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is it my fault
O.K...i knew my friend liked this guy at our school & he had wanted me to go down on him & i was like no i cant do that..then 1 day i was walkin home & he had asked me again...i was thinkin & i asked him did he think my friend wouldnt mad & he said they werent talkin..(mad) & i was like well O.K.so after i got home i felt bad & told my friend..she said she was very disappointed & that our friendhip was frozen! So she got all mad & i was like whatever.see i had also did 1 of her other friends guy too. but ive done him before & them goin out didnt change nothin.(he said)They simply told me i did somethin they wouldnt do! So whats the big damn deal!!..what should i do???
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you is one cold hearted female i'm going to say female insted of the b word hell naw fuck it you is being a bitch and you don't deserve any friends you stupid bitch how can you do that if i was yo friend i would have kicked yo ass.
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Whoa. I don't think you realize how serious this is -- the fact that your friend liked this guy is the least of your problems.
So here's this guy -- whom you don't even like especially, as far as I can tell from your letter. He wants oral sex, and you just give it to him. Why? It seems like you've gotten into the habit of letting guys use you for blowjobs, and you're not getting a damn thing out of it.
Stop servicing these guys. First of all, it could be very dangerous: you can't get pregnant by giving blowjobs, but you can sure as hell get all kinds of nasty STDs, including AIDS. You are worth more than this, okay?
Oral sex is sex. It's not something you just hand out on your way home. And you shouldn't feel like you need to do that kind of thing in order for guys to like you -- it doesn't work, anyway, and you wind up losing friends.
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Not to be harsh, but could the next time you ask for advice please include your age,.... it makes it alot easier for people to give you advice. Okay so i'll try... if your younger than 18 what are you doing anyway giving out blow jobs so freely to boys? and to a boy that was real close to your friend? Im thinking the problem is with you honey not the other girl. Are you so insecure about yourself that you fell like you have to do this to guy's? If they respected you they wouldnt even ask you to do this.
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put your friends b4 a guy, put yourself in their shoes and look at it from their point of view...
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Now I get it, it seems that you DEFINITELY did soemting wrong here. 'What's the big deal'? COME ON! What do you think? You never should have done that no matter who it was to, and I really don't feel like saying much, as many other people have answered this. I still am having troubl undertsanding what you wrote, but form what I can make out you should be grovelling and begging for forgiveness.
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Do what you think is best for you and your friend. Dont do something that your mom wouldnt, lol is this to bad? Im sorry but i hope this helps.
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