Okay, so I'm in love with this guy named ross, and im not sure if i should hook up with other people to see if it makes him jealous or just hook up with nobody because i only want him. it makes me feel bad when i hook up with other guys bc it makes me want ross more but i figured he might want me more if i did hook up with other guys, and ive tried to before adn it didnt seem to work but idk i think should keep trying.
-- Danielle (on kellys username)
Most likely all you will accomplish by doing that is getting him to break up with you.
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I am going to the doctor Monday, but reading online I think i have anemia
I loose my breath
I am pale
I have a hard time breathing
I have loss of appitite
And I crave unusual things like paper, and grass
So.
Can someone please help me. Like when I go to the doctor, and he thinks i might have it. What should i expect
I hate needles. I hate them and im scared that they will need to do blood tests
SOMEONE HELP ME!
They have to do blood tests.
Just pinch yourself really hard or something like that so that you wont pay so much attention to the pain or whatever.
It doesn't hurt that bad and it's quick.
Good luck!
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me and my boyfriend had sex about 3 months ago and i still havnt got my period.I have pains in my stomach really bad and bad headaches.My boyfriend didnt have a condem on him so we took a risk.I'm 15 and i can get a pregnancy test without my mom knowing.She doesnt know i even had sex.What should i do????????????????????
please help me!
If you can get a pregnancy test without her knowing then go get one.
Most likely you are pregnant.
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in this school year, i got very popular, i have so many more frineds and everything, but my old friends are getting really pissed at me.. i dont even feel like a part of them any more .. what shud i do? :(
You could have a sleepover with all of your old friends.
Apologize to each of them and see what they have to say to you.
If they all accept your apology, then invite your new friends over too.
Once they get there, try and get them to spend a lot of time with your old friends.
BUT, make sure NOT to forget about your old friends once your new friends get there!
Hopefully, they can all start being friends and they will stop getting mad at you all the time.
Good luck!
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I'm 13/f and i really want to gain weight before school starts in september. right now i'm like a 00/14 kids and i want to be a size 0. i'm an ectomorph, so it's hard to put fat on easily. What should i do to gain weight? (please dont say eat junk food, i want to be healthy too)
Don't exercise as much.
Eat healthy, but eat over 2,000 calories a day.
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14/f
Ok, before I give you the actual question, I'm going ot give you the background.
Here it goes,
It started yesterday, it was my dad and I, watching Jeapordy, and he was making fun of all the contestants, so I hit him in the arm, but then he hit me back, I don't think he realized how hard he hits, but it's very hard. So I hit him back again, and so on, and so on. But at one point he slapped/hit my leg so hard that it left a huge hand print, and I got so mad. My mom wasn't home at the time, I tried contacting her, but she didn't answer. So I took a picture of the mark. It was ok, after that, seeing how I got out of the house for a couple of hours with my friends.Then he and my brother, came to pick me up, we decided to go rent a movie. After that was over, this is going to sound childish, but we were arguing over who got the front seat. And my dad always takes his side, so I was frustrated, so frustrated, that when I got in the back, I said "I hate you both". My dad went "Hate is an awfuly strong word." Then I went "Fine I loathe you, I despise both of you." And it was a quiet car ride after that. When we got home, I had a serious attitude, and my mom wanted to know why. That's when I showed her the picture of my leg[from earlier]. She got really mad, and started hitting my dad. Since I was just as mad, I went upstairs to cool off, and watch the movie I had chosen. When it was over, I wasn't quite as mad, and we[my brother, dad and I] watched the other movie. That was fine.
But, when I woke up this morning, I woke up an hour late, so I jumped in the shower, and while I was in there, my dad comes in and goes "Your too late, Your too late." I have no idea why, but it irritated me. So I snapped back at him; "I can still take a shower!". After I got out, my mom came in and started telling me, that she was going to leave my dad, that we don't get along, and she's leaving us both behind. She asked if I deserved the hit on the leg. Then she goes that stunt you pulled, really screwwed things up.[Refering to showing her the picture, to get my dad in trouble.] And I wasn't allowed to go, where I had planned on going. So I slept. When I woke up, my dad was leaving for work, and he said "Bye." I said "Bye." And he goes, "I hope your happy." And as I sit here now, I can't help, but believe that I was responsible for my family falling apart. My parents have been otgether since they were 14, and I feel as though I ruined it all. That I was some sort of mistake. And I don't know what to do. Does anyone know how I can fix things? I'm feeling very depressed right now,and I have no idea what I'm going to do.
Thanks for anyone who tries.
I'm really sorry.
No, It is not your fault. Your parents (from what it sounds like) were ALREADY having problems.
If I were you, I would go talk to a school counselor, grandparents, aunt, uncle, or a close friend about everything.
If you really want them to get back together, apologize to them about everything.
Say, "Mom..Dad? I'm sorry for everything. I don't want you to split up. When I showed mom the picture, I was mad and I wasn't thinking. I'm really sorry. Mom, please don't leave. I'll do anything to make it up to you and to show you both how sorry I am."
Good luck!
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My best friend of 9 years is trying to hook up with my ex-boyfriend, who is my best friend, WHO i had sex with. She acts like theres nothing wrong with it, but it bothers me. When i tell her, she just calls me drama and starts cussing me out. Do I have a reason to be upset? I feel awful!
Yes, you have a very good reason to be upset.
She has no right at all to cuss you out when you tell her how you feel.
If I were you, I wouldn't be her friend anymore.
You should not just ignore it and move on like everyone said. All doing that would prove is that she can just keep doing this same thing to you over and over again.
Try discussing everything with her one more time and if she cusses you out again just say, "Look, if you want to act this way, then fine, but we can't be friends anymore."
Good luck!
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Ok, I have had my perid since the last day of may. It has been almost 2 months and I'm still having my period. It's weird because the last week of may I had a really heavy period. And then the second to last week of June I had a really heavy period too. And now the second to last week of July I'm having the heaviest period of all. In between the weeks my period is light but I still have to wear pads and stuff. I talked to my mom and she suggested going to the doctor and getting birth control to help me regulate. Should I just wait a little longer? Or should I see a doctor right away? Also, I'm not sexually active whats so ever, and I never had been. I've had my period all of summer so far! It sucks : ( Thanks for the advice!
DO NOT WAIT ANY LONGER.
You need to see a doctor right away.
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uhh how bad is drinking for you actually? I'm 15 I drink almost every day but I'm pretty much an honor student so I don't get it what's so bad with it?
Since you most likely do not know what fetal alcohol syndrome is if you asking this question then I will tell you what it will do to a child if you plan on having one:
Fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS) is a serious health problem that tragically affects its victims and their families, but that is completely preventable. Causing a child to suffer from fetal alcohol syndrome is really nothing short of child abuse and it lasts for life. Babies born with FAS tend to weigh less and be shorter than normal. They usually suffer from:
-smaller heads
-deformed facial features
-abnormal joints and limbs
-poor coordination
-problems with learning
-short memories 1
Victims of fetal alcohol syndrome often experience mental health problems, disrupted school experience, inappropriate sexual behavior, trouble with the law, alcohol and drug problems, difficulty caring for themselves and their children, and homelessness.
Now, these are two things that it will do to YOU:
It makes your breath smell horrible.
It gives you cancer and you most likely will die unless it is small enough to get removed.
Oh and there are about 15 or 20 other things that it can do.
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This might be kind of long...
Okay so I'm a fifteen year old girl and I work at a family owned art supply store in my hometown. The store also makes school supply kits during the summer for the area schools to use in the fall. So this summer I'm helping make these kits. It's easy, fast paced and it basically just requires a good memory and quick math skills. I really like it except for one thing...this girl I work with is such a bitch. If I mess like one little thing up she like announces it to the whole world to embarass me and acts like it's the end of the world and it's going to take forever to fix. Even if I apologize and fix it myself!! WHICH I ALWAYS DO!!! Then she'll like get these other two people that work with us involved in it by telling them that I'm really stupid and like make fun of me with them like practically right in front of me! And she's always poking fun at me for being young (because I'm 15 and everyone else who works there is 17+...and I'm going to college next fall so she calls me a weirdo) and sometimes when I say things like joking around with someone else she'll butt into the conversation and say something like "that's an immature answer" or "what a dumb thing to say" or "how juvenille". Then this new girl accidentally got out too much of something and she like flipped out but she's new so she should totally give her a break about it!!! I can't like talk with her privately about it because she'd just shut me down like she always does. What can I do to like stick up for myself and make her realize she's being a bitch to me and the new girl? HELP!!!!!!!
Okay, if you aren't shy and if you are confident you can try this:
When you go to work or whenever you see her, just say, "Look, I know you think that you are so much better than me and all that crap, because you are a whole two years older than me, but can you please stop with the comments? Also, I'm sorry for making a mistake. I'm not a stuck up freak like you, okay?"
If you are shy or something you can try this:
You can write her a note saying:
I'm sorry if I am bothering you and that I mess up on some things. Please just stop annoying me about everything, though. I'm doing the best I can.
But, then again, the note thing might just make her laugh at you if you say what I told you to. I don't know. it depends on the what kind of girl she is. I guess you can just write her a note but ask your friends or parents what you should say in it.
You and the new girl can get together and come up with what to say to her. Or you two can help each other write a note to her. But, don't be afraid of her shutting you down. OR, you two can talk to the manager about the bitch if you are really desperate.
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ok so my mom is an alcoholic and shes gotton 2 DUI's and she's gotton in a drinking and driving accident and shes gone to rehab and goes to alot of AA meetings but she still drinks aout oncce or twice a week and the only peoeple in my house is my mom and my little sister and me, since my dad died of cancer a few years ago. and since im the oldest i have responsibilty for the family since my mom cant really take care of me and my sister. i really want to talk to her and try to live a normal life but i dont know how. i just need advice on what your opinion would be on waht i should do.
Wow, I'm so sorry. I really am.
It's good to share your feelings with a friend, but it's also important to talk to an adult you trust. A school counselor, teacher, or a coach may be able to help. You could also try talking to your D.A.R.E. (Drug and Alcohol Resistance Education) officer if you have one. You can even try and find a sympathetic uncle or aunt to talk to about it. Because alcoholism is such a widespread problem, there are many organizations that offer confidential support groups and meetings for people living with alcoholics. Al-Anon, which is an organization designed to help the families and friends of alcoholics, has a group called Alateen that is for young people living with adults who have drinking problems. Alateen is not only for children of alcoholics, it can also help teens whose parents may already be in recovery. Another group called Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) also offers a variety of programs and resources for people living with alcoholics. You're not betraying your parent by seeking help. Keeping "the secret" is part of the disease of alcoholism - and it allows the problems to get worse. As with any disease, it's still possible to love a parent while recognizing that he or she has alcoholism. And it's not disloyal to seek help in dealing with the problems your parent's drinking create for you.
If no one that you talk to can help you then you can try this:
Make sure that she is not drinking.
Relax and without sounding angry, say, "Mom? Can I talk to you for a minute?"
Then wait for her to give you her attention.
Continue and say, "I can't keep living like this my whole life. When you drink, I have to be the one in charge. I have to take care of myself and (your sisters name). I just can't do it anymore. I just want to be like everyone else and live a normal life for once. I love you but, please, mom, just please, stop drinking."
If you feel that your situation at home is becoming dangerous, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE. And never hesitate to dial 911 if you think you or another family member is in immediate danger.
I hope I helped!
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