eyeliner is best? black or brown? last thing is should i use liquid eyeliner or the regular kind? thanks in advance.

-caitt

well i would only put it on the bottom because its kind of a waist of time to put it on the top because it looks just as good on the bottom as it does on both.okay you put it rite on the eyeliner or if you can above it.black is so much better because it brings out the color in the eyes.sence you are a beginner you should use a pencil because it takes alot of concentracion to use the liquid because it smuges very easily!but its kinda weird because my first time i used liquid and it smuged the first time but i learned very quickly but liquid does get into the eye easier but its doesnt bother me one bit.in my opinion i think smaller lines are cuter and not thick ones(you no when you apply).well hope this helps.and good luck.TWEETY

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14/f..

ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh shut up, she might hear you"
-9 people are like positive he likes me.

& stuff like that.
The one bad thing, that i think he doesnt like me..
some kid asked if he liked me.. & he said, "hell no" really quick. but, my like best friend, which is guy, is like "he probaly just said that, because he doesnt want anyone to know because hes afraid you dont like him back"

do you agree with what my best friend thats a guy said? or no?
do you think he likes me?
or is it pretty obvious, he hates me?

should i ask him.. if he does? or something? like what should i do.. HELP.

omg that is so cute!ofcorse he likes you.i know from experience because ive done it like 5 times!if the guy would come into my classroom all m freinds and every body that knew i liked him would start calling my name,poking me,staring at me,and giggling like hyenas!i think you should get to try to know him-hell love that.your best guy friend i so rite-he does not at all hate you and of corse he likes you but the worst thing you could do is ignore him!good luck!and again that is so cute(talk about puppy love)hope this helps!TWEETY

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ok well im the counceler of a summer camp and at the end of it we're having this fun-dance and we have to choose a good dancing song from a movie to dance to. anything but highschool musical because another camp is doing it. and it cant have any swearing or bad stuff because theres kids in the camp.. just like from a disney movie or something like that. thanks!

how about the soundtrack from the movie anastasia? i love that movie and the songs!but if not you could choose those disny cds that have all the disney stars singing songs from old disney movies(forgot what they were called).hope this helps!TWEETY

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me and my boyfriends 1 year is coming up! and i do not know what to get him!!! i cant get him anything, calone because the calone he has right now is like 130$ , i cant get him a watch because his watch is also very exspesive and i cant aford it, he dont wear ties, hes kind of wealthy so he pretty much has everything he wants so i dont know what to get him!!!! everytime he says something like " i want that" in the next day , he buys it! does anyone have any ideas or anything that will help?!?!?

collect all the pitures you have of both of you together and if for some reason you dont have any buy a camera and just start taking pitures of you guys together and take those pitures and make a little scrap book or better know as a memory book.you can creativly decorate it with ribbons and sparckly stuff(unexpensive stuff from the craft store)make sure to fill in the empy spaces with phrases like happy 1 year or forever and for always or i love you(just examples)if you dont like that idea heres anothr one-make a blank cd with all the songs that you both like or just him or you could fill it up with love songs that you like and think expresses your feelings about him.and you could put on the back of the cd case why you chose those songs that you do put up their.oh and inside the cover of the cd case were you put the little booklet you could put a picture of you guys together.just an idea.hope this helps and good luck!!!TWEETY

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why r u so damn cute.(your boyfriend *GUS*)

I DONT LIKE U ANYMORE!!!
DOM & TWEETY
PS: y r u so damn ugly
PS:PS: dom wrote. but tweety says to leave it up.

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I was wondering if anyone has any good ideas for a 2-5 person skit that would intrest people for 13 year old girls. Thank You

maby you could do a skit about 4 or 5 best freinds who all are really different but still good freinds and all have like personal issues with eatheir themselves or at home.then comes the drama between the freinds.one person said this person said somthing about her(you know that whole he herd she herd thing)and then the whole group splits and dont talk to each other anymore until one of the girls who had the worst personal issue gets into a deathly situation and all the other girls work together to help her out of the situation and provide her comfort.then they relize they should never had the stupid fight in the first place and make up. well thats just an idea.hope this helps!have fun!TWEETY **edit** thats because ive been through it(over and over again) and thanks.your feedback is very much appreciated!much love.TWEETY

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Hey! 14/f/california w/ "Mild" Cerebral Palsy in Both legs.

So, I really want to get into a sport,preferably a team. I am not in a wheelchair i can walk and run(pretty well). I would rather not be on a team for disabled people, but that might be might be kind of cool, i guess. I already horseback ride and i have been my whole life.
I was thinking about archery, because i have done that before in PE. But is that done on a team? So i Guess i am just looking for segestions on team sports that i could do that dont invole to much running.

Also, i am going to be a freshman this coming year an it would be nice to be on a school team but if not thats alright.
Thanks so Much to any one who tries!

omg you have to try volley ball!i played it at school my first time last year and i fell i love with it.its so much fun and theirs absolutely no running involved!hope this helps!good luck!TWEETY

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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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omg!ive totally been in the exact same relationship.you know what i told him i said look here its eathier me or her.i will not be anybodys bitch because thats exacly what hes he treating you like.he loves you my ass.that boy does not love you because if he did he wouldnt dare share his love whith anyone else.the definition of a relationship is a boy and a girl who like and respect each other and does not include three plpl.you know hes going bac to his friends and bragging.you tell him i will not let you treat me like a third will jerk and dump his a@#!hope this helps!TWEETY

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I have a great body for the most part. A lot of people want to have my body i guess you could say. But how do i show it off at school?? WITHOUT wearing like slutty clothes...lol thanx.

try wearing somthing that fills out your figure.particularly no baggy clothes.to stay away the label of slut try not to wear somthing that you know is to small for you(skin tight).anything that shows your stomach even when your not moving is to small.sexy skirts are good but try to stay away from mini skirts and shorts.hope this helps!good luck!TWEETY

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well, i'v lost many friends lately. But it seems like i'v lost all of them because of my boyfriend. eithier one of my friends tryed to do stuff with my boyfriend or they went back n told him something i didnt want them too.Now this really isnt the problem i just have a hard time gaining friends, im a shy person once you meet me n i just need advice on how to be more open to people so i could make new friends. Thanx to any1 who helps

complements are always good.complement them on their clothes or anything.like heres an example-omg i love your shoes.they are hot!where did you get them.o yeah ive been there before they have some cute stuff there but have you been to*blank* they have the most cutest purses you will ever see. just an example you can use.hope this helps!good luck and dont be afraid.always think positive!TWEETY

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For the past few months, I've been feeling sad very often. I'm 15, female, and I guess I feel sort of alone. I constantly think about death, how I don't have many good friends, and how I don't have anything I really need to be happy.

I'm also on a diet, I've lost 20 pounds, because I think I need to be skinnier.

I guess what I'm asking is, am I depressed? And do I need some sort of help? My mom knows how I feel and she is always lecturing me about it. I just want to know what I can do to not feel this way.

well it sounds like depression and i have some possible sollutions.reading is somthing you can do i know pepl say reading is boring but if you find the right book youll never want to put it down.books are kinda like a private friend which is good for a depressed person.also let yourself go.do something fun and free that you enjoy.and its also great if you do something fun youv never done before.also joining activities in your community is a great way to not feel alone.and one last thing the worst thing you can do when in depression is sit in the house and basically mope about how your deprresed.GET OUT OF THE HOUSE and enjoy life while your young.hope this helps!tweety

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...even if we give good advice people rate low if it's something they don't want to hear? Too bad we can't add a comment to their rating.

I KNOW I WANT TO COMMENT ON THERE COMMENTS!:)

my sister was being a little rude but at the end i added a ps saying sike i dont know. she gave me a one and got all mad. it was just a joke. i changed the answer completely and that rude comment is still on my feedback.
IT WAS A JOKE!! LOOSEN UP!!!!!!!!!
DOM

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i am a very shy person, even when i am around people i know i always feel like anything i say they are judging me about it! or that they are talking about me! i suppose its more that i am paranoid, but is there anything i can do to stop this!? please help its really embarrasing!

maybe your and they are juging you. that means they either dont like you or they dont know you enough. so either find new friends or hang out/ talk to yours more.maybe ask them or even someone more proffesional
PLEASE RATE
DOM

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Kay. Well me and this kid Matt are supposed to be hanging out really soon. We're like not going out but we're basically together. He's two years and 8 months older then me. I wanna make a good impression around him and stuff. I've had so many oppurtunties to kiss him, but I am so scared! I told him I hate making the first move, and I've never done it before so he wants me to do it once. When were gonna be together today I wanna kiss him sooo badly, but like how am I supposed to know when? This is bugging me so badly, cause I don't wanna do it at the wrong moment! Eeek. Advice Please. ♥♥

HOW OLD ARE YOU!?!
look if you want to then do it but i hope your not too young. you will no win to kiss him. do it before you seperate or when nothing is hapening and you are looking at each other. he might even ask you. THE PERFECT TIME IS WHEN YOU GUYS ARE IN A SILENT STARE.
PLEASE RATE!!!!!!!
DOM
PS: DONT LET IT GO ANY FURTHER THAN THAT PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (A FRIEND=DANELA)

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what's the freshman year is like? because im going
to high school next year and im scared and yeah

im not there yet but my sister is going. it depends on what school your going to. get plenty of friends and stay together!!!!
PLEASE RATE!!!!!DOM

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Hi! Well, lately my eye (bottom right of right eye) has been twitching, so I was wondering if anyone might know what's causing it and how I can stop it. Thanks.



i dont know whats wrong with you!!!!!!!!
DOM

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I was wondering if anyone knew the minumum age of workers at these stores:

Kroger
Targer
Tom Thumb
Chickfila

Also does anyone know companies that hire 15 year olds? Thanks!

just ASK ONE OF THE PEOPLE THAT WORK THERE.also chickfila hires at 14 but you'll be a janitor cleanin the stool oh yeah have fun:).
DOM &HER SIS

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My friends really think I've got mental problems! Not seriously, but it's getting out of hand. I have always been like a kid--- i still love cartoons, video games and i still talk like a kid when im not nervous; like if around my friends, Im completely myself. And thats always been a problem because whem Im myself, Im crazy and hyper. So lately, my friends and people i hardly know from my school are saying that I have a mental problem. I know it sounds dumb, but I hate it!
I told my friend that there is nothing wrong, and they all say they are just joking around when they say i have ADD or OCD, but the other people at my school dont know this. Sure, school is almost over, but I really dont want to continue with this stupid rumor! And I can't even set the record straight that I have no problem, because the rumor is based on how I act, which is kidishly. I really cant sit still or I play with things and I make up wacko words.
Is there a way to show, well sure, im not normal, but just not crazy? Thanks.
14/f

OK theres nothing wrong with being "crazy". sometimes im like that. just tell your friends how you feel. if they really care then theyll (at least) try to help you turn things around.
SPEAK UP
DOM
also if one of your friends started the rumor there not your friend and lastly who gives a CRAP what people think thats stupid. think about what you are saying before you let it get to you.
SMokey

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