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So i graduated from High School last year. And i'm in my first long term relationship. I mean of course i've said i love you and we've had sexual moments together, but i also had that with the last two...the problem is i feel different i feel like i want to give him my whole heart and let go of trying not to give him to much. I want to make things work and show him just how much i care. But in the last two relationships i got cheated on for about 4 to 6 months of our relationships so im scared...is this normal? I have been with him for 6 months!
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When you get cheated on it's hard to give your heart and soal to someone that you know that is great for you. I the smae why still. I got cheated on by my ex husband and i thought that i couldn't ever find someone that would not hurt me the way he did. but I'm with a guy that i've been with for two years and were married and i sometimes feel like that he's not being faithful to me but we talk and i know that he's not going to hurt me like that. So if I were you I would give this guy a chance and don't but him in the same catagorie as your ex boyfriend. hope i helped.
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It is definetly normal to feel scared out of a relationship that was unfaithful. But, what you have to do is be a bit more cautious with who you are with right now.
If you feel the need to take it a bit slower so that you can see better that this young man is really different this time, then you should take it slower. But, if you feel sure already, just take in the fact that this is a new man, fresh start, he is different and deserves a fair chance. It may be hard, but thats why you also need to tell your boyfriend that you want to be closer, and you feel that way, but you are hesistant to what could happen. That doesn't mean that you can use being scared as an excuse all of the time. Try your best to be confident, hes a new guy, so think of this as a new life. The cheaters are gone for you. But, do tell your boyfriend these thoughts, because he may be wondering or may notice something about you.
-TheTeenGirl
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that is COMPLETELY normal. no matter what other people say, that is normal. You are paranoid because somebody has hurt you before. I understand completely, and its hard to get past that and trust people, especially people that your giving everything to, because they can either make or break you. You are allowed to be scared, but test him. Have friends he hasnt met hit on him. Nobody said that was wrong O;o) good luck
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Actually, it's NOT that normal.. I guess it's "common" but normally you don't have it happen over and over to you. Don't take what they did and let it mess up your current relationship. Good luck!
♥ Melissa
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all guys are different. just because the last 2 people cheated on you doesnt mean he will. it would be normal to be scared if your last 2 boyfriends cheated on you. but if you love him and you dont think hes cheating on you i say give him your heart and he will give you his.
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