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okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month now. over the weekend we went on a school trip to NYC. we had to be at the school at 4 in the morning and he seemed really distant from me but i thought that was just because he was tired. but that's how it went for the whole day. he only occasinaly came over and started hanging out with me. well then that night in the hotel my friend called me and he said that some girls were sneaking up to the boys rooms. he said that they were in the same room that my bf is in. i called his room and he answered but quickly hung up when some girl screamed. the next day he was ignoring me just as he had the day before and everyone was talking about the big orgy they had in there room. he came over to me and promised me he didnt cheat but i dont know if i can beilive him. should i beilive him or dump him? sorry its long
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You have to follow your heart. If he was distant from you when you started this trip and ended with him hanging up on you when a girl screamed, I wouldn't believe him. If you want to make it work with him, then he has to win your trust back again. but if you can't trust him again them you need to let him go. hope i helped .
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he might not have "cheated" exactly, although it sounds like it. i meen here me out. maybe he did mess around & flirt alot in there, but not do anything to bad. i guess you gotta have a real conversation w/ him & like ask him what all happened.
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He's not treating you very well, so you should stop putting up with his crap. Even if he didn't cheat on you, it still wasn't right to include you or let you know what was going on. It's your choice, but I don't think this one's a keeper.
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hmm thats tough...i mean you can't really accuse him of doing something when your not 100% sure. The girls could have just been in there to hang out with the other guys in the room. I think that if he continues to act weird and if something like this happends again, then he is lying to you. But dont dump him right away because you not positive he cheated on you and you don't want to do something you'll regret.
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well i dontt know..you dont really have evidence that he cheated..but things arent adding up. how come he didnt have you come over to his room also? i would be very suspicious and you have a right to raise questions. stuff like this wont stay quiet if he did cheat..it will get out SOMEHOW ..so maybe investigate a lil, have your friend ask the girls what went on..
you dont have all the facts so i dont know about breaking up with him..give it a couple days and see how things go and what information you get. if it turns out he did cheat, then yes brreak up with this guy
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