Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
E-mail: eric.april@hotmail.com
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Location: strykersville, new york
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Age: 30
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Ok so this guy started to like me but i didnt like him...he started to like me the very first day we met and then the second day i started to like him he found out by my friend!!! And well he asked me out and i said yes!!! Do you think i should have waited or did i do the right thing?
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If you like him a little and then he asked you out. If you din't want to date him you should have said no. but you said yes of there most have been some feeling toward him. If you feel that you made a mistake just tell him that you only want to be friends with him. Your both still young.
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Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
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Well they will ask if you have had sex. They aren't suppose to tell your parents anything that you say to them. Don't be scared. IT's better to be hontest with your gyno becuase if something comesup they have all the information. Hope I helped.
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To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away? (link)
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You'll get over him. Just do stuff to keep yourself busy. Hang out with friends. your not in love you, it's puppy love.
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ok i have a problem i lied to my boyfriend once and now he never believes me about anything and i want to gain his trust back but im not quite sure how...can you give me any advice? (link)
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That's a hard one to answer. It's hard to trust someone who ahs lied to you. Just give him some time and see what happens. There's really nothing you can say or do to gain his trust back. I hope that you said your sorry for lieing to him and that you will never do it again. Hope i helped.
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Im in 7th grade, and my friend in 8th smokes. she isnt a bad person at all. well, at the end of the school day, we hugged and everything, when i came home,my mom smelled smoke on me and i think she thought i was smoking,even though id never do anything like that. she does know abt Jenny and everything, but how do i convince them that im not smoking or anything? (link)
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I would just come out and tell her. Tell her that you hug one of your firneds that smoked and that how you smell like it. If the trust you they will believe you. Hope I helped.
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does anyone beside me hunt out here.
redreble (link)
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I love to hunt and do alot of stuff outdoors. Your not alone out there. Hope to hear if you get anything
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I have a coworker that didnt get any shifts for two weeks. I found out that she had been extremely rude to a customer (we work in clothing retail) so her hours were cut back. Well the boss decided to give her two shifts this week and guess what she was a NO SHOW both times!!! Me and the other girls think she did that because she was mad at the boss for not giving her any shifts for two weeks. Either that or she didnt know she had any shifts because she had two weeks of no work. But either way it was her responsbility to know if she was working or not.
My question is would that be grounds for her termination? I have a theory that after she was so rude to the customer that they didnt want to fire her but were hoping she would just go away, and by not giving her any work she would get mad and quit. I was actually surprised they gave her any more shifts at all. I asked if the boss was mad that she didnt show up and they said no.
What do you think? (link)
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Some bosses cut back on your hours to show you that you can't be rude to customer and then she wrote her in to two week. so that she could say that the boss just fired her. If she didn't show up that's her failt. She should of came in and checked to see if she was suppose to work. If she comes back the boss can tell her she's done. Amd the girl can't do anything about it.
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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this. (link)
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Please read this>>>>>>
Your making a big mistake. Having a baby will not help you. When you have a baby it doesn't love you at first. Your the one that it depends on for everything. Your the one who has to take care of him/her. even though you babysit you leave the children with there parents when they go out. who are you going to leave your baby with. Plus you can't hang out with firends alot and the friends that you have know, night not be your firneds when you have a baby. I think maybe you should talk to a counsler and maybe they can help. You might think your parnets don't love you but they do. They just show it the wrong way. If you need someone to talk to just to listen. You can email me and I hope that I can help or just to listen. May be you should talk to some of the teen moms becuase they could tell you it is hard. Plus how will you pay for diapers and cloths and medical bills and will the father be helping if not your alone. Sorry so long but I just wanted to tell you some of thing that will happen when you do have a baby. I think you should wait. Hope I helped.
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Hey Im really scared.
I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help (link)
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WEll I would tell your mom right away because that boy raped you and now your pregnant. Your only 14. You should get some help even from your guidence counsler. hope i helped.
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Okay well I went out with this boy for about 2 months and it was great I loved him I know in 2 months but we known each other for 2 years before. Well we went out and we broke up i was devestated I still wanted to talk to him and everything I cried everything. Well the last time i saw him he treated me REAL bad so after that i was disappointed in him for his behavior but I still like him like really DEEP inside. Well the other day i went to a party and this girl knows about me and him and our past and know she is his gf.Well a girl asked her who her bf was in front of me and she felt bad. I didn;t know how to feel but i didn't want her to feel bad cause I think i'm over him kind of. What I'm asking for should i feel bad about her going out with my ex even though i'm kinda over him. I don't know how to feel cause i care about him even though he hurt me the way he did. (link)
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If your over him kinda. Well the next time somesone asked the girl that question, just say that she's dating and saw his name so no one feels uncomfortable and then leave it at that. hope I helped.
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I guess you could say that i am prude...but I have made out with a guy and he has felt me up, but I am really scared to be in a situation where he wants to finger me or he wants me to give him a handjob,or do anything else for that matter.(he is my boyfriend) I just think it would be awkward and i dont know what im doing when it comes to sexual stuff. can u jus give me advice on what to do if the times comes? Sorry so long...i rate high (link)
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well if it comes down to him asking you just tell him that you want to take it slow until you get the hang of it. And when he wants to do you ask him to take it slow. until you feel comfortable with him doing it to you. You both have to communicate and tell each other if it hurts or you injoy it. hope i helped
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ok look i shave down there and wen i do like a day after there is red bumps and they hurt a lil like wen i put on my jeans and i do use shaving cream and soap wen i dont have any (link)
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WEll if it's the first time that you did it, you will get them.I shave down there and after you shave there for a while it goes away or you could just trim your self first and then shave maybe that will help.
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okay, well im a freshman in highschool and theres a Senior in one of my classes and when i first noticed him he was reallly fine haha and i got to know more about him and we talk a lot and stuff, he has a girlfriend from a different school but its weird a while ago he took my phone and put his number in it and i dont know i guess 'flirts' but im not sure what i should do and if he is just doing those things and not meaning them well get back to me thanks (link)
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Well he probably thinks of you as a friend. So that's why he gave you his number. If you want to know if it's more just call him and see what happens. hope i helped.
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okay this is kinda stupid but o well,
i BEHOND like this guy a LOT o-m-g u do not even know! Well... the thing is that i kinda of met him over the internet. But technically i did not because one of my friends has been firends with him for forever! and my best frend went to a camp with him,
well I do not know what to do? he asked for my number and he said he put it on his hand, but i am really scared that I am going to get hurt if he doesnt like me. Well i have not really met him in person ( you mite think that is crazy) but its not, I might have seen him before though. He always wants to call me but I am soo confused soo PLEASE i am begging you!! H-E-L-P!!
p.s. I kind of told him I like him because we have been talking for about 4 months now but is it creepy that i do???????? (link)
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you might like him as a friend. but if you don't feel comfortable about giving him your number then don't just tel him that you'll talk on the computer. hope i helped.
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Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop (link)
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If you would like to stop cussing, try using a rubberband on your wrist. if you get the ruge to cuss or you do pull the rubber band. This has helped my friend.
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In my Math class(7th period;last period), I sit in a table of 5 people(including me). There's only 2 girls (including me..) and 3 guys. I usually talk to the guys. But anyways. In the math classroom the teachers have phones that the school can get it touch with the teachers and stuff since the school is so big. But somehow i got the number and me and then 2 guys just call the phone and let it ring and as soon as he answers, we hang up! Lol =). And this is during class,too.With our cell phones. I know its stupid and immature but its soo funny because our teacher just gets soo mad.
I told my sister this and she started laughing. But then shes saying how i should stop because my number can come in the bill because the school gets a bill and they could call up the number(my number) and if they find out its a student then i could get in trouble. Can i really? And will blocking my number be any different? Those are the only 2 questions i have. So thanks! (link)
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If i were you I would stop. The could find out your number and you will get into trouble. The numbers are give to you so if you have a guestion or need help you can get a hold of the teacher. If you keep this up they might stop doing this and when you go need help you won't have the numbers for the teacher. you should listen to your sister. hope i helped.
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okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month now. over the weekend we went on a school trip to NYC. we had to be at the school at 4 in the morning and he seemed really distant from me but i thought that was just because he was tired. but that's how it went for the whole day. he only occasinaly came over and started hanging out with me. well then that night in the hotel my friend called me and he said that some girls were sneaking up to the boys rooms. he said that they were in the same room that my bf is in. i called his room and he answered but quickly hung up when some girl screamed. the next day he was ignoring me just as he had the day before and everyone was talking about the big orgy they had in there room. he came over to me and promised me he didnt cheat but i dont know if i can beilive him. should i beilive him or dump him? sorry its long
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You have to follow your heart. If he was distant from you when you started this trip and ended with him hanging up on you when a girl screamed, I wouldn't believe him. If you want to make it work with him, then he has to win your trust back again. but if you can't trust him again them you need to let him go. hope i helped .
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So i graduated from High School last year. And i'm in my first long term relationship. I mean of course i've said i love you and we've had sexual moments together, but i also had that with the last two...the problem is i feel different i feel like i want to give him my whole heart and let go of trying not to give him to much. I want to make things work and show him just how much i care. But in the last two relationships i got cheated on for about 4 to 6 months of our relationships so im scared...is this normal? I have been with him for 6 months! (link)
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When you get cheated on it's hard to give your heart and soal to someone that you know that is great for you. I the smae why still. I got cheated on by my ex husband and i thought that i couldn't ever find someone that would not hurt me the way he did. but I'm with a guy that i've been with for two years and were married and i sometimes feel like that he's not being faithful to me but we talk and i know that he's not going to hurt me like that. So if I were you I would give this guy a chance and don't but him in the same catagorie as your ex boyfriend. hope i helped.
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I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc." (link)
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Well you could tell her your my best friend and the things that you say to me about my looks really hurt my feeling and I wish that you would stop. If she doesn't stop maybe she's not a great friend. I hope that I helped.
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Can you get a girl pregnet after haveing butt sex with her and some cum drips on to her vagina (link)
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the best thing whent your done haveing sex any sex is to wash and you won't worry about getting preganat and you could ask him to wear a condom too. hope i helped.
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