Q: Ok, I am a 19 year old female and i like this guy a lot. I've known him for almost a year now. I told his roommate that I kinda like him but his roommate said that i am not his type because i don't party as much as him, supposedly, and he does not want me to change because of him. He obviously doesn't know me that well, but i dont know if that is just an excuse or what. There was no other reason why 'Im not his type'. Now he won't talk to me when i try to initiate conversation. What should I do to try to get him to talk to me?

Q: I made some muffins the other day, and sprayed some Pam on the muffin trays before putting the batter in. Whatever butter was not covered by muffin batter burned onto the pan. I've scrubbed it three times in a row, but it will not come off, yet it still feels slightly sticky. Does anyone have a trick to cleaning burned butter off of a pan?

Q: I have an annoying canker sore on the back of my tounge and it is driving me crazy. It hurts everytime I talk or eat because it is rubbing against my teeth. Are there any quick remidies to ease the pain?

Q: Hi,

i have just bought my daughter a guitar for her 8th birthday. I never had a chance as a kid so dont want my kids to miss out,. the only problem is that i dont know anything with regards to tuition on guitar so wondered if any1 knows best course of action for my daughter to learn.
If anyone has any advice that would be great

Q: I think i may be losing my company car soon so i am on the look out for car, does any1 know what is the best sites for 1, looking for used cars and 2, guide to what prices i should pay for a particular car.
many thanks

Q: I am not looking forward to thanksgiving this year because everything is so messed up. My boyfriend (of 5 and a half years) was best friends with this guy for 6 years. Now they are complete enemies (I won't get into why, it'll make this ? way too long). Well, this guy he was friends with, lets call him "dildo," has been with my sister for 2 years and they are now pregnant together so he is now in my family. So my family is all getting together and stuff for thanksgiving and Dildo is going to be there with my sister and my b'friend was really looking forward to going until he found out Dildo was going. Now of course he can't. My family says they can't both be there because no confrontations can be stirred up because my grandmother is old with a weak heart. So they (as in my mother and my sister) decided to choose to let Dildo go because he can't go to his families because they all hate him. (Dildo is an Italian tough guy who is a thief and con artist type of guy), they chose him even though he is the one that left a threatening message on our answering machine because he decided to jump to conclusions one day and listen to false accusations. I am so mad! The rest of my family would have chose my b'friend over him, but they have to pretend to be nice for my sister's sake, so they kinda gotta stay out of it. My b'friend is a Sonny Corinthos from General Hospital type of guy who if you betray him he doesn't forgive (no, he's not an Italian mobster). Now I am supposed to go over there with my 1 year old son and just leave my b'friend here at home alone. I am supposed to eat there, come back home, and then go to his family's. But eating takes so long, I'll be there so late I know it, my b'friends day will suck so bad for him waiting for me alone (we have 1 car, he has to wait). I am tempted to just stay home with me, him, and the baby and skip thanksgiving dinner altogether (I don't know how to cook birds). I don't want to spend the entire day at his family's either cuz they're all bi-polar psychos who just argue all the time. Sorry this was so long, but what do I do??? Thanks to whoever can help.

Q: okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..

so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me

Q: does anyone know any good poem sites? because i wanted to add some to mybuddy4u.....thanx in advanced...

Q: Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to

Q: I had a dream about my bestfriend (he's a guy) ok well i had a dream about my bestfiend this is what happened:I the dream we are like 17 or 18 still i high school.(but we really ar 13&14)we were on the phone then he asked me to come over and i did.Then we were in his apartment hanging out.Then this wome around the age of 40 came over.I openedthe doorand then he(my bestfriend) asks me to leave so i do but i come back and i see them 2 having sex!!And when i see him at school (in my dream the next day)im am so mad at im and i yell at him and push him but he is still there then h grabsmy shouldes and looks me in the eye.that all im cofued i dont know why i was s madcn you tell me what this might mean.thanx

Q: hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
i will rate high

Q: Okay well i was walken downtown with my 2 friends today and this druggie/badass was down there and he called over this geeky guy called Josh and all of a sudden he starts beating him up! i was so scared i didnt know what to do.. he almost started to cry and before he left he said im callen aaron (the cop in our town) and my friends r like dont tell him we were here. im afraid hes gunna tell the cop and he'll ask me and somehow it'll get back to the badass and he'll beat the shit outta me .. im a gurl btw and he hits girls and stuff and he like knows how to set up bombs n shit cuz he put a bomb in our school one year.. if the cop does ask me shoudl i say i witnessed it?

Q: I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help?

Q: my best friends mom is realy rude. Liek we were supposed to meet up w.her @ the mall bc we were shopping and she was @ the movies. She called and left a message on my phone since my friends was dead to say she'd call us @ a quarter to six because the movie started @ 4..by the time we got the message it was past 4 so we didn't call bak. @ 6 we were heading to the front of the mall to get picked up and she called and was being really rude to me and was like "I want you guys at the front of the mall NOW" and stuff and made up something about my friend was supposed to call her @ 5 oclock..but the message said 6!! i erased it too..so we didn't have proof..and like she constantly argues w.my firned and her sister when i'm in the car or @ their house and shes nice sometimes but other times shes just so rude and i don't feel welcome and we were watching a movie that i brought over and her mom started it and wouldn't rewind it so we didn't get to see the begingin! and it was MY MOVIE! i wanted ot leave her house..but anyways my question is..i wanna go places w.my friend and go to her house and have her come over mine..but i don't wanna ride in the car w.her mom or go over her house..so what can i do! my parents won't drive both ways and i can't ALWAYS have her coming over my house and making excuses not to go over hers..

SORRY THIS IS SO LONG! i'll rate yall 5's just for reading it

ps- whenever i'm riding in the car w.them either going somewhere or coming back...her mom always makes me feel like i'm troubling her

Q: My friend moved out to Colorado a year ago. I'm 15/f and he was my best friend. Yesterday he told me he had sex for the first time. Which is totally different from when he lived here. He never would have done it. I understand that he changed because of the different people. I get that. But, its just the fact that sometimes, when I talk to him online, he's drunk. And alone. When he's sad, he tells me he WANTS to be drunk. I'm afraid I'm going to lose my best friend.
What should I do? Just get over it?

Q: hey, im making an xanga cuz i like to mess around with profiles and stuff. but like what is it used for and what can i do to spice mine up with out downloading things. or like how do i put better things in it. but is it just to like write journal entries in? or is there more u can use it for..

Q: Ok, I have this friend who I've known since like kindergarden, and she started to hang out with the people who I absolutly despise. They (I'm sure of) are using her, just to get back at me. Becasue they hate me to. So one of the girls she is haging out with, started to call me a Lesbian because me and my friend (who is a girl) were walking down the hallway locked arms (which I think is harmless). So my friend started to belive it. I thought she knew me well enough to know I'm not. I love boys I flirt with boys not girls! OMG she got me so mad. Well anyway the rumors stoped because I set everyone straight, but my firned is acting like nothing happened! She didn't even apoligesed to my face! How am I supposed to deal with such a back-staber!?. Plus I don't want to loose her as a friend. But right now, we are kinda on the edge of ending the friendship! PLEASE help!

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