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This girl that i thought was my friend..


Question Posted Friday September 1 2006, 4:33 pm

14/female

Hey,okay so I just found out this girl that i "thought" was my friend went behind my back and told this girl who wants to fight me a whole bunch of stuff. Cause me and her used to you know just talk about how she hated me and i was like i could care less and stuff. And i am extremley mad right now! does anyone know how i can confront her (my so called friend) please i need help soon and fast!!


-AberFitchhyy-


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DearChrissie3737 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 2:37 pm:
Hey. Well first off I know you're probably really upset right now but don't let it get to you. I would just completely blow off both of them to be honest but first I'd confront your friend and ask her why she did this. Most likely she will lie or cause more drama so just blow off them both. Even if she gives this sob story that's deffinitely not a friend. Don't fight the other girl either no matter what and know you're the better person. All this drama is ridiculous and don't let it get to you my friend :-). Find new people to hang out with and if you already have other nice people to hang out with stay with them. I hope this helped a little and please give feedback.
Chrissie

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MelLeDisko answered Friday September 1 2006, 9:03 pm:
Well, first of, you need to calm down and just take some breaths. It won't help if you're all raging mad or anything. Just call your friend or sit down with her sometime and ask her why she would go and do something like that to you, especially to someone who wants to fight with you and hates you. If she just starts creating more drama and getting all upset and not trying to resolve the situation, I would just back off of her and the other girl and just leave it be. You shouldn't devote any time to drama, it's a waste of time and of your life. And I would suggest not hanging around with that girl anymore if she's just gonna backstab you to people who hate you.


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Nobodys_Girl answered Friday September 1 2006, 8:22 pm:
First off, Calm down. & Then don't go about on confronting her. Ignore it, She's already rude enough to pretend to be you're friend. Don't make the situation worse on you're self.
Ignore her. I'm sure you have other friends, or way more nicer. & Whiles she acting all immature and starting stuff, Just brush it off your shoulders & don't get all upset about it.
Don't fight her, its uncool really & you'll just get yourself in trouble over some girl who wasent worth your time to fight anyways. & she probably can't fight either, if she could she wouldn't try to be "acting cool" & saying she would.<3

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trailer_trash_girl_XXX answered Friday September 1 2006, 7:12 pm:
Hey!
I know how you feel- my "best friend" did the same thing to me... and I was really mad...
What you need to do is just sit down with her and tell her that you don't appreciate what she did to you.. If she acts like a snob.. then she probably isn't even worth the time to try to remain friends with..
Whatever you do.. just don't lose your cool when you're talking to her- she might start making fun of you.. like my "best friend" did

Hope I helped, hun!
&hearts; God's Girl

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