13/F
I have no clue whether i'm bi, lesbian, or straight. It's weird, because I can remember liking guys. I mean REALLY liking guys, as in, my heart would beat like crazy if my crush walked by. I've gone out with a lot of guys too, but I have that problem about getting bored after a while. It seems as though my heart doesn't beat like crazy and my stomach doesn't get that tingly feeling anymore, and I miss it. I still will show off for certain guys and whatnot, but I don't feel that heartbeat thing anymore. For anybody. I don't know what this means. I'm not too fond of the idea of me being a lesbian (absolutely NOTHING against a lesbian. It'd just be weird and all of my friends are super homophobic) I've just never imagined myself that way. So, what are some signs of being lesbian or bi? Also, is there another thing that means you don't like any type? I mean, you're still friends with them but you just don't like LIKE them. Thanks :) please note that i'm NOT homophobic, if I sound that way. I'm just having a tough time typing up my thoughts.
oh goodness, i understand that feeling. i went through that stage when i was thirteen too. but just don't worry about it. try not to let it bother you so much. you probably arnt lesbian or bi, you probably just havent found the right guy. but later on you could discover you are bi or lesbian, but nothing is wrong with either of the three. just give it some more time. go out with a range of guys, because it could just be you're dating the wrong type. and when you're thirteen your emotions change constantly, that's what they're suppose to do. don't them get you down.
good luck :D
[view]
I know someone who said that they don't really "cut" but they use anything they find that's kind of sharp and scratch their skin until it's just kind of raw... but they don't make themselves bleed, they get to the point right before they would bleed. They said they feel depressed but don't tell people that because they want to make everyone happy... and they just like having the marks on them and keeping it a secret.
i would consider it in the form of cutting. obviously this person is causing self-harm to themselves, and you should try to get them help. it isn't healthy to harm your body in any way, even if you arnt bleeding because of it. confront them about it and try to get them to stop. if they won't, tell someone you know that could help them.
good luck :D
[view]
if guys think a girl is really hott, and like whatever. would they care if a girl was a bad kisser.?
bad kissing can be a turn off, even if the girl is super gorgeous. but people have many different kissing styles, i think the only bad one would be if you got spit all on his face or your teeth like bit his tongue or hit his teeth. lol but other than that everything should be fine.
good luck :D
[view]
I am 17/f and in my last year of high school.
I just noticed a boy in my class who is absolutely gorgeous and I am seriously in love with this guy. I hae class with him four times a week. I have never spoken to him before and i wouldn't know what to say. He keeps catching me staring at him from the other side of the room, it's so bad. I just really want to get to know him but I don't want to go and talk to him. I don't know any of his friends or know anyone who knows any of them. He is more popular than I am. :S
My biggest problem is that I have absolutely no selfconfidence around him, I feel like such an idiot. and i cant even sit properly in my chair coz I feel uncomfortable and like he is watching me and probasbly thinks I am an idiot.
What do I do?
make yourself stand out. talk more in class, be more friendly to the people you are around, if you don't want to go up and talk to him yourself. but if you do, that is way more effective. but, since you don't, just make sure your presence is known. if he catches you starring, look him in the eyes and smile. then turn away. as for your self confidence, cheer up! remember that who you are is incredible, and if you think that, he is bound to. and the popularity thing doesn't matter, don't let those kinds of things effect how you feel about yourself.
good luck :D
& i'm sure he doesn't think you're an idiot.
[view]
is there any easy home-made remedy for acne scars?
Thanks:)
shea butter works great. i know that isn't a home-made remedy, but it is pretty effective.
good luck :D
[view]
14/f ok so, i seem to have a thing for my ex boyfriends. well, i broke up with one of them because it didn't feel right, but i still feel attracted to him. He has a gf right now, but I think we both still like eachother. My other ex, i'd rather not sit here and bore you with what happened. Anyways, I still feel like I like him too. What's wrong with me? If I still liked them, then wouldn't I have been with one of them?
i get your feeling. i don't think you actually like them though. i think its more about you missing the attention, which is perfectly normal. pretty soon you'll find another guy though, and you'll forget all about your exes.
good luck :D
[view]
Ok so i like this guy. He has a girlfriend named Nathaly and you might of guessed i dont like her much since i like him. Well she is really gassed that she goes out with him but the thing is hes playing her with another girl. I dont know if i should say anything cuz really its none of my buisness but if i was in her possition i would hate to find out people knew my man was cheating on me and didnt say anything. So i really dont know what to do. Although i dont like her im willing to tell her he is cuz i guess it would be better than her actually seeing them. I know what that feels like and it not a nice feeling.
Uggh im like soo mad at him. I thought he was different than other guys but then again i cant stop liking him..
Anyways what do you think i should do?
i know its hard to get over a guy you really like, even if he has doing something to disappoint you or hurt you in any way. but try to get over him sweetie because if you actually do start dating him, it's highly likely he will play you too. you can find someone tons better (:
about his girlfriend, i wouldn't bother telling her. she probably wouldn't believe you unless you actually showed her that he was doing it. its not your place to step in even though you want to be helpful, it could possibly just end up backfiring. she could end up telling him that you told her, and then that might ruin your chances with him completely if you're still into him.
good luck :D
[view]
Ok lets start with the other day. I broke up with my bf for a while and he's going insaine. So he promises me that he'll wait for me. I truthfuly have no problem with him going out with someone else. But he promise he wouldn't cause he loves me to much. Then the night before last, he calls my bestfriend and asks her out!!! She's mad, and im mad at him. Should we be mad, and if so, what can we do about it?
its okay to be alittle mad about him asking her out, but don't waste your time on it. if you broke up with him, and you don't care if he dates someone else, don't worry about it. i understand why you would be mad though, but trust me, it's just a waste of time. tell him it was rude to say he loved you and then turn around and go behind your back like that. but let him know, it's not going to bother you enough to take him back. because all he was probably doing was trying to make you jealous.
good luck :D
[view]
im going out with this guy jared
and hes in seventh grade and im in ninth
hes really supposed to be in eighth though.
anyway people at my old middle school are talking bad about me and seem to think im 'desperate' cuz hes not the first 7th grader ive gone out with.
But im not desperate! i actually really liked these guys and how dare them judge me. Jared and i love eachother and nobody can stop it.
we say it over the fone, IM, text, on dates.
But my 7th grade frends think its gross, cuz nobody liked him last year.
I certainly dont think its gross because hes really sweet.
I dont know why my 7th grade freinds are talking bad about us behind out backs, especially me. Im fourteen and hes thirteen. Only one year!
Why do these poeple care so much about my life anyway??!
Dont say its becuase theyre my friends because my friends wouldnt talk behind my back like that.
They USED TO be my friends.
what would you do if you were me?
By the way its not like i have no life.
ive had other bfs, who are older then me!
haha
who cares what people think. they are probably just jealous, or have nothing better to talk about. they're the ones with no lives! if you truly want them to stay your friends, confront them about it and tell them you hate how they talk about you. and that you really care about your boyfriend and that other people's opinions don't effect you.
good luck :D
[view]
theres this hott guy adam and he gradutated like two years ago from my high school and i liked him my freshman year i first saw him a football game i thought he was so amazing he just looked like a god well anywho he never noticed me at all!!!! he was popular and i was ok i guess i was kind of geeky my freshman year..... well my junior year i was on myspace and i decided to add hiim and he wrote to me first and then we started texing each other he just wanted to meet up and have sex you know those kind of guys.... so i was like okay baecause he hott!!! well i backed out because i was scared im not a virgin i have had sex so why wasi so scared well months passed when he kept asking me to hang out with him but he gave up on me then.....just yesterday i get a text from him saying whats up? i was like wtf!!!! i thought he moved on but then he started talking nasty like he didi before like you want me to give it to???? and of course i said yes...he hot!!! lol so yesterday night he asked me to go outside to makeout and i told him was impossible that my parents would go balstic!!!! so he was like okay then..... and he told me we are gonna hang out during spring break.... so what do i do should i meet up with him i need advice about this guy.....
he sounds like a major hoe. yes he is gorgeous, but theres other gorgeous guys out there that actually know how to treat girls. this guy obviously doesn't. i think you got scared because you know deep down that it's wrong to do that with someone that doesn't actually care about you in the way you want him to. you can do better, wayyyyy better. you can kiss him as much as you want, just don't go further than that unless you are very sure about his intentions. he sounds like a player though, so just keep that in the back of your head.
good luck :D
[view]
My boyfriend and i decided not to tell anyone about us going out, and he goes to all of the other girls that he admits that he likes and blows them kisses and said stuff like hey sexy, i really like this guy, but is he worth keeping around??? I don't know so please help me.
ask him about it. say you know that you two are keeping it a secret, but that you feel uncomfortable when he hits on other girls. but i think the real problem is keeping it a secret, things will be SO much better if they are out in the open.
good luck :D
[view]
My boyfriend has this really hot friend that like and i think he likes me, i really like my boyfriend, but i don't know about him, because he flirts with other girls. What should i do?
if you really like your boyfriend, don't do anything stupid right now. talk to him about the flirting situation and see if he eases up. if he tries to make an effort, maybe you will start to notice his friend less. if you still can't get him off your mind and you notice that you care about him more than your actual boyfriend, maybe you should end it. however, keep in mind things with his friend might not work out because of the "bros over hoes" rule. but if its meant to be i'm sure it will happen. if you break up with him, do it gently. just say you feel like he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now because he flirts alot, and that you two should break up. then go from there. try talking to his friend or something. just remember to think your decisions through.
good luck :D
[view]
how else would my hymen break if i
DONT play sports
and ive NEVER worn a tampon.
riding horses, fingering yourself, even falling real hard could break it. there is alot of ways because its not hard to do, the skin is very thin.
[view]
13/f
okay so i like this guy.. uhmm lets say connor.
well connor is like the most popular guy in school.
and all the girls like him.
and i wana stick out more.
im not much of a flirt though.
and he calls my name and waves some times.
and i wave back and say hey.
but i dont know what i should do.
and i dont have the "body"... you know?
not a huge butt and not ginormeous boobs.
so what should i do?
i really like him though.
and ive fallen hard.
who says he is into the whole huge butt, and ginormeous boobs? he might like your body just fine. and you're only 13, the incredible body you want will come in a few years. the fact that he makes the effort to call your name and wave at you, shows he is interested. try to be more outgoing and even call his name once in awhile and wave. if you're uncomfortable with flirting, don't.. but if you want to and you're just scared, don't be. i'm sure he will flirt back. have fun with it, don't let it get you down or anything. dating is suppose to be fun! (:
good luck :D
[view]
I'm 15 so i guess I'm not in "love" but I have really strong feelings for this guy whos a bit of a bad boy.
Hes ll months younger than me and the little brother of one of my best friends. I thought he was gross and not worth my time for the past 3 years that I've known him until now because I've gotten to know him. Hes white. I'm black. I have straight As and am about to skip a grade. Hes failed once or twice and is still in the 8th grade [im in the llth].
I'm a virgin and have never touched a drug or drink in my life. He isnt a virgin and used to have a habit of being under the influence. He seems to be quitting and has treated me better than any other guy I've dated or liked and he doesnt try to push anything on me like sex or drugs or anything.
Hes actually looking to me to help him stop. Both of us have strong feelings for each other. Should I be with him or am I wasting my time with this bad boy?
wow, its so great that he wants to stop. you can't change someone that doesn't want the change themselves.. but since he does want change, and you two like eachother, i say go for it. age doesn't matter. race doesn't matter. as long as the feelings are there, that is all that matters. and who knows, once you step more into his life and have a bigger role, you could probably help him turn his life all the way around.
good luck :D
[view]
Ok so this little girl was hugging me on this hill and I sliped and fell right on my face. For 2 days my nose has been hurting really really really bad! The pain is so unberible some times. If you slightly touch it I feel like I need to go to the emergency room. What could be wrong. Oh yeah and my mom said I had a sun burn on my face when I came home the day the little girl huged me, but whatever I did that usally works for a sunburn didnt work so I think it was just my nose. Any ideas what this could be?
it sounds like you broke it.
if i was you i'd go to the doctor as soon as possible! and even if you think i'm over analyzing the situation, it's still better safe than sorry.
good luck :D
[view]
well when my bf and i french he still moves his mouth open and closed and idk if hes suppossed to or not but im not exactly talented at this well i just am inexperienced and i love frenching him but i feel like i cant do it right cause he is moving his mouth but i kinda keep my mouth open cause i cant try and french and move my mouth at the same time so can suome just tell me how you are suppossed to french?? thats how i think we are suppossed to and hes a really good kiser so can someone just help me and tell me he basics to frenching? i never had a problem before but now i find myself wanting to french for more than the couple seconds moving our mouths allowed and sometimes i want to really french him like more than a couple seconds so if some people could help me i would appreciate it SO much!! and i will rate
i move my lips while kissing. however, deep kissing i don't move them that much. which is probably what you were talking about when you said "i find myself wanting to french for more than the couple seconds moving our mouths allowed and sometimes i want to really french him like more than a couple seconds". also, if you are really comfortable with him, you could ask him about it. or you could just leave your mouth open and force your tongue in more. i guess that sounds kinda weird =/ but it'll probably work.
good luck :D
[view]
my best friend of 11 years past away 4 months ago. he left a child and a wife. I just recently hung out with her for the fist time. we are both very intrested in each other and wonder if he would accept us being together. is this wrong of me to be with my best friends wife? im 28 and she is 32.
if he was your best friend for 11 years, i'm sure he just wants happiness for you and his wife. when people die, they don't try to keep their loved ones from moving on or living their lives like they want to, they don't get mad or anything like that. it's not wrong of you as long as you know going into it that its a big responsibility, and that you should take the relationship seriously. just follow your heart and do whatever you truly feel is right.
good luck :D
[view]
I feel my older sister is becoming anorexic, she is 36 and getting into modeling and they are telling her she needs to loose weight and she has been eating very little lately and doesnt ever sit down to eat with us and if she does she will only eat salads, but with candy she will chew and spit it back out and no one wants to believe or see that she may be becoming anorexic in mine opinion .. Please tell me if I am wrong? what should I do?
it sounds like she is becoming anorexic. i think the first thing you should do is confront her about it. tell her you're here for her and that you want to get her help, explain why going about losing weight that way is going to leave her with nothing but a terrible sickness, not fame. if she doesn't agree that she is or that she needs help, tell your parents or whoever you live with. keep pushing it until she gets help because if you just let it go, something terrible could happen to her. just make sure she knows you're doing it because you care about her, and remember not to stop trying to help.
good luck :D
[view]
my best friend is liking this one guy; lets call himm steve. And lets call her Macy.
tell her flat out that you don't like how she has changed. tell her that you hate how she keeps lying to you and ditching you for some guy. and if you have to, tell her that you don't think the friendship is going to last if she keeps putting it in the backseat for some guy. tell her you understand she likes him alot, but that it is completely unfair to keep ignoring you like that. just tell her how you feel. (:
good luck :D
[view]
|
