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I'm Jessica. I'm dedicated,truthful,honest,crazy,messy,hyper & real."I'm so happy because today I've found my friends there in my head"-Nirvana
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ive had my period 5-6 years now and its still really irregular. also im pretty lazy basically im a couch potato haha but whenever im on my period i always have like urges to work out. is that normal/common?
I hope so. I get like that too & if its not normal we both have a problem.
I'm pretty sure it is. =]
My mom & I are really close and I usually tell her everything. I'm 17 and been with my serious boyfriend for almost a year now. We've just started having sex and it's so hard keeping it from my mom. She thinks I'm not ready & haven't been with my boyfriend long enough. I feel I am and have no regrets. Should I tell her and risk having to leave my boyfriend because of her reasoning or keep this one personal thing from her?
Well the "right" answer is to tell your mom.
But If it were me, I wouldn't tell my mom the age started sex, until she thought i was ready for sex or years later.
But you can always tell you're mom, you've already done, it so its not like she's trying to save you're virginity & Maybe she'd realize that you do love you're boyfriend enough to loose it to him.
But you didn't mention if you lost your virginity to him, i assumed it.
Okay so i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 17.(he just turned it about a month ago, and i am turning 15 in November).
We are seriously crazy about each other, and if you want to say that a 14 doesn't know what love is, then i'm the next closest thing to it. We've been together for about a year (16 days shy). We want to be together forever. Yeah, you can think we're crazy, it's alright. lol. What i'd like to know is, is it normal to feel like this at an age like 14, and is it realistic that we could last forever?
I'd say its normal to feel that way after you've been together for a year.
Its certianly not impossible for you guys to stay together forever, Its realistic. It hardly ever happends. I'm not going to go put doubts in you're head, because I can't read the future. So just keep until it last.
If it doesn't work, then it wasent ment to be.
In my own opinion, at 14 you can't be in love, but I believe you can stay with a person since age 14 & realize when you're older you're in LOVE.
There is this one song from a band that I like, but I only like the very beginning of it, and it's only the one song. I was just wondering if anyone could listen to the part of the song up until where it starts screaming, and tell me if you know of any other bands that sound like that.
The band's myspace is www.myspace.com/akissforjersey
The song is the second in the playlist.
Thanks!
Well, I'm no good at suggesting songs/or groups.
Maybe you'll like
Tool
A perfect circle
Evans blue
There some I like & i KINDA liked that song, so you could try.
what is the best kind of moisturizer for guys that have oily skin and is fairly cheap?
You DO NEED it. Okay, don't listen to the person below, me. You can go to Target or walmart, & buy cheap moisturizer, Its for people with oily skin. When you have oily skin its important to use A cleanser, toner, and moisturizer.
what's a site i can download It's Gonna Be Love by Mandy Moore free? i don't know a lot of sites i can download songs from, so if you know any sites i can download from, i would really appreciate that too. but i'm looking for It's Gonna Be Love at this moment.
I'll upload it for you.
http://www.sendspace.com/file/gf6dfy
Go there & download it.
Hope you like it.
Hiya,
I have a big acne problem!. It started when i was 13 and i am 15 now and it hasnt cleared up and i havent noticed any changes. The acne is on my back and chest :- on my back it is mainly just spots and some blackheads but on my back its all blackheads and lots of them. I wash twice a day with exfoliating scrubs and cleansers and i even had tablets when i was 14. I was on them for 3 months but they were not working. My problem really effects me and makes me feel more insecure than i already am with my body. I really need someones help and advice, it would be much appreciated.
Thanks alot.
Chloe xx
Exfoliating should only be done two times a week.
Other than that use a cleanser for you're skin type (dry, oily, combination). If you have oily skin you should also use a toner. Then Use lotion. You can get body washes for acne, use them neutrogena has a good one. Use oil free makeup, (many girls with acne dont look good with makeup) Drink water!
Heres a message board link that has all kinda of acne topics.
http://www.acne.org/messageboard/
I have an old red sharpie stain on my white pants. ive used many stain removers and the stain has went from red to orange and now its yellow. How can I get the rest out?
Put bleach on top of the white spot. & let it soak on for a few hours. When you're going to wash it add "SHOUT" [stain remover] or something in & wash it.
That could help, it helps me get stains out of white clothing.
How long does it take for birth control to become effective so that a condom is unnecessary?
A condom is always necessary.
So theres this girl in my grade, and i am trying to figure out whether she likes me or not. here are some reasons why i think she does
~She always waves to me
~She told me to call her once when i got back from vacation to ask how it was
~ when i called her she said a greeting so quickly its as if she planned it.
~she asked me if she saw her wave and from the bus.
well> do you think she likes me?
Well, she could. But girls are weird, so you never know. You said you guys were good friends, so why dont you ask her? If your too shy to ask her, write a note asking. I think she'll say yes. If she does ask her out, [if you like her] since you guys already have a friendship.
Well i have this really good friend who means A LOT to me.
But she likes my ex boyfriend.
The only thing is i like him but then i dont like him it switches off.
WE have gone out a few times but then we broke up twice.
Im just scared i will start to like him again.
I dont want to let my friend down =[
PLease help me.
f/13
Therefore, you still have semi feelings for this boy.
I'd tell you're friend, You too seem to be close she's told you her crush so she trusts you. & You said she means alot to you. So I think you should tell her "I know you like [name] But I think you should know I still have some feelings for him" & if she's a good friend, she'll talk with you about it, Make it a Win win situation for you guys.
You're not letting your friend down, you still have your rights to like a guy who you brokeup with 2 times. Sometimes it takes awhile to get over people, specially at 13, when you're still getting used to only half of the world.
In high school, do most people carry around their bookbag? Or locker when they need to? I'm just scared that my class will be like across the school when I need to locker.
The highschool were I live, You don't.
But it depends on the highschool rules, Each school has different rules.
I just met a girl online at espinthebottle.com and she is 13. I gave her my phone number and she called me and we talked for like 30 minutes. Is it possible that this could be an online predator trying to get to me?
signed,
cluelessCPU
Start getting careful on the net please. :]
Its ALWAYS possible.
well im 13/f and i haven't gotten my period yet. i guess i have big boobs i'm almost a B. ALL my friends have got theres but i dont know when i'm going to get mine, i hope soon. help me...
You wont want it once you get, so enjoy your free time now. You'll probably get it around when your mom did. Don't go by your friends there all different. or your boob size.
I found out yesterday... i have a diseaseon my ovaries. and i might not beable to have kids when i'm older. and it upsets me because it is going to be so hard for me when im older to try to have kids and if i can't have kids. the doctor told me there is a slight slight change i can treat my problem but can't cure it. not alot of people know and i don't want them too. but my question is.. when i'm older do you think having a boyfriend that really wants kids, jeopardize my relationships?
It shouldn't. You always have the chance to adopt & plus I'm sure you will find a guy who will be willing to give up having children with you. Make sure you let him before hand, that you can't have children, any guy diserves to know that.
17/f
My bf who is 19 lives in another state because he's going to college there. He came back for the summer and we had sex for the first time a few weeks ago. Then I didn't hear from him for a few days. I called his parents and it turned out he'd headed back to college already!!! Why didn't he say goodbye? Why won't he answer his cellphone now? Was he using me? How could he just do this to me after 2 years together? What's going on? Was losing my virginity to him a mistake? I'm sorry there's so many questions I just don't understand!!!! I thought what we had was so real!
To start off, If you wanted sex, he would not have waited 2 years.
Maybe he thinks he messed up during it? Or maybe he scard himself?
Maybe it freaked him out? I'd calm down & A little, theres nothing to much you can do if he wont call you back.
Why don't most girls like it when guys say that they are hot. Isn't that a compliment? What's the big deal?
Some girls just want, to be called Beautiful.
some girls think that hot means, really nothing. Beautiful, gorgeous, pretty..ect. Are more "meaningful" or "powerful" words. Then just "Hot".
My friend has a problem ...she cuts herself and nobody can seem to help her ne advise that i could give her to make her stop?
You can't tell her ANYTHING in this world, that would make her stop. You NEED to tell somebody at school, Tell her parents or her family members. They need toget her some help. Tell somebody, it could save her & help her in her life, no matter if she'll get mad.
You got a good chance to help you're friend here, so steal that chance.
14/female
Hey,okay so I just found out this girl that i "thought" was my friend went behind my back and told this girl who wants to fight me a whole bunch of stuff. Cause me and her used to you know just talk about how she hated me and i was like i could care less and stuff. And i am extremley mad right now! does anyone know how i can confront her (my so called friend) please i need help soon and fast!!
-AberFitchhyy-
First off, Calm down. & Then don't go about on confronting her. Ignore it, She's already rude enough to pretend to be you're friend. Don't make the situation worse on you're self.
Ignore her. I'm sure you have other friends, or way more nicer. & Whiles she acting all immature and starting stuff, Just brush it off your shoulders & don't get all upset about it.
Don't fight her, its uncool really & you'll just get yourself in trouble over some girl who wasent worth your time to fight anyways. & she probably can't fight either, if she could she wouldn't try to be "acting cool" & saying she would.