When you would like me to give advice on sex please include your age. It makes it alot easier for me to respond.
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My brother "phillip" who is 13 years old, is so evil to people that are handicpped and obese, So is my mom. My mom also goes gets drunk every night and leave my grandparents to take care of us. phillip can be nice sometimes if he gets his way. so what can i do to help my brother and my mom with their problems? (link)
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You seem to have a great heart on you even though your brother and mom do not. People that are obese and are handicapped are the same as you and I. We all have feeling's and hurt just like everyone else. your brother needs to talk to a school counselor. Maybe he's just acting out. As far as your mom, No child needs to grow up with that kind of lifestyle. Is it possible for you to stay at your granparents on a more permanent basis?
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please could u tell me what prison sentence someone will get for sexual abuse on a child of 10 years old (link)
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Honey the fact that your asking this question bothers me.... infact it bothers me alot.... Has someone sexually abused you? or someone you know? you should report that immediately and dont you worry that person will get a long prison sentence and then when they got out they have to register as a National sex offender so that this will never happen again.
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im 15 and im a bit worried about my brother
one day i went to the bathroom and i caught him
masturbating he was just in his underpants
he got really embaressed and ran out and now
he tries to avoid me all the time and im not sure
if i should say something without him getting embaressed another thing he's 11 and is it
common for 11 year olds to masturbate? (link)
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It's a very common thing for boys and girls to "experiment" at that age. Your body's starting to grow and change more and along with that comes hormones and feeling's you've never had before. My advice is to forget it ever happened. It will spare alot of embarassment for your brother. -Hope this helped-
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Hi I am someones friend and Im using there computer and I really need to ask a question but theya re sleeping so I just decided to ask anyways....
Well I hate myself and I tried hanging myself like 3 times.. am I crazy?? (link)
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Honey, No you are not crazy. you need some professional help that we at advicenators cannot give you. Are you depressed over something? Nothing is worth killing your self over or even trying to for that matter. You have your whole life ahead of you. If you ever need someone to talk to.. you can e-mail directly at precious7882@atiwave.com
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My husband has panic disorder and has suffered from panic attacks his entire life. He is on medicine for them now, but he is having a hard time holding a job. I love him dearly but am afraid if I stay I will never have anything, and I'm afraid of the judgement that will be passed on me by my family. I love him and don;t want to abandon him, am I crazy for staying? (link)
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how old are you? becuase you seem very immature for even caring what kind of judgement your family or anyone else for that matter will think of your husband. You knew this was worng with your husband before you married him right? and obviously then u didnt seem to care about what your parents said about his disorder?? My advice...... you seem to care more about material items than your on husband.....he's better off without you.
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im 13 and my penis is like 2 to 3 inches is that about right for my age
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Every boy's "package" can come in all different shapes and sizes. You are still at the age where your penis still has enough time to grow longer. As you get older if you feel insecure about the size you can always change that with "special equipment" commonly called a Penis Pump or some med's.
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wats pms mean pleeeze help
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pms stands for pre menustral syndrome. It is what your body goes through the week before and during your period.. {times vary} pms can make you feel grouchy, tired, and irritable. During your period, you may experience headaches, stomach cramps, and leg cramps.
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i have a boyfriend well two actually the first one i live with the second one is just a guy im trying to see if him and i can work or not there are things lacking with the one i live with so im not sure about the second one but he is pushing me and he promised he would not what should i do (link)
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If you want to pursue a relationship with someone else thats fine! but break off the realationship your in with first. That guy doen't deserve that. **How would you feel if the shoe was ont he other foot and it was your live in man out tryin' to cheat on you?**
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Well first of all...everyone of my friends are having sex now and im only in the 8th grade...i'll b in high school in a couple months and everybody will be trying to get me to have sex??...should i just try it ..like everybody else..or just tell them that im waiting for a special guy?...but the point is ..is that if im goin out with a guy i might think he is the right guy and go for it but i know we wont last long..will sumone pleez talk to me? (link)
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You should never have sex with someone just because that's what all your friends are doing. That's something that you can't take back. Wait till you love someone and are with someone that loves you back. It will mean so much more.
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O.K...i knew my friend liked this guy at our school & he had wanted me to go down on him & i was like no i cant do that..then 1 day i was walkin home & he had asked me again...i was thinkin & i asked him did he think my friend wouldnt mad & he said they werent talkin..(mad) & i was like well O.K.so after i got home i felt bad & told my friend..she said she was very disappointed & that our friendhip was frozen! So she got all mad & i was like whatever.see i had also did 1 of her other friends guy too. but ive done him before & them goin out didnt change nothin.(he said)They simply told me i did somethin they wouldnt do! So whats the big damn deal!!..what should i do??? (link)
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Not to be harsh, but could the next time you ask for advice please include your age,.... it makes it alot easier for people to give you advice. Okay so i'll try... if your younger than 18 what are you doing anyway giving out blow jobs so freely to boys? and to a boy that was real close to your friend? Im thinking the problem is with you honey not the other girl. Are you so insecure about yourself that you fell like you have to do this to guy's? If they respected you they wouldnt even ask you to do this.
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i would like to remove the odor of cat urine in some padded fabric, any advice? (link)
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I have found this works really well. Buy a bottle of *RENUZIT* Fresh Orchard Odor Neutralizer. It will run you about $2.50 a bottle. It get's the job done.
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My best friend is going crazy she is fat and she dances nasty like is someone she is not. She thinks all the guys like her and everything. She is goss and thinks about gross things that a 14 yr old doesnt need to think about like sex. Every time i say call back in like 10 min she says what u gotta do a quicky with some dude. I was like no and she says sure. How could i tell her she needs to stop and get real without hurting her feelings? Help anyone.
-SpecialSome (link)
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First of all, what does any of your question have to do with her being overweight or how she dances? If she is your friend you shouldnt even talk about he being "fat" maybe that's why she does the things she does..... because she's insecure about her self. If your going to tell her you think she needs to stop with all the guy's thats fine.... dont worry about her feelings... if she is a true friend she will realize your only telling her this to protect her. P.S. When you do this, don't say anything about her weight.
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Why is the sky blue when its a pretty blue day outside? (link)
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Hmmm I dont know but I do think I know where you might can find that answer. Take a drive to Goldsboro check yourself in Cherry hospital then start asking them these questions then they'll give you lots of medication.... get you all doped up then someone will come to you that no one else can see and answer that question for you.
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is a fish a good pet? or is a dog better? i cant decide, people help me!!! (link)
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A DOG IS BETTER! but they require more love, patience and a strong stomach { in case you live in a are where you might have to pick up "poop" {lol} but.... out of that you end up with a pet that willll always love and care for you. i've had my dog for 3 years and I honestly dont know what i'd do without her.
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Is there a site or downloader I can download music but not have to pay to download it or get caught? There are so many songs I want but I won't download just to be careful. (link)
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www.winmx.com
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My dad recently quit his job. He didn't like the managment or something. It's been like 7 months or so and I'm worried that he won't be able to find one and we will run out of money soon. I'm also worried because my dad doesn't do anything all day while im at school. I used to come home everyday and find him sitting there wastching the TV. Thankfully he's starting to get out more and do things. Is there any way I can help him find the job he is looking for? (link)
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Find out what kind of job he would like to do if that's possible? There is a website you can go to and put the information in as to where yall live, how far he is willing to travel to work and what kind of job he would like. www.careerbuilder.com good luck!
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My bf loves me so much and he says he wont make me have sex with him, but he says it all the time. Is it just me or should I feel like I'm a bad girlfriend for not haveing sex with him... I mean Hes saying I dont have to but in his mind i know hes saying 'i want sex, i mean we've been together for 3 month,.. havent you kept me waiting'. I guess my question is, what should i do,.. should i do what my heart says and not have sex with him because i'll be breaking my religous promise, or have sex with him so I can keep him? I know I'm making it sound like hes a bad guy bad hes not hes a sweet heart.... (link)
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NO! NO! NO! A true boyrfriend would never keep bringing up the sex thing. Never in your life should you do anything that your pressured into doing the best advice that I can give you and hope you will use in life is: IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL WAIT UNTIL YOUR READY.
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Yeah, so I don't usually ask questions, but I'm curious as to what you all think I should do.
I've been thinking about, er...going all the way with my boyfriend. I'm sixteen. He's seventeen, turning eighteen in late May. I know I'm young, but...eh. He hasn't been pressuring me at all, so that's not an issue. He loves me, I love him, we're planning, if all goes well, to live together when we graduate. I trust him and everything, but I'm concerned about the risks involved. I could get pregnant...I'm not worried about STDs because no one in either of our families has ever had one. Oh, and we're both virgins, in case you couldn't tell...Lol. I'm also just thinking...my mom has always told me "if you ever want to become sexually active, you should come to me so we can get you birth control. I wouldn't be happy with you, but I'd get you protection. If you ever got pregnant, I'd make you have an abortion." I can't imagine actually talking to her about it. It would be so horridly awkward, and she'd be so unhappy with me...My mom and I are fairly close. I'm also not sure if I'm ready. I mean, we've come close a few times, and I sorta panicked. I've just been thinking about it more lately and it's starting not to freak me out so much. What should I do? (link)
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Oh! I hope you get to read this!!! I am 21 yrs old and was in your same shoes when I was 16... which was not that long ago. It is very important that if you decide to have sex with your boyfriend that you do it because YOU want to....not for any other reason!!! Also, you can go to the health Department and get on birth Control without your mother knowing if you feel to uncomfartable to tell her. The service is FREE of charge and they will in NO way contact your parents. Another thing, just because neither one of your family members has ever had a std doesn't mean anything. Sex is a very big step and not something that you can take back! Make sure it is with someone you love and someone that you know love's you back.
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how do i get a girl friend (link)
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How do you get a girlfriend? Look toward girls that you think you might have something in common with.. Get to know a girl before you run up and say, "hey wanna be my girl?" Doing it like that will most definitely get you a "NO".
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I have been adopted twice. I know my original birth name and would like a copy of the original birth certificate. The Texas office of Vital Statistics says they will not let me have it even though they know it exist. Does anybody know how I can get a copy of it legally, without having to change my name back to it? (link)
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It depends on your situtation and the situations of that of your biological parents.. I would also think because you are over the age of 18 that you could make an appeal to a judge against the va office to turn over the documents...maybe you should try that? Good Luck -nevaeh
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