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I have this guy friend and we are like best friends no dout but I knida really like him and everyone thinks he kindof likes me. I dont know if I should go out with him or not because his guy best friend likes me too and I dont want to ruin thier friendship or our friendship
Please Help::f/13::I rate high (link)
well first of all see if he wants to hang out, like on the weekend ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something, then if it feels really weird doing that, then i dont think you should go out with him, but if you guys have a really good time hanging out then def take your friendship to a relationship. if anything, itll make your friendship stronger. xox Renee


me and my bf had sex and after i was in pain down there and i realized i was bleeding and it wasnt from sex i than looked and it was a part of my vagina close to where the penis is inserted and a piece of skin was split in two i was wondering is that normal? (link)
if it starts to bother you more and more go see a gynocologist. but yes its normal just wait till your not sore down there to have sex again. xox


I am trying to intall my Sims 2 and when I got to the 68% part it says like voice1..w/e was not able to be located or something like that can anyone help me!!!!!!!?? (link)
like the other person said, buy a new graphics clip because the one thats on your computer may not hold enough for sims 2, because i know that sims two takes up alot of space with the whole thing being ran on dvd player.


ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together? (link)
i would say 15. yea around 15 i think is the usual time when teenagers have sex.


14/f my boyfriend is 17 and we had sexaa coupel of monthes ago but like nothing went in just like kissing with a clthes off. But I asked him if he wanted to have sex yesturday and he said no and whe n I asked him why he said becuz he didnt want to hurt me. But the thing is he had sex with his ex gfriend when he was 16. Well all I want to no is why did he have sex with her and he doesnt want to with me..He hurting me say that he doesnt want to have sex becuz he doesnt want to hurt me... plz help (link)
the only reason he said that is probably he doesn't want to hurt you meaning if you guys do end up having sex he doesn't want you to get really attached to him if you guys ever broke up, plus hes 3 years older than you, so its kinda iffy on that part of you guys having sex. but its not a big deal if you guys dont have sex, as long as you both like eachother sex isn't a must!


OK so my boyfriend got me a lot for Valentine's day and all I got him was a teddy bear. I cant think of anything else to get him. If anyone has any ideas at all please help me!! Thanx so so so much , I rate high. (link)
i'm sure your bf loves candy, buy him his favorite bag of candy =D its a cute thought! xox


ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!! (link)
well you shouldn't be scared, if he fingers you and stuff you shouldn't be super tight down there, plus guys like it when your tight. but sometimes the first time is the worst because it might hurt but by the third time you should be good. so all i'm sayin is that it shouldnt' hurt and dont get so worked up about it either. xox


ommmmgooooodness i have a hickey the size of a shot glass and i just got it like an hour ago lol... first hickey how to hide it besides makeup which ive tried..and it burnnnns baddddddddddddddddddddly :-/ ThAnK u! (link)
hey, next time dont let your guy suck you so long lol. but okay if your hair can kinda cover it up then that will be good, or a sweatshirt maybe. i dont know what else to say for covering it up, i dont think makeup should burn when you put it on there, but then again, it probably would. so yea try a sweatshirt and maybe if your hair is long enough try leaving your hair down. but yea next time, if you want to do thru this dont let your guy give you one. xox


okay, i have a friend, and i'm really close to her, we've been friends for a really long time and i just love her to death! almost like a sister! but anyways, just recently she told me about her boyfriend...he doesn't want her to talk to any guys, and he says if he ever catches her, he will kill her and him...and he's not just bluffing, he is really serious about the killing. also, they recently had sex for the first time, and the day after he wouldn't talk to her, but then he said "i'm sorry, come over to my house after work" those were his exact words! he wanted her over there so they could have sex. he won't wear a condom unless she threatens him that they're not going to have sex unless he does. also, he gives her hickies and she asks him to put them in places that can't be easily seen so she can't get in trouble, but when she asks him to he gets mad and bites her on the next, hard, leaving big places, in visible spots. i'm sorry this was long, but please help.
-concerned friend (link)
sorry but thats no boyfriend at all. your friend needs to realize that the relationship between her and him cannot work out, i know that they might really like eachother and may say that they love eachother, but being in a relationship doesn't consist of sex then the day after not talking then having more sex, biting, fighting all that crazy stuff. guys are sopossed to be really sweet and nice, but he doesnt' really seem like a good guy at that. sorry. talk to your friend about the guy.


hi i am fourteen years of age and i have never had a partner, which means ive never been to any of the bases!! is the first kiss always the worse? i dont know what i am supposed to do when i am going to kiss somebody, like what your supposed to do with the lips, teeth, and tounge, and i am scared! i dont want to feel akward when i really suck at kissing..and im not really talented!! someone please tell me what i should do! (link)
well once that youve found someone and you both do end up kissing, i dont think that the guy would care at all even if you mess up, which is the slimest chance for that to happen, but dont worry. if the guy really likes you he shouldn't care about anything like that, he should be happy that your learning with him ya know? but the first kiss isn't always the worst! it could be your best because it might really mean something to ya ;D


what exactly is eating a girl out? (link)
well hm, i wonder, when a guy licks down ther on a girl. yup. yeah. thats it. uh huh.


First of all thanks to everyone who helped answer my first question

my girlfriend is being a little cold to me lately and i'm not sure why. i mean she might be doing it just to tease me or because she's trying to break up with me. we also haven't talked in a while since we have both been so busy with school. i'm not sure what to think. i know that valentine's day is coming up so she might be doing it just for fun or she wants to make me dump her. i dunno what to think. Please Help!

Thanks!

Confused Boyfriend (link)
think positive! dont think that she'll break up with you because you dont want to be depressed about things, so in other words, she might be doing it because of vday. suprise her with something for valentines day or something. the best thing that i suggest for you to do, is when you both aren't busy, you go to her house/or the other way around, and talk about things that have been happening. just say whats on your mind and i'm suer that the truth with come out. xox


my boyfriend is so attached to me. he walks me to every class he sits with me everyday at lunch andtalks to me on tehphone every night. How am i supposed to miss him if hes always there with me.What can i do to make him not so attached to me? I want to be happy and excited when i see him. (link)
aw hun, how can you not like that! but anyways, you can just tell him ithat you need a little space, but not in like a breakup or anything like that, just tell him in school you got things to catch up on so that he doesn't walk with you everywhere, and when you call him/he calls you can say that your going to go to bed early or do your homework then go to bed. dont be so mean, be nice about this, then if you dont see him/ talk to him for a while, you will be glad to see him and talk to him later.


um i need help !
ok so today i asked my mom if i can go to maryland which is pretty far away from were i live well prollly like a few hours anyway i asked if i can go there because i wanna go to camp in the summer w. my friend and i would have ot start asking now fro her to maybe say yes well when i asked she said no and she was like thats how u get raped i was like no its not and we started fighting .. what can i do to let her let me go to camp i really wanna go !!!


-xoxox- (link)
well try to get a few of your friends to say to that they'll go to camp with you the same time and everything. and if their parents say yes, have them talk to your mom about letting you go. it usually helps, but maybe your mom doesn't want you to go away for a long time. she still may consider you as her little baby still, but still talk to your friends, and their parents. then hopefully you'll go. i have never gone away to camp but when my friends come back from it, they miss camp and everyone that they meet, so i think it would be a great opportunity! xox


Me and my friend keep trying to hang out with these kids and they say that they will come nd then when the day comes they never show .. i dont get it .. they get all excited abuot coming over but then they just never come .. idk what there trying to say or if there just finding better plans or what? idk .. help please (link)
i think that their afraid of saying that they dont want to come over or something, so instead of actually coming out to tell you the truth, they just dont do anything at all and forget about you, trust me, i know how you feel. have you asked them what happened or anything like that? whatever goes thru your mind when you say that, just say everything on your mind, because most of the time it will be like, well you made me wait the whole day for you guys, and u just ruined it. and i think they should get the hang of it and they'll feel bad, but you know what, dont get so worked up about them, go out and do what you want to do, dont waste your time waiting for them! but i hope ive helped. xox


ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh omga this is getting on my nerves. my best friend is acting so weird latley. everytime i call her she makes up some excuse so she doesn't have to talk to me. latley she has been hanging out with all of these 9th graders. we havn't been friends for a long time but we have nown each other for awhile. i don't no whats her problem please help me. (link)
maybe she doesn't want to be friends with you, or shes mad at you. this is what i think, i'm not being mean. talk to her in school maybe or go to her house to talk to her. xox


Ok i talked to this guy on the internet and he goes to my church and i have never seen him b4...well last night i asked him if he wanted to go skating and i would meet him there...well he said when he saw me he was about to die...he said i was an ugly ass bitch..and he said that it was a waste going there...i told him that if u dont like me for who i am then we shouldnt talk or be friends...well i gave his sn to my friends are now he is hitting on them...he said he was gunna call me tonight but i am not talking to him...he can talk to my friends..i really like him because he is cute...but what should i do? stop talking to him? because all he wants is ppl to do it with...and i am not that kind of girl...if he dont like me for who i am and who god made me then we dont need to be friends...so what should i tell him??
Thanks!! (link)
this is why girls dont talk to strangers on the internet. i hope you've learned your lesson. dont talk to him at all. tell this guy to f off because your better than that, i know you are. so do whats best, forget him completely


I have known my best friend since pre school. but its like all of a sudden i don't no him. hes starting to smoke and drink. i don't want to be around that because i have had enough of that b/c i use to do that till i got help. i don't no how to stop him. if he doesn't stop i don't think we can be friends anymore what do u think i should do? (link)
yea its always hard to see your friends that youve known for a really long time doing that stuff.. but i think its just a fad for people to do, you do it, and then you realize how immature that stuff really was, the best thing i think for you to do is just to talk to him about it, and he needs to know that maybe if he still keeps doing it, your going to loose your friendship together. and if he hears that he might stop because friendship means more than anything. i think that should get him under control and see whats best for him. xox


yeah...uh i dont like to go in my room. its not fun. i dont know what to do w/ it. i cant repaint the walls or get a new bedspread....my walls are white, light blue, and yellow. i have a VERY high ceiling too.....im 13/f. any ideas??? (link)
maybe, if you can, hang posters and pictures on the walls, or switch your room around, move your bed and your dresser and everything around, it might make your room look bigger too. xox


i like this boy and i alawys see him in the hallway but he knows i like him does he do that on purpose my friend says that they do (link)
so this boy you see in the hallways all the time knows that you like him, yea you know what, most likely he does it on purpose because he knows that you like him, maybe he likes you too =), maybe... talk to him? xox




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